I just saw this advert somewhere and I am wondering if that is a joke or real?
I don't know what became of them
But it was really very sad.
and the man was heartbroken for a while
The girl pretended to fall in love with him in Nigeria and just used him.When she arrived here for good 2 weeks,she refused to unpack her bags and wouldn't let the man (her husband) touch her.
He thought she was just a virgin that needed time to losen up
he went to work and Fedex delievered a plane ticket and the girl disappeared
She left him a note and phone records showed she had been communicating the lover man since arrival.
Some women can be very wicked
true. she's prolly calculating the cost of sending him home. and all she stands to lose, all the process she went through for him, all the money she spent blah blah and finally if she leaves him, it there means she will be single again and start over the process of searching all over again.
when desperation clocks in, their ears will be blocked from hearing good advises and their eyes will be blinded from seeing the lies and deception. wetin man go do.
Morenike.women are just as heartless.
haven't you heard stories of women in Nigeria who have boyfriend's over here that they wish to be with but they use some other person in the guise of marriage to come over to America and immediately desert the husband for their lovers.
It happened to my in law
We kept wondering how the man got this pretty young girl to marry him
nobody knew the girl had other plans and one day the man came back from work and she had left a note and disappeared
The man said the girl didn't even allow him to chop her
u r so right! i know one lady she went home and got married. she paid everything, the whole wedding expense, filed the papers for him to come over, paid the flight ticket, i mean she did everything for this man, just so that she will be among the "married ones" little did she know it's all a hoax from the man and his family. the man's sister even told the brother to make she didn't get pregnant, so when he finally leaves her he wouldn;t have to pay any child support. the marriage is in shambles
I know some doing that right now . . . my brother even surprised me with a similar story this morning. It seems many nigerian women here are not finding nigerian men and are returning to nigeria to marry men they hardly know in increasing numbers. I tire for them! And she was only 25 at worst.
If i had agreed, they would have married me off 4 yrs ago. All they told me i had to do was show up for the wedding since the girl was a banker with an MBA, her own car, apartment and money plus the kicker - US passport. I wasnt ready to go be a girl's plaything for the yrs i'd be in school. Marriage can wait abeg.
It is very sad.
The truth is that the babe is way older and is working. The family is well to do as well. This guy has no job. I think the family promised him a job if he married their daughter.
The drinks for the wedding was bought in the middle of the night before the wedding 'cos they were waiting for the girl's brother to bring money from ABJ
That story is not unique o
It's become very common
all those single Nigerian nurses are now going home with wedding gown in hand and marrying men and filing papers bringing them over here.
If you know any intimately,you'll feel sorry for the husbands.
Same with some who are not doing much and their wives become nurses and take on the role of a man
Many of them become babysitters while the woman works 3 jobs.
Maybe that's why when their demons double in number,they hack the women to death
I know someone that sponsored her wedding
She paid for everything
They moved into her apartment
later into her house
he drove her car
She paid for everything
The man later went on to become a high earning professional but the marriage was plagued with problems from the beginning because she who earned the money naturally determined how it was spent.
The man felt emasculated and eventually filed for divorce.
It's not a good idea for a woman to wear the pants in the family from the get go.
I can understand a woman being the provider because the man fell on hard times but being the breadwinner from the marriage's inception is not a good idea.
What I think is right is for the guy to take care of the traditional rights. Then if the babe has some money she can contribute for the white wedding assuming they are doing it. But for a guy to wait for her woman to sponsor their wedding it is not very good.
I witnessed it recently though. I will tell you later
A friend of mine got into it in naija. he refused to tell me about it. He had to use my car as his only contribution to the wedding.
The in laws who were footing the bill were ordering him around.
It was awful.