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Molested : Can You Tell Your Fiance?

A pretty lady, with your relationship life going on smoothly. Your man has given you the engagement ring. Then suddenly the enexpected happened, you just can't explain it, you got Molested.

Your man is not aware but the posibility of him getting to hear about it, you cannot predict - meaning he might or he might not. The great question is - Will You Tell Him?

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Sure, Cos as my partner,he has to accept me for who I am, and if its not ok, he shld let me know before d r/ship get too far,mistakes some people make, is not to tell their partner,whc is rather unfair and this can even cause a brk up,bt if issues r resolved earlier, it can salvage a r/ship,so to me, honesty is still the best policy.

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i tink it ll be better 2 tell d guy cos when he finds out.then u ll be fire.and i guess if its truly luv and he knows it was an accident then no harm.its just livin wit the stigma

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It's painful especially for the females

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i will definitely tell him becks if i don't It going to affect the relationship

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Is better you tell than allow Him notice Him self.

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Why not! my fiance is my best friend and i bet you he brags to his friends about what an open a friend i am. I will not hesitate to tell him. If a man with whom i am supposed to spend the rest of my life with does not understand that a situation such as getting Molested was not my fault, then he's not worth sharing in my life. Thank God, it is just an engagement ring he has given. I will simply remove it and give back to him. Finito!

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I definitely will tell him. That,s a perfect time to test his love for me. If he can.t be there for me in bad times, why do i need to keep him in good times?

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God forbid it happens to me but

If it happened I will tell him. Why wouldnt I, it would take a lot of courage but I have to.

I dont think we'd have a good relationship if I cant tell him something as deep as that.

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Yes I would definately tell him.

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this are views of some ladies here

http://sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/wiveslive/2006/may/28/wiveslive-28-05-2006-001.htm

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