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Can Marriage To A Beautiful Woman Keep A Man From Philandering?

Yes, I asked that. I am a man and I know how hard it appears not to turn back to steal a peek at a voluptuous chic when she walks by, even as the man in question has beside him a more ravishing lady. What in the world is all this? Lol! You would see a married man running all over the place with girls not even on the class of his wife(or girlfriend) on the beauty scale. This is so not easy to understand. I plan to marry a well-mannered and comely woman I'd love in every sense of the word, but this man keeps telling me that that doesn't stop a man's quest to lust. How true my people?

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does d guy have to be a serial cheat to stray?

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If a guy's a serial cheat, it wouldn't matter whom he was married to.

He'll still cheat, and continue giving excuses for doing so.

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Well said.

Self respect, will power and respect for your partner , that's all most of us need to avoid philandering.

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@Op.

If beauty is the deciding factor for marriage in a world that has diverse/varying kinds of beautiful women it stands to reason that no man can realistically be expected to be faithful. I think.

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No. It's simply indiscipline. Some men are disciplined and principled, others are not.

So matter how stunning their woman is, they will still look outside. Same thing applies to compulsive liars. They lie about almost everything : their name, age and destination. They will tell you they are off to Germany while they are far away in new York.

Truth is such traits (cheating and lying) are obvious while courting the man. A smart lady drops him when the time is right and moves on, that way saving herself some few headaches in marriage v

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will marrying the most handsome man stop a woman frm cheating

plssssssssssssss get a life

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I pity anyone who thinks things like beauty and money are wat it takes to keep spouses faithful. O yes dat road is full of weeping n gnashing of teeth.

The way to faithfulness starts wit a strong personal determination to remain self-controlled. Not even religion can save a man hell bent on going astray believe me.

If u can't push up ur will to say no all dem temptations flirting around u then u're a gonner.

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What will keep you faithful to her is the FEAR OF GOD and MUTUAL RESPECT.

If you respect your wife, you will remain faithful to her.

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A real man won't cheat, DOES NOT MEAN HE WONT BE TEMPTED, but if HE TRULY LOVES HIS WIFE HE WILL NOT CHEAT. NO MATTER HOW TEMPTED HE IS, THAT WHY GOD INVENTED STRONG WILL, use it!

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Its not about marrying the most beautiful woman in the world. You will surely get tired of her one day and seek a new adventure with another woman.

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Unconfirmed report have it that 60% of the married men that cheats on their spouse(s)

have wives that are 100% much more beautiful than the "babes" they go out with.

Marriage aint no guarantee.

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If you need to cheat, maybe you married the wrong person? The person you marry, should be the most desired person in the world. If you don't have that, think twice about marrying, she may not be the one.

Nothing like coming home after a long days work, and being with the person you love. Nothing like making love without sheets and the lights on with no inhibitions. The person you marry, should make you feel like your true sxual self. Be free and completely who you are. If you do not have that, then you probably will cheat.

Myself - my wife knows I am a sx freak, My hobbie is the karma sutra, and everyone knows, even my friends. I also carry a cello case that holds all my sx accessories (Romance-Machines, lube, candles, clothing). We go on holiday, and I bring my cello case. Sometimes people think I am a musician and will inquire. The wife smiles at me, she gets a kick out of it. I have yet to desire other women, cause really my wife gives me what I want!!!

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How beautiful can she possibly be? And what has 'beauty' got to do with it? There's always another random chick with bigger bosoms or Bottom, madder hips, more 'blowjobby' lips and more of all the fleshy features that guarantee a bucket load of cum. Therefore a so-called 'beautiful' wife does not solve any problem. Thats why a pretty face will be the least of my priorities when the time comes (if ever) to choose a wife.

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No. An indiscipline man will remain indiscipline whether her marries the ugliest woman alive or the prettiest. It's in habit and character within not in anything without.

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It cant because u will always see a more beautiful woman.

Being chaste and faithful is a thing of the heart. If u make the decision deep down in you, you will never be unfaithful to your partner.

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No, it wont stop it. cheating is in men's blood, it only takes the grace of God and "Protecting one's image" to avoid it.

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Looking is allowed.

But have your fun at home !!!

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its all about discipline, my dear. there are a lot of men who have beautiful women, both on the inside and outside but they have been born to cheat and no amount of beauty can keep them

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the question was addressed to men in GENERAL NOT "OUR MEN" ONLY. its not only "our" men that cheat on their both equally 'beautiful and ugly' wives alike, its in EVERY CULTURE where a man wants to cheat.

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Nope.

Marrying a beautiful lady doesn't keep a man from philandering. That is one of the wonders of the world.

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@Luap

the question was not about men cheating or not but rather IF beauty alone could keep a man faithful  to his partner?!

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@ tolutara, sober up and re read the post yourself of the 14 post only two are neutal. The other 12 said NO to the posters question. This is a NL forum so use some sense and realize it is around NL people. I am just defending men and showing people you don't have to believe in this stereo type that men are cheaters. It is a stereo type to degrade and disrespect men. Why don't we thinking of women that way? Let's be equal.

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Interesting to read everyone's view of the NL men.  Seems the overwhelming response is that your men cheat no matter what.

I think it is sad that you actually believe in this stereotyped view of your men.  You must think of them as lacking integrity and commitment to their families.  You look at them as being weak.  Even the men posted the same view.  It is really pitiful that you perceive your own men in this way. 

If I were a woman from NL I would not even consider a LTR in a culture where the men are predispostioned to cheat and damage their own families.

Just plain pitiful.

It's a free country so go ahead and think of yourselve this way.

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Cheating comes from the inside. Not the outside. It's irresponsible people that blame others for what they decide to do. No matter how spontaneous the act is, there is always a time to decide on whether to follow through or quit.

Beautiful or ugly, the man that has will cheat will cheat.

Rich or poor, tall or short, sensitive or insensitive, big rod or small winkie, a woman tat will cheat will cheat.

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@Damysa

I partially disagree with you. Not all men. Is one thing for a married man to look at another gal is another thing to get closer to the gal. Sometimes we look from a distance and there it ends! lol

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Men always want what they DONT have, so. . . . .NO

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A king will still wanna have a piece of the slave, even with the queen being the head of all the fine women and she carries beauty in her purse, with nice attitude on her shoulder.

Please note that not all men sha

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Men, men, men, they are just the same everywhere

No matter wot u do u please them, they will still stray

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@poster

very true!!!

ask any of the guys that were with HALLE BERRY that question. lmao

the gal can be the best looking gal in the world and some guys will still get tired of sleeping-with her. its human nature!

BEWARE: i am not saying that what they are doing is right. . . . . . . . . . .just that i understand!

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no it cant. a woman can only do her best in keeping her mans third leg to herself. at the end of the day, its the man who decides whether to keep philandering or not. the change has to eventually/ultimately come from the man

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