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When Is It Ok For A Boyfriend Of Husband To Hit His Wife?

I know people have different opinions on this issue.I don't think it's ever o.k. but some people feel that it is what do you think?

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when the Girl/lady attempts to kill him with a a big stick or gun, in short in self defence.thats the only time permitd

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what's it like to be so corny?

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I believe that a man can not be a Christian or God fearing if he hits his wife.because did Christ break the windows,seats,pews and pulpits in the church? We all know that he should love her as Christ loved the church? If you respect and love your Creator then you will respect your wife just for the sake of God through Christ.

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*yawn* you're a slowpoke.

I'm sure the same "God" you are mentioning said its ok for you to hit your wife right? Seriously just get out of my face.

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You must pray the lord forgives you your filthy language. I will pray for you all night tonight.

I believe the Shepherd has maybe lost a sheep to the other side. please hold back on your lesbian desires.

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lmao NL is a mad house

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and what kind of girl would want ANYTHING to do with a moronic brute like yourself? kori buruku re kuro waju mi.

"if the girl doesnt do her duties around the house", have fun finding that slowpoke that will stay with your sad self. mugun

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Which makes him a beast and deserving no respect!Animal!Cave man

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Because of his fragile ego is under attack!

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A man that beats jis wife is not a man,

I have no regard for such men.

But the signs are always there. A Girl should know what she is in for be4 she packs to the husbands house.

I say dump the man after the first slap.

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me sometime bash the wife with me bible! Only if she no done prayer enough!

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mamaput, with ur experience can u pls give us ur opinion on this issue

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Proud to be.Then i can afford it:

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was married?! Ok. What's your status now? Divorced?

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I was married for 10 years.

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I'll wait for married peeps to contribute. And when I say married peeps, I mean folks who's been married for 10 (ten) years- at least.

Not that I agree to wife-beating hugo hubby o.

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Sounds like a house girl you have there.

Why bother getting married.

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Me bring home the $ so she do her duties.

She cooks and cleans and performs sexy, sometimes me make er do all 3 at once. She can multitask real well. If not adder gets mean.

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what happened to your hands.

is  a wife a slave.?

HIss hiss hiss.

And what are the  required duties   cleaning , cooking sex?

you have the right to beat a wife if she has a headace?

Anyway sha i will start making my kids read here so that they will know whats a big NO

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It is occasionally ok to hit the wife when she doesn't do the required duties around the house.

this should be used as a last resort but i have a little saying

'If me ho dont clean, adder gets mean'

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@ amaka1

Chillax girl;U a black belt martial artist or sum'n?

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i agree with you,good communication is very important in a relationship

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I dont think it is ever ok for a boyfriend or husband to hit his girl or Wife. Infact I think this Idea shouldn't even come up.

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Ok kiki, now calm down and go ahead the way u like. I'm not feeling for useless arguments. U have your opinion, I have mine. U don't have to agree with everyone, neither do I. Anyway, if you can remember, I was just quotin David and telling him that I liked his words, I wasn't offending you, you just felt offended and started to hit back on me. But whatever!

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good advice i never remembered comin 2 u and axin u 4 an advice and if u know me u 'll av known i don't talk like dat well i tot nairaland is a place where u can xpress ur feelings d way u feel it and not tryin to motivate it to meet someppls standard well i guess i was wrong cos there r some ppl here who won't mind there own bizz ness and it sure ain't ur bizzness cos dats d way i felt wen i was gon type it and i ain't got to motivate it to meet u nor davids standard

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it's like you no fit understand when people try to give you good advise. Just calm down and take a good advise when you get it. but anyway u are right, cause u and ur talk are really not my business. Thanks God for that!!

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i don't know i'm just tryna find out y u won't mind ur own bizznes and reply d topic instead of u been all up in mine so i'm just wondering wat i did cos d way i talk or write is d way i feel at dat moment and i don't think its none of ur bizzness

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Ibukun u agree with him tooooooooooo y is yall on me i wanna know did i take ur bf or wat cos i don't get it

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Good talk Davidylan!!!

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If i were you, i'd be ashamed of this write-up, to sound American is not by force, believe me most born and bred in Americans speak a nd write decent English!

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decent language who d hell are u to tell me wat is decent or not, Boy plzzzzzzz u ain't my dad so u ain't got no rite to tell me nothin so maybe all u need 2 do is sit ur lil Bottom over there and shut d Bleep up cos ur Bottom is pissin me off

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true!. it is NEVER ok to hit ur husband, same goes to the ladies, dont EVER hit ur husband

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@ Kiki, pls learn the rules of decent language!

Back to the topic.

I grew up with a most important lesson; the best way to destroy the self confidence of a child or wife is to constantly hit, degrade and humiliate him/her!

When those kids grow up, dont ask questions such as; why are my children not close to me? Why are they unusually shy? Why dont they like visiting home?

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Never evr or ur Bottom is goin to jail xcept its a woman dat i don't know dumb but me i'm gon turn dat nigga in to d police

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Never not even your dog.

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I totally agree with you Seun.

@TaniCarr

And of course it depends on the situation and on my child. I remember I used to get a dirrty slap from my mom when I was badly naughty and I know that she had talked to me about that a few times before but I never listened, so I'm not angry for those slaps and they don't hurt my anymore (I mean emotionally) but I have also seen people who beat their wife or children for no justified reason, only because they are impatient or frustrated. So,those people am I talking about when I say that they are intellectually weak and primitive. Not about a mother who wants to give her child a little shock by a harmless slap, and it's important that you have tried to talk to your child before you use that method and that you later explain why you had to use physical power on him or her.

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Children are human beings and your wife is also a human being.

I do not believe in using violence on human beings unless they have been violent themselves.

Only if a senior child hits a junior child would I even consider hitting him/her.

Continued at best way to punish kids.

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How can you compare hitting your wife to hitting your child?So you don't believe in deciplining your children with a rod?

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I think that anybody who hits another person no matter if wife, child, friend or whatever, is proving in that moment that he or she is not able to argue with his mind but only with physical power and thats a big sign of intellectual weakness and primitivity.

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@ TaniCarr, anyone that hits a woman (not even his woman) is a primitive (read, cave man) b*st**rd. 'uncivil' is too light. LOL.

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I'm in North Dallas.You know 635 and skillman area?

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What part of Dallas you at? North, South, Irving, West, Webb Chapel,

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Whenn you say "civilized" do you think that those who may say that it's "culture" are uncivil?

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can one hit himselfd n be happy

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its not manlike to hit a woman

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u know wat Ibukun gurl this ain't even worth it so we kool?

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