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What's Up With Stella Damascus-Aboderin? (After Husband's Death)

What's Up With Stella Damascus-Aboderin?

I need you all to answer this question please!

What's up with Stella Damascus-Aboderin? Ever since her husband died, she's been featured in the media doing this and that. I would have thought she would keep a low profile for a while, at least 1 year.  Or is that asking for too much?

Man, I love that girl oh, no shakin for that one.  To me, she's the prettiest thing on screen but guys, you need to have seen her at the opening of the Silverbird Galleria and again at the City People Awards for Axcellence.  She for do like Nike Oshinowo wey go hide her head after Lagos was agog with jist of her atrocities!

Please hit me back! Am I being old-fashioned here?

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Thanks Meggy. I learn everyday and that's why am on Nairaland!

But Genuine wisdom and knowledge is usually conspicuous through modesty and silence.

Happy to know you were entertained anyway.

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Why stop now…., please continue… this is not the first time you’ll be saying this sha… I won’t be surprise to see you coming back to this post – Any rumor on stella… and Jaynie is back… I will be expecting…,   As for correcting my grammar, you are still very much welcome.

I am surprised you are just close to Jaiye’s family and not Stella’s.  Sincerely, I thought you are Stella’s second skin and soul.  You seem to know who and who she is dating, what her actions implied, (as if she disclosed her plans to you before hand), and what we should expect.  But for this your last message, I have not seen Stella playing the widow thing, I see her as a young widow, trying to carry on after her husband’s death. Perhaps, maybe it’s because I have not come across any interview, genuinely granted by her, where she displays or talks negatively about her in-laws.  If there is any, I will gladly want to read that interview.  And if the Aboderins feels they are insulted by Stella’s actions,… they are free to make public interviews and statements, it will saves you a lot of bleating on a public post like this.

Same level intellectually?,  we can’t be, we can’t even be.  Continue to live in your illusion that you are better off intellectually.  I'll say it again; I don’t need to impress you.  Je suis content avec mon ecrite dan nairaland. And if your level of intelligence, does not teach you that bitterness, envy and being one sided on any issue is not a virtue, it does really confirmed the fact that we cannot be on the same level, intellectually or otherwise.

Jayie, please take your own advise and do all the above.  It will make you a better person, not just subjective but objective in all works of life.

I know you’ll be back, so am expecting……….

Au voir

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Thanks meggy 11 for understaning where I'm coming from regarding the English. And you're right - 'no knowledge learnt is wasted'! By the way, your English looks fine to me!

Glad to have contributed to your entertainment!

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Since this is the last time I will be responding to your messages apart from correcting your English, let me take each point one by one.

Stella: To use your ‘Pull Her Down Syndrome’ (this recurs often in your messages), the way I see it, going back to my original topic, your precious Stella is the one that’s guilty of this syndrome. She deliberately gave the world a false and negative impression about Jaiye’s family (and as a reminder, that’s the family I’m close to, not Stella’s) because she wanted to play up the ‘widow’ thing to gain sympathy and attention for herself. She would have gotten that anyway but she decided to pull that family down to paint a picture of the beautiful young widow with the evil in-laws, rising above all challenges and doing it all on her own. Till today, the Aboderins still get undeserved insults because of this. She’s beautiful, talented and she’s a wonderful actress (on and OFF screen) which is why people believed her. But she’s no angel. That’s the bitter truth and nothing can change it.

Our discussions: Clearly we are not on the same level intellectually so I can’t continue this discussion with you – it’s not challenging or stimulating for me. In other words, I’m done with you, Datope as far as this topic is concerned. When I feel like it, I will correct your English when you address me so that you will continue to improve.

In conclusion, I advise you (seriously) to do the following:

1. Work on your English (and French if you want to use that, but I suggest you master English first) Oh, and by the way, it’s ‘repondez s’il vous plait’ and not ‘reprendre sil vous plea’ so if you are trying to impress with another language, you need to get it right.

2. Develop yourself intellectual y – read books, newspapers etc so that you will learn to present your arguments clearly without resorting to insults. You will notice that (unlike you) I haven’t used words like ‘silly’, ‘ignorant’, ‘devilish’ ‘full of strives’ (whatever that means), ‘jealous’, ‘ envious’, ‘bitter’, ‘sucker’, ‘failure’, neither have a told you to dig a grave and jump inside or go to hell and you know why? Those childish insults don’t mean anything. On my part, I have only stated facts about your writings: childish, immature, bad English.

3. Take a ‘chill pill’ – calm down girl!

That’s it for now – I will only reply you with corrections of your English if at all (my French isn’t as solid as my English but it’s way better than yours!).

Follow my advice and the only way to go is up. Ignore my advice and it will hold you back.

All the best.

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Very interesting guys.pls continue to entertain us.

@Jaiyne, i must give it to u i have learnt some things from you and as you know, no knowledge learnt is wasted so thank you.

@Datope, we are actually not writing GCE or WAEC but we learn everyday so don't get upset, afterall english is a borrowed language.

You guys should keep it coming and on a lighter note,Jaiyne,pls feel free to correct my mistakes i really wanna learn!!!

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Oh - will do the corrections on your last write-up later - I've got to dash! Glad to be of help.

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Let's face facts Datope, your English is terrible! Yes, pidgin or any other language for that matter, is allowed in nairaland but there is life outside nairaland! No doubt you would have shot and will continue to shoot loads of 'bullets' in your everyday life. Unless you face facts and address this matter. There is no way it won't hold you back in life. You would never get far if you were working in a serious company speaking that kind of English. Get a copy of 'First Aid English' and of course, a dictionary (not too advanced so that you don't get confused) and study them well.

Don't hide behind 'hating me' and fighting for Stella - she is getting on with her life in spite of our exchanges and she doesn't know you from Adam! Face your problems - improve your English and do as much reading as possible so that you can develop more intellectually and learn to state your case without throwing childish insults at people.

Let me know how it goes. Actually, you don't need to let me know anything: if you continue to write in pidgin, I will know that you're not developing yourself and will feel 'honoured' though disappointed (for your sake) that you've chosen this method of communication because of me. If you choose to write in English and there is an improvement, it means you would have taken my advice to better yourself. Don't 'cut your nose to spite your face' or 'throw the baby out with the bath water'. (I hope you understand those expressions). In other words, hate me if you like but work on improving yourself - it's for your own good not mine!

Good luck!

NB: I will correct your grammar anytime you're brave enough to write in English, especially when you are addressing me. This is how I can help since you really want me to be your pa.

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Guess what! you’ve just been confirmed a failure,   

Sorry…. You lost the opportunity of being my Personal Assistant.  You are not well packaged inner and outer…. Explains why you can’t hide your hatred and jealousy to your fellow human… (But you can be an assistant on Nairaland to please read thru and ensure all myall t's and dot the i's as usual -  )

Too bad.   Responses in my bad and pidgin English make you crazy…. I still don’t need to check or even correct them.…….  You are not worth it. oh! you are even assisting to do that.  Makes it easier for moi.

I may very well continue with pidgin English. It’s an acceptable means of communication on Nairaland…,  But there's no need for me to continue,  (As my P.A. on Nairaland, you can easily go thru and correct all errors in my bad grammar)

I only want you to use your brighter grammar to assist. I don’t have one! Not even in Secondary school…. I also find it very difficult to use the dictionary myself,  You see why I need a P.A?  But I don't just need a bad belle person!

Unfortunately, my limited English is killing you softly…. Please don’t take rat poison o.  Haters can repent and still make heaven!

Please correct all wrong tenses as usual and revert in 45 sec. Who knows, You might still be considered as P.A to Yar’Adua, he is back in the country… or do you still need the big, very big, shovel?

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Hiya!

Would love to be your personal assisstant and help you improve your overall packaging (inner and outer, especially inner - ie make you sound more sophisticated etc). Unfortunately honey, you can't afford me.

But let me see how I can help. Let's look at a few things:

1. You can't hide your bad English behind pidgin English - nairaland knows the extent of your English grammar.

2. But yes, I think it's great that you are choosing to communicate in pidgin English with me - obviously you are so much more comfortable with it! (You sabi am well well!)

3. I can see that you are giving us different options for some words to make it seem as if your grammatical errors could be deliberate - it's not working.

4. To re-emphasise my second point, yes - you definitely flow better in pidgin and also you will not be exposing your limited English that way!

Smart Girl!

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Let’s face it Jaynie, I don’t need to impress you with my written language, on nairaland or anywhere.  You don’t deserve it.  If you only know my present level, you won’t talk of having shots or holding back in life.  Let me tell you again, I don’t need to use dictionary, Brighter Grammar- and oh, thanks for reminding of “first aid” for whatever purpose and  I don’t even need to edit my write-up on Nairaland… those books are yours to use – you are free to continue using them, please use them properly before posting a thread on nairaland.

Are you now hiding the fact that hatred is your other name? Thank God you know Stella is getting on with her life in spite of all the negativity you’ve expressed on Nairaland, despite your claims that you are close to the family.  Please learn to post on nairaland without showing devilish, silly jealousy and envy to a fellow human, that way, you might be honoured with good responses – perhaps edited and devoid of errors and bad tenses…. 

Please read through and digest properly.  I don’t mind getting your response tomorrow – You can have the whole day to browse internet, check dictionary, brighter grammar, first aid etc, to present an error free reply.  And please do not forget to check for errors on mine too and reflect such as Usual – You need to at least make a good impression of yourself.  It is not good that the only thing you are known for on Nairaland is Envy, Jealousy, bitterness and strife against your fellow human.

How good of you to do this pour moi! It will help me to concentrate on other things… but ensure you do the job properly. You did not impress me the last time. Merci…

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Madam English, Please be my Personal Assistant.

I need you please to correct any mistake, mistook or is it mistaken on my write up below:

1. Make you go marry, No jealous madam Damascus abi na Damascus, again, you hear.

2. All the thing wen you talk say wan happen never happen, after Jaiye die, you talk tire say make we dey watch, I never see anything, except for rumour, wey be like say na you spread am.

3. No be you, wey "he" call "herself"- closer to the family supposed come nairaland come dey yab stella.

4. If you no repent of all your hatred, if you die, na hell fire straight, no busstop.

5. You no wetin, I get good mark for English, Waec Mark am well for me, You no reach fit correct me.

Please, put the above in correct form abi or na foarms and make you ensure you don't use "brighter grammar, dictionary or Microsoft Dicho" to correct anything, I am giving you just 30sec. Otherwise, you don fail,

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Thank you madam English!

I was not writing waec, jamb or communicating with someone that need me to promptly and correctly dot my i's or cross my t's. You are nobody, an ordinary hater! who find it difficult to cover up her hatred and jealousy. I don’t need to be meticulous in my writings to you! Anything goes for haters!

You can sit down all day with a copy of your “Dictionary” and Common Mistakes in English to correct my grammar. Makes no different about how I feel about you!

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Okay – ‘madam know-it-all’, I’ve been keeping quiet while dodging your insults and ‘bullets’. I think it’s time for an English lesson now:

1. ‘Stella Damascus’ - its Damasus

2. ‘I want to give you an advise’ - should read, ‘i want to give you some advice (with a ‘c’ not ‘s’) and you can’t ‘give an advise’, you can only ‘give advice’

3. ‘In other word, get a life’ should read, ‘in other words’

4. ‘get a life and stop making innuendo about another man’, should read ‘get a life and stop making innuendoes about another woman, (she’s a woman or you can say ‘another person’)

5. ‘not at loggerhead’ - as your ‘oga lawrence’ said correctly, its ‘loggerheads’

6. ‘there is and will always be an excuse for every deserved insults’. Should read ‘there is and will always be an excuse for every deserved insult’. (no ‘s’)

These are the main ones. There are a few others but we can find ways to justify them. And I’m sure you now realise that the ‘advise’ you used in several places is meant to be ‘advice’. Can’t go into the grammatical details love, sorry – no time.

So at least your English will improve a little more after your exchange with me.

The moral of this story: Before you insult people make sure your English is solid!

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Please know that there is and will always be an excuse for every deserved insults. You would have thought of being insulted before displaying your envy and bitterness towards Stella Damascus.- It shows you don't behave in a mature fashion.

Sorry, I can't ignore an overflogged issue, especially when such is directed at me.

Thank for the unsolicited advise. But let me also advise you again that "To avoid being insulted at any time; stop displaying bitterness and envy towards your fellow human". It does no one any good. - God bless you too.

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Datope, reacting to 'negative reamarks' is still no excuse for insults! Everybody has a right to their opinion and also a right to discuss whatever they want. Anyone who feels that the issue is overflogged or doesn't want to know should say so or ignore the comment.

Lets all behave in a mature fashion - there is absolutely no excuse or need for insults!

Take care and God bless.

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Oga Lawrence,

Thank you very much o. Really, I am not at loggerhead with Jaynie or anyone on the forum for that matter.

It's just that there is need to react to some very negative remarks and write-ups.

Afterall,

Nobody Holy Pass.

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Whose attitude may limit progress in life? Your coming to a public forum to talk negatively about another man or my advise to you that you should get a life for yourself and concentrate on your own marriage? My latest advise to you, get a life and stop making innuendo about another man, it will definitely limit your progress in life.

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Awwwwwww, what a shame! It's such a pity when people have to resort to insults to get their point across. This sort of attitude may limit your progress in life. This is my humble advice to you. In the meantime, if anyone has any civilised/positive comments to add, I look forward to hearing from you.

Datope, take care dear.

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You can't just stop making your stupidity and ignorance a national issue.

How many times was Stella Damascus accused of infidelity when Jaiye was alive. All of a sudden, she became promiscuous and cannot even sue the tabloid - Guess you are the editor of the tabloid.

I want to give you an advise, "Get a big - very big shovel, use it to dig a big grave, then jump inside. If you don't know where or how to get a very big shovel, Tell Yar'Adua - he will be much willing to help you if you tell him what the shovel is to be used for. In other word, get a life. You very much need it.

Sucker!

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"Let the dead bury their dead, the woman cannot burn herself because her husband is dead, if mourning for years as some of you want her to do could bring him back, fine, but since it cant, let the woman live her life",

Please read what I said carefully - I said 'I was happy when Stella remarried' especially for the children's sake! My beef with her has always been that she allowed the press and fans blinded by her beauty and talent to crucify the Aboderins and paint a very false and negative picture about them! And this is the family of the man she claimed to have loved dearly! That's it! Because being close to that family, I know what they went through. By all means she should get on with her life but she shouldn't create wrong impressions and try to pull people down just to make herself look good.

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Jaynie, this your hatred never do? This thread started almost 4yrs ago; at least your mindset over the matter suppose don go down; you've always ask reader on this post to watch out that events will unfold, so far non of the atrocities you claimed Stella committed has been confirmed. Biko, my people say if you chase someone and you no catcham, he better make you leave am alone. you no look at post for over 1 year and after you do; na stella damascus, na wetin?

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Hiiiii! I'm back again! I said time will tell and I think it has! When Stella remarried (Emeka Nzeribe) last February, I thought, 'thank God, the girls will have a stable family life now'. Now this marriage is in serious trouble - serious accusations of Stella being unfaithful & bossy towards her husband! Some will say 'the wicked press, they have started again'! These are grave allegations so why hasn't she sued the tabloids? I would have for the sake of my children and family name!

Or perhaps its just another 'wicked' family like the Aboderins, abi? Or Jaynie's so-called 'hatred'?

Time is beginning to tell.

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does this lanre have a Yoruba mother?

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the 3 foto is Lanre and the others are Emeka, i must be very close to stella 2 have gotten em pics!!!!

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I read somewhere she has remarried!

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emeka nzeribi-stella's new hhusband!!!! looks cute tho,

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after all, the marital vows said,"till death do us part".

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If it were to be a widower

it would have been a different ball game

The man would have remarried by now to a sweet sixteen

No one would be questioning him how long he is mourning his late wife

But a widow is destined to live in acute sense of loneliness all her life

That culture is barbaric and wicked

Africans life doesn’t have to end for a woman if her husband dies

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Let her be, she wears the shoes and she knows exactly where it pinches, mourning for a year as some of you have said wouldn't bring her husband back, is nice she goes out and forget the stress of thinking and being lonely at home.

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Reality my foot!!! Please carry on with your brouhaha!!! The issues you promised will unfold is not yet unfolded. Na wa for you o. You are telling me it's not hatred! please define me hatred different from all your write-ups and i won't look elsewhere! Please get a life. Shebi you even said you were not posting on this thread again? hatred make you come back. Now you are saying it's reality. If na Stella husband dies 4 yrs ago, una go say he never reach time to remarry?

A begi, and to say you a woman like her.

Na wah O.

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Datope, You don't get it, do you? It's nothing to do with hatred - it's all about facing reality. Because something happened four years ago doesn't mean that it the subject has to be closed! Afterall the person who made the comment i referred to decided that it was worth a mention after so long. Does that make us shallow or silly? I think not. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and allowed to express it whenever they want. Besides I know more than you do being closer to the scene. People don't get ahead in life by showing hatred - they get ahead by being realistic and living in the real world which is what I am doing!

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Jaynie, this your hatred never do? This thread started almost 4yrs ago; at least your mindset over the matter suppose don go down; you've always ask reader on this post to watch out that events will unfold, so far non of the atrocities you claimed Stella committed has been confirmed. Biko, my people say if you chase someone and you no catcham, he better make you leave am alone. you no look at post for over 1 year and after you do; na stella damascus, na wetin?

Stella has to life on after the death of her husband. Even if the escapade you all claimed stella was unto were true, by now i think she should be left alone to live her life, because if it's the other way round, the husband will only wear black t-shirt and jeans for a week and the story will be over. She has children to take care of and if she has been in showbiz before her husband death; i believe it is just right for her to go on.

I was surprised sometime ago when a family near me lost one of their children; during my condolence visit, the family offers me mineral!!! When I asked one of the children thereafter, was told they believed life should go on; since no matter what they do cannot bring back their dear sister. Such would not happen in some other family or places. Some people see by-gone as bygone and they can't do anything about it.

I wish Jaynie and whosever have something to say about Stella should just say/write it without referring to the fact that her husband dies not too long ago. Some of us will feel better that way.

My 2 cent!

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Thank you o, synderella - you've captured the situation in a nutshell! Haven't visited this topic for a year, just thought I'd check to see what the latest thread is! You obviously are not affected by the fact that she is a beautiful talented actress like most the contributors to this topic - you are calling a spade, a spade! Well done!

Compliments of the Season to all!

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stella should be left alone or wat do expect from a poor widow.

she and her kids

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oh pleezzzzzzzz u want make she start the y fat they wowo for inside house? did u ever stop to think all that activity is helping take her mind of the stress of her husbands death? aha ah if she dey house now for one yr plus u go understand shes moving on with life an ure complaining?

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We should me asking what attracts Lanre Nzeribe to these knd of women. From Liz Benson to Grace Egbagbe then to one grandmama wa dey for Abuja, and now to Stella. All these women are in his mothers age group. The boy sabi pick old or young money famous women sha! Lanre Nzeribe we are waiting for the next famous old woman in your life. There must be something fishing for him to date these kind of women.

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i know this is a tired and worn out issue now but i just want to add this for posterity. some of you are in cloud coo coo land about life generally - wishing for a life so great the whole will be at your feet. dream on guys. if wishes were horses the lovely English people say.

recently i was discussing a with a friend i have always known to be a very loyal Nigerian living in Europe. he said something that shocked me IE that if he died while in Nigeria he would not like to be buried in the soil of the country. i was very shocked. some weeks later i discussed the matter with him and discovered how scared he was about how morally bankrupt the people are becoming. some of you guys on this thread are just making his point.

some people favourite stars, celebrity or whatever they are called back there are living morally bankrupt lives it does not bother you guys. people are being callous, deceitful and manipulative, it does not bother you guys. is there anything that bother you people these days apart from money and home videos that Nigeria will live to regret. the sad part of it is that many of you claim to be religious and we are not going the Church or Godly path for now because almost 100% of you are religious in one form or the order.

a family has lost their son who happened to marry your "favourite celebrity" do you people care? of course not. she doesn't need to mourn because life has to go on & "money" has to be made. John smith an Australian preacher asked is the money you make worth the prize you pay? Jaynie is only telling it as she other side saw it but being nigerians you don't do enemies nicely you kill them.

you guys should learn how to argue and oppose with decency. what if jaynie was telling the truth? would that matter to some of you? i don't know the girl i don't know what is true or not true but you don't argue to defend people just because they are stars.

the lady has asked a simple question that you guys had amnesia about. how many of you guys would like to see your wives fooling around with guys when you have not even started rotting in your graves? guys, put yourselves in this family position

this is not a new thing in Nigeria i know just that this is being played out in the media. you guys are not afraid to sleep with someone's girlfriend let alone wives. that is what it boils down to.

nobody remembers that this beautiful manipulative girl is an Asaba girl well "schooled" in Benin. you all deserve the lives you lead with all the naive attitudes you have to life.

celebrity culture is going to ruin Nigeria as it has the part of the west that allowed it. trust me i used to work for UIP, dream works and double negative. for the uninitiated they are film distributors and studios all they care for is the figures of bums in cinemas and DVD's they shift. the seedier the society the better for them Nigeria we are watching

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Ha ha! Omogenikky and snazzydawn - alright, you guys got me there! Keep the popcorn and soda if you like but I don't think any subsequent input from me will be worth it! As I always say - 'whatever makes you happy, guys!'

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snazzydawn, hope u have your popcorn and soda ready because Jaynie has said she intends to continue ,

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this topic is getting interesting. We have two camps. Well, make I siddon watch with some popcorn and soda.

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Why wont you guys leave this SORDID topic alone? Eh?

Some woman's husband passed on, Ok now leave this thread to die!

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LOL. dont chase her jo

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Hey Jaiyne, don’t go, am sure there are other threads that would catch your fancy at NAiraland, looking forward tp your posts on other threads

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Seun come and lock this topic

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Omogenikky and datope - whatever makes you happy guys!

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"Jayne" Bye, bye. Please leave the post for good. You want supporters to follow along your lines of taught, sorry you are mistaken. I know if you are in Stella shoes you won't do better. You said Stella has been deceiving us? So how do I know if you have not been deceiving us by painting another picture of her. Please leave the post. you are not convincing enough. Loser!

It is even very obvious that you are jealous. Leave Stella alone and live your own life. She is living hers.

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Datope and Omogenikky - you guys are obviously dreamers like a good number of people out there. Stella is definitely beautiful but (I'm sorry to disappoint you!), she's no angel. You prefer to fantasise about what stella has 'been through'. You guys should get yourself a real heroine! You're smarter than this, surely? A young woman has deceived you and a millions and you've fallen for it!!! This is sad. You know what? I'll leave you to your dreams, and I will leave this topic for you - can't handle the narrowmindedness! I'm outta here! (Good riddance, abi? No sweat. Take care of yourselves)

To those of you who tried to bring a touch of reality to the topic, I say a big thank you. Minds like yours will go a long way to help keep wrongs in check.

As I always say, God is in control and time will tell.

Byyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!

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Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, Jaynie

Like you are the greatest saint on earth.

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You people should leave this thread alone, let it die!, enough of this sickening gist

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shes a cute woman.

i no fit shout.

in really inlove with her.lol

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