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Hello Everyone,

I'm into a relationship with a guy and we're building it towards marriage.But, i have a very serious problem.My mum isn't in support of the relationship.She says she hasn't any good dreams about the relationship. First, she had a problem with the guy's family saying that the mother isn't a good person.Next she said she had a bad dream about us and she believes the marriage would end in a separation. It'as been about six months i mentioned us to her,thinking that time would make her change her mind,but up till today,her stand remains the same.I'm a bit confused about this, cos i wouldn't want to enter a relationship my parents aren't in support of.I've prayed about this and right now i don't know if i should go on with the r/ship or not.My dad doesn't even know about it and that's faulting on my side.BUt, the issue is that i'm not staying with either parents.Can someone give me an advice soon?Thanx

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Hi sister,

Firstly, I Would encourage you to be an obedient child to your parents because they know more than you and I want you to know that your parents can only advice. If truly you have made your parents to know about the r/ship and they kicked against, just go down on your kneels and seek the face of God. And don't forget that NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD.

God bless you!

Pastor Jonathan

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this may not be what you want to hear now but i will say it as an act of love. marraige is a good thing. however, i always caution people entering into one without with will of God and parental consent. if the enemy can place you into a wrong relationship, he most certainly has got you where he wanted you in the first place.

people wait and save to rent a room and buy other things i dont know why waiting to know your life partner doesn't apeal to many people. marraige can make you and mar even the strongest of people. there are too many hurt and broken people out there. dont join them without a fight.

regarding your mum. keep questioning her. not with the intension of winning her to your side but knowing what she knows about the guy and his family. she is your mum and will always want the best for you. dont rush into anything you will regret. people with parental blessings struggle i dont know what people without the blessings go through. you need her blessings more than you know.

please pray and pray some more. God will help you. He is a match maker and a willing one at that. God bless

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better to catch up than clean up i say.

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