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molest Issue. Would You Tell ?

The society at large frowns at molest and stigmatize molest victims.I know it won't be that easy but,would you tell your man ?

And guys what would your reaction be if your babe ever told you she was Molested ?

Candid reactions please.

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I can bet you read our minds, because that would be the best thing to do.

Imagine you waking up to the refreshened morning, listening to the sweetness of the birds singing, and the next thing you'll hear is me lady telling you how she was schimmered the night b4, by a dude who Molested her. Omo e don be o. ITS OVER. no story

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Sir, tell that to the guys ooo. I have no idea why all sorts of scenarios be going on in the head.

Sort of focusing on the what ifs, what should be, and whys. .instead of focusing on the person it happened to - mental and emotional state,

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Why should a guy act paranoid because her girl was Molested? I think I will rather want my girl to tell me so that I will help her get over it.

Any guy who will act paranoid or any how because he discovered a molest past is not even worthy of the babe.

It is just like acting paronoid on knowing that your girl is not a virgin as if we still have virgins that much.

I mean it is nonsense

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who will want to

tell a guy u are not married to?

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We are talking serious relationship and connections here

Not all these 3 seconds love thing people do. If it's that case then, no am not telling.

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I would want her to tell.

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if he  is a good guy he will

understand i mean no one

choose to get molest

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@busy body

you'll be making the wrongest mistake telling him, because the only thing that would be running thru his mind is how the guy f****d the living daylight out of u. like i said your man would f**k u like an angel but a regular dude would give it to you like the world is coming to an end.

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It is risky, but I would tell him all the same, but the man would be left in a mish-mash situation for a very loooooong time, and have to deal with the general consensus that most people have, in his mind, such as:

she asked for it,

she should have not have dressed like that,

she didn't struggle and resist,

she could have avoided placing herself in that situation,

etc

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either ways he can't handle it, so why tell?

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that would be smart of you

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@ HR.hotness

Nothing would make him believe its your fault, the only thing that would run through his head is that you got schimmered and you kno the way guys are especially if its not with their girl. WILD[quote][/quote]

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I wont tell,  . . men don't understand these things, something inside him will make him believe somehow it was my fault

Revenge is a personal thing, a dish best served cold. . .

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Yes I would tell my man, merely talkin about it is part of the healin process. A real man will stay no matter what.

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yes i would tell only after i have killed the perverted who did it. on the other hand why tell a man when he only would use it against you when it suits him?

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I will feel guilty.  She's going to start acting all paranoid.

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@ sista-jay

A real man will stay no matter what.

you've got to be kiddin me!

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