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Can He Tell His Wife That He Has A Son From Extra Marital Affair?

Can someone please answer this question please?

There is a guy married with a son but in the act of his extra marital affair he got another son from another woman , please is it advisable for the man to tell his wife at home that such happened ?. If yes how will the message be passed on to the wife OR the man should not even tell the wife at all ?

somebody please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yes.

I would be more upset if my husband had a son & I did not find out until the boy was grown. If I stay w/ my husband, then I should be a proper stepmother to the child. I do no like children being here & there that is not the way to promote or embrace family.

A man who does not tell his wife, does not trust or respect her at all. Peace.

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Well thanks for ur contribution i will tell the guy to try this and feed u back what happens

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various ways to relate the message

1 . take her to dinner and in the midst of the dinner start crying, she'll be softened while trying to console you, then you say honey i've done something wrong i want you to forgive me, then she will be angry but it will be easier.

2. do it the nigerian way call your uncle or her uncle to relay the message

3. call your pastor and confess and ask your pastor to relay the message but he must start with a forgiveness message

try any of these methods. she'll be vexed but you would have softened the landing

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