Dearest yoruba brothers and sisters, what happened to our children and future generation born and bred abroad? They are unruly, disrespectful and very wild. Those qualities are never seen in Yoruba culture and are detested to the highest order. Can we make suggestions here on how to solve these problems starting from tutoring their parents/parent.
My suggestions are:
1) If you live abroad, reduce your bills to a considerate level and make out more time to stay with your kids while speaking YORUBA to them at home. They'll always speak "phone" english as long as they live and school in America.
2) If you are divorced or a single mother, please try as much as possible to send your SON/S home to do their high school education, that way they'll learn some respect especially how to respect women.
3)Liase them with every Yoruba social/cultural group around you to help them know each other. Ibo people do that a lot, that's why they marry each other more here. You cannot operate easily without your people, the Asian will always resort to marry fellow Asian, same with latino, white, carribean etc and they always leave their chaff for you to take.
4) Yoruba groups/socialites, make sure you make your various meetings, parties etc attrtactive enough so these kids can look up to you . All the bickering and fighting should be put aside in their presence.