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Can You Allow You Relations Live With You?

As a newly married, can you allow your relations live with you and your wife (or husband as the case may be) ?

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No big deal,as long as they are close relatives.

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No oh that is like inviting trouble into your own home, I don't mind my sibling coming to visit but leaving with us is a no and same goes for my man family too

If my sibling wants to live with us, I don't mind getting them an apt close by my house oh

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if they want to visit. they are always welcome. but to come and live, as in permanent resident. don't think its advisable at all. there would always be conflicts. so better to avoid such stress and everyone respects their own businesses.

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No, I don't want anyone staying with me except people I know I can tolerate. I.e. my wife.

If a relative needs accommodation, I'd rather pay for his/her accommodation elsewhere. No wahala.

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i will want my younger relations to stay with me. they usually come in handy you know. and the more you take care of them, the more you have. law of given. and its always interesting when thre are people around you. my opinion

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No, they could be corny! When u do good, they go about and say u did bad! It's not advisable like smone said. We can visit eachother and have fun when we're together but livin' wit them could be trouble. U know, u can't really know a person until u live with them.

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Ideally, for newly weds, its not the wisest of decisions to allow a relative stay with you, 'cos thats the period often refered to as "the nature nurture controversy" in marriages. Couples require absolute privacy for intimate sync.

However, in view of our peculiar social terrain,this is often compromised.

For couples who can, this is highly encouraged @ least for the first six months.

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It depends on what their situation is, and they're definitely not staying for too long.

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its not advisabel to do that

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