hey guys, am really depressed rite now,afta 4 yrs in a relationshp wit this guy and a baby, i realise that it is nt as rosy as i tot,we keep having probs weneva we discuss mariage cos both families are though christians, from different denominations - am catholic and he is anglican.
i tot d wedding is supposed to be in the girl's church and i was even ready to leave the catholic church for him, move in with him to a real slum and b with him wiaeva, accept terrible condition of life with him, even afta all i went thru when i was pregnant (he used it as a weapon against me, he would threaten to leave at any slitest provocation,he insulted my parents cos he knew they just wantd to cover up the shame of my not being marrid, and worstt of all he just disapeared when i was 4mnths gone and reapeared when the baby was born)
wen he came bak and i asked for an apology, he was lyk "4get bout wateva happend tis in d past, can u prove i did it anyway" i trid to let things go cos of my daughter, i didnt want a brokn home for her so we got bak to lovin each oda bt till today,his fam havnt shown any suport, they dnt even come to see the baby and wen he comes to discuss mariage with my folks they dnt come arnd, if i confrnt him wit it of nything at all he goes off n lets me know that i am now a tokunbo chic and he was doing me a favour by marring me in d 1st place, at 1st, he realy killed my self esteem
tins now am tird of everything and i nid a breath of fresh air, so i told him off, rather rudely as i have a really bad temper sumtyms, nw i feel guilty bout it all, dnt know if am doing the rite thing, and wat bout my girl, she's going to have to grow up witout daddy always been arnd for her, and plus i feel pity for the guy and i think that mite be all i've ever felt for him - pity
guys pls wat do u tink?