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Broken Engagement: Who Should Get The Ring?

A man and woman are engaged to be married,

The man propose to her with a nice expensive ring, but sad thing didn't work out.

Who should keep the ring?

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Very true, take the ring, have lady's night out and have some fun

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The lady, except she doesn't want it

or better still

take[b] Fhemmy's [/b] advice: sell the ring and have a ladies night out

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You could sell the ring and use the money to take out your lady friends

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the ring should be the first ting u tro to him when the relationship fails why would u keep his ring u would also be blocking ur way cos as far as am consern it is a simbol of his love for u and to me it is a convant so give him back his ring if the relationship fails so that u can move on

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Do you think you will know if he gave you the same ring?men are good @ keeping such things away from women u know!

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I wouldn't wear an old engagement ring from my fiance's ex,hell no!

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So if the woman keeps the ring what is she meant to do with it?

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I think the woman shd take the ring, cos he gave it to her already

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Exactly it represents a promise to marry and if it breaks off, the ring is of no use to the lady anymore and the guy will present it to the next person he deems fit to wear it as a sign of his promise to marry

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You seems to be referring to the wedding band, remember they are not married yet and the ring, i see it as a promise to marry.

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The ring should be returned.The ring belong to the man,the man weds the woman,he takes the woman as a wife and the way he shows his commitment is by giving the ring to the one he chooses to wed.if before marriage the engagement is broken,the ring is to be return indicating a break in the engagement.

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The woman shd sell the drink and use the money to host her friends to celebrate liberation from the man

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The man should get the ring. The engagement ring was a promise to get married in the future. That promise is broken and therefore the ring should be given back.

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When you divorce in a place where there is a law, you ought to share it 50:50.

Besides, you gave the ring to her and it is no more yours

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so if you divorce your wife will you give her the house? the ring is a symbol of a union and if the union is broken y the hell would you keep my ring? i wouldnt want my wife keeping rings from broken engagements

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The ring has been given to the woman and it belongs to the woman and not 2 ways around it

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Yes they might wanna return it, but a real man will leave the ring for the woman.

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Most women would def return da ring, and most men would want da ring back.Either way

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He gave it to the woman, so it belongs to her to do as she wants

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I think she should have the decency to return it, the reason for accepting it no longer exists.

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I kept mine from my first engagaement and sold it. He gave it to me, so its mine

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So, your on my side now? LOL,

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Yes, u be correct person jare.

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GBAM,

dts d ish ryt there,uve saed it ol.

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why? it is called an engagement ring for a reason and if the engagement is called off, let the real owner should keep the ring, in this case the one that bought the ring

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I still think the woman should keep it.

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Hahahahaha.

It is just a conversation, it has nothing to do with me oh.

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I for got, the way you are sounding, are you sure

that you are not the guy in person? well if you have

for given her please kindly tell us what happoned.

Bye

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Fhemmmy

Why will she sell it.

Infact i'm done with this post.

But my friend i still stand that she shld return the dam ring fast.

Good bye.

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The woman dont have to be wearing the rings, she could sell it and use the money to have fun.

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As you are a man about to engage your

girl and you found out that she is wearing

an engagement ring given to her by the previous

man that proposed her before how will you fill.

Even the girl will not like to wear the ring

because it will scare men like me away.

Abeg where the poster they, pls tell us

who dey with the ring.

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Fhemmmy.

Ok if it is the girl fault then who will hold the ring.

I don't understand you,you have defined it early

gift and engagement are not the same thing period

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good point

why would she want to keep it anywayz?

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wrong, it is called an engagement ring, if u are no more engaged it goes back to the one who bought it

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Regardless of the price, u gave it to her and it is now hers and stay hers

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Fhemmmy,

You have defined it all that gift and engagement are different

thing, so pls i still stand that the girl shld gave the young man

back his ring simple as ABCD.

42day

Thanks man, u no wats up, the girl surpose to have

given back that ring that moment they broke up.

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it depends on the price lol

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engagement: The act of engaging or the state of being engaged. Betrothal. , Definition: pledge to marry

So with this definition, how has the ring differ from it being a gift to the woman to seal a promise to marry?

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fhemmy, Pls define gift and engagement for me.

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Its a personal choice. Either can decide to keep the ring

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impending ko, pendant ni . . . . . .the ring belong to her, chikena

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fhemmy, ure being silly. i dont 'love' her, i 'loved' her. the ring is not a gift as u say, the ring is 'full frontal payment' for the impending execution of a project. if the job is not completed to due satisfation, i get my dough back. GIMME MY RING, U bleeping SLUT!!!!

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Did you read through my post in detail before asking the above question?.  Im in a happt relationship.   Besides this isnt about me.  Learn to stick to the topic at and rather than asking acrimonious questions.

Regards

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so u want 2 be a cheat

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MY PERSON VIEWPOINT.

Whoever ended the relationship/engagement must forfeit the ring.    Now this is not a case of  "engagement ended on mutual agreement".    For an engagement to end, It must have been caused by something drastic.   E.g cheating.

If I cheat on my partner and she wants to end our engagement because of that, then I loose the ring. Period.

Regards

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its a gd one bt u spoilt it by saying he shd sell it & use d money 4 some bottles, what will happen after d effect of alcohol leave him he wont remember d sad event again? i think we shd do our best 2 save our relationships.

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Even gift they don't gave to even talk of costly engagement ring

my woman that i'm seriously in love for over a year and half now and i have not cheated on her for once

have not even bought me common toothbrush upon all the money that i use to wire on her account

every month end. They don't always have that is their problem and that is why men deal with them.

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Either of them will be unhappy holding the ring.

Do you people know how it fills to loss a loved one?

My contribution is that the Guy should sell the

ring and use part of the money for some bottles becus

keeping it to gave it out again to another girl will

keep remaining him about the previous girl and that

will always distract his attention.

For the girl she shld 4get about the ring wat will she use it for,

is it to tell people that she was once engaged or wat?

when she is no longer engage then wat is she suppose to be doing wit

engagement ring. Bone'am jo

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