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Can A Marriage Survive Acoholism,addiction And Homosexuality?

This is one of the problems facing couples.I know a man who is alcoholic,he doesn't know what to until I met him.I have tried all I could to help but all to no avail.Is there any other way to help him?

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Homowetin?dat one hard oo.

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i believe a couple can get over any problem if they both work hard at it, but when it comes to homosexuality i don't even see the need. i understand that many people have homosexual experiences before marriage, but it should be harder for a married man to give in to homosexual urges. and if he eventually does give in, i doubt he would be able to hold back afterwards.

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Alchoholism and addiction?, YES!

Homosexuality?, BIG NO NO!

I will not stay married if my husband decides to go gay, we'll still be friends and all, hell! ill even be friends with his boyfriend. Doesnt make sense for me to claim im still married when i know my husband doesnt fancy me anymore and he prefers to bat for the other team.

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No, a marriage cannot survive homosexuality. Except of course it's a same sex marriage.

The other problems can be cured with therapy/counselling.

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There seems to be a lot of hypocrisy here, especially from women. If the guy is in a marriage, then he is probably not homosexual, but bisexual. most women i know, in fact up to 80% of the Nigerian women i have dated, have had a bisexual experience. Yes, it may have been in their pasts, and not in a marriage, but let us not be so quick to judge.

With love, tolerance, patience, understanding and God, there is NO problem in a marriage, that cannot be solved. It just takes 2 willing people.

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There is no problem without a solution.

If you look around, you will find people who have been there and out.

Learn from them

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with the grace of God i can work towards other problems i.e addiction,alcoholism but with the same grace of God, therapy and what have you, i would/will NEVER work towards a marriage that breaks down as a result of homosexuality. over my living body

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no matter how broken down the marriage is,be it as a result of homosexuality,addiction,alcoholism or whatever,it takes d grace of god,i believe any home can be revived if collectively both put enough efforts,

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am not certain of homosexuality, cos i wouldnt even work towards reviving such marriage. its just a betrayal of everything which i cant think of mending.

for you to help someone with any addiction, there must be an admittance of a problem and need for recovery/help from the person before you can help them. you cant help someone who thinks he has no problem.

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