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Can I, A Calabar Boy, Wed An Edo Girl?

Considering the distance and maybe fairly varied culture, will you advise me to extend my hand in marriage to an Edo Chick?

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First of all, I should say you are a very lucky guy for an Edo girl to decide to marry you.

You must have been successful some how. And another good thing, I noticed Edo girls are open

to marrying other tribe. So consider yourself lucky.

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It`s allright bros, i understand, afterall the forum is meant to tie us Naijaz together, talk, yap and catch some fun,

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@tkb417

Don't you understand small contextual writeups? by the way, edit the header, it sounds like swahili.

Mr lecturer, i hear you, english boy, ! as you dey so i no think sey you don finish primary school sef, u want come dey lecture me. abeg o sell market,

A for you ma sister, ami1, i wish you the best in your forthcoming matrimonial life n no mind some of this people, na busy body dey worry dem.

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Go and sleep pls is too early to wake and making mouth on public forum, you should have be more engage than a busy bee right now , wish you all the best though

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Marriage has nothing to do with tribe and i advise you go aheld to marry him if you love him,

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@ D-reloaded

i've been planning for like a couple of months, i think i need rest and nairaland provides that for me lol

anyway its going to be in naija, i had to fly back to naija n have been in naija for like a month now planning, as long as i have my dream wedding gown which of course i do, i know i am fine.

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@Poster

hey, D-reloaded posted a piece in context and you replied back throwing tantrums in vernacular. Don't you understand small contextual writeups? by the way, edit the header, it sounds like swahili.

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like the others have said, u aint ready for marriage. When ure ready, you wont come to nairaland for advice.

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Why not?

If you love her enough to withstand all the cultural differences - then why not?

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Nice jans ma man, i appreciate your brotherly advise, it`s just that sometimes, behind every nonsense, there`s definitely a sense, as you can perceive from the various response. Moreover,the real motive behind this choosen headline is quiet foggy . It`s only a witty one who can grasp it and i think it`s already raising its ugly head,

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Bros,

         The headline of this thread doesn't sound sweet, you put it as if you're TOO BIG TO BE SMALL.

 But I understand what you're trying to avoid in your family maybe you need an advice from a close friend

  who understand and also you send your people back home to do something the Igbo tradition called

  enquiry over the girl. with these your love for the girl will be matured and not bringing it here for

 every Idiots to put mouth. This is something that involves your life any mistake you're in hell while alive.

          GOODLUCK

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@topic,

why not, if not?

as long as the love is there.

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As per the dog meat matter, yes oh ma sister,a dey chop dog meat for real.That`s what makes me calabarian, my forebears have been eating this delicacy for generations, dem never die nor grow nuts.Na me go come die, ! In short i can`t wait to fall in Naija for more,

so shun da side, if u think it will only end up provokin me, U dey lie. Na rather the canivorous issue wey seems to be insultive, though, i won`t mind you coz i know you`re not right,

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Go in depth on the bolded part cos we dont "know" what you are talking about

I wonder if your girl is out asking people if it's true that your kind eats human and dog meat.

Seriously put this so called engagement to the side

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jammin' quit being a bitter bastard. It's not "cute" anymore.

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another made up tale!

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I copy you guyz and it just strange that i can`t ask her everything about the Edo people, especially the oddz u know wha a mean, ! moreso,i don`t live in Naija to get to grab more yans about this tribe, maybe someone out there could help me out, ! I might sound grotesque but remember, we`re all Africans, once in  a while, those cultural tribalistic sentiment sometimes tend to raise dem ugly heads n i guess, we just can`t overlook them.A CALABAR BOY IN THAT MATTER, ! no fears people! I think i luv the chick n we live same city,

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Who's trying to insult you? Just saying if you'd appreciate it if your girl went around asking obnoxious questions about your tribe. Wanna know about Edos, ask her family or read up on them. Why go by what bitter people have to say? Nigerians are nasty people in general, anyone that is not of their little group is horrible in their eyes, why would you want their opinion?

You still havent explained what you meant by "the odds of, you know what I mean"

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I am 100% sure your spouse will be an hermaphrodite.

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THE ANSWER IS NO

CAUSE YOU'RE NOT YET MATURED TO GET MARRIED,

you need to grow more

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If I were getting married in 2 weeks, you better believe my Bottom wouldnt be on Nairaland right now, more like going crazy with plans

Are you doing it here(The states) or in Nigeria?

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if she tickle your fancy

why not?

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very funny! if u understand what marriage is u wont ask such questions.

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You r NOT ready to marry- if u really love d girl u wont ask any advice from anyone

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of course you can except if u r not ready to get married.

I am CALABAR girl getting married to an EDO guy in 2 weeks

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