The quote above was what a male friend recently told me.
Its a sad but true situation. Alot of young women go out with married men nowadays, its even now a 'normal trend'.
But why is it normal? What's normal about lying, cheating and taking what isn't rightfully yours?
What is right about a girl spreading her legs for a married man, all for financial benefits? In that situation, what makes her different from a prostitute? Is it caused by the level of poverty or is it just plain moral decadence?
What is right about a man forgetting about an oath he took before God and man (Remember, God takes oaths seriously) and exposing his innocent wife to dangers inherent with extra-marital affairs? What is moral about refusing to pay his child's school fees while spoiling one(or more) useless girl with the latest nokia phone!
And these married men, they become virtual 'mumus' in the hands of these small girls. A normal no-nonsense married man on a good day, would smile like the fool he is, as his girlfriend 'playfully' knocks him on the head and follows it with a 'loving?' slap, something he could never tolerate with his wife.
The main reasons I have been able to reach are that;
1. Some women(though not all) sometimes let themselves go once they are married. They become unattractive and no longer care about their appearance. They also refuse to be adventurous in bed, as their children take the place of their husbands. Ladies, it doesnt have to be like that. You can be beautiful, attractive AND married! One day, those children will leave and all u have left is - U and ur Husband! You are going to be in that marriage, an average of 50 years. U dont have to to look like what a cat vomitted and run from your class reunion year after year. It doesn't require money so much as it requires planning. Planning time, money, kids, updating urself, creating time for u and him to have great sex and other stuff that make married couples tick.
And P-L-E-A-S-E guys, enough with the stories of cheating because of protuding bellies and tied wrappers across flabby bosoms. You know you can restore your wife back to her great self if u really want to! U can still court her like u did when u were dating, u can still be attracted to her like when u first laid eyes on her. U can still be proud to say 'that's my woman' , anytime anyday. You can stop her from sliding into the comfort of monotony and wrapper tying. U dont have to laden her with so many kids, and the few that come dont have to be in quick succession like goats.
God bless the faithful man who loves, keeps and cherishes his wife. God bless the woman who treats her man like her MAN and keeps him satisfied that he doesnt have to look elsewhere!
And for those of you, who delight in getting into married people's life, I have nothing to say to u. I can only preach that u change your ways.