For any one out there am dating a nigerian guy(yoruba). He is very sensitive to me, at present he is living with a nigerian woman who he said was sent to him from another state for wife, but infortunately she cannot have any children (after many failed attempts to have), this is why we started dating. he said he is the only male child in his family andas aresult a great pressure is on him to carry the on the family name. I have children of my own and I know now he is experiecing some hardships. At first when we started dating he was coming on really strong, now he behaving weird saying that, he needs to be in charge and he can't take care of me the way a man should. I toldhim I undestand we are in it together but, Am I thinking too much or is he taking me for a ride. Constructive answers please. Am from Trinidad am not quite familiar with different african cultures.