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Can You Be A Full Time House Wife?

Child rearing should be given full attention, right? Thus some believes it is only wife responsibility. Some men restrict their wives from working no matter the qualifications or vision she may have prior marriage in other to take adequate care of the children. Is it the best way in marriage? Can you sell your certificate to your husband?

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i wont even encourage that. in as much as the man is the provider of the fam, the wife should be supportive! The one sided financial burden wud be out and even the kids will learn 2b productive as they grow up. Can't marry a woman that aint versatile! for the house hold chores we share it 2gada, like 1 wash d dishes she dries 'em up.

Full time house wives are mostly naggin type and that seriously irritates!

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Sometimes i can't imagine how some ladies cope being financially dependent on some1.

Damn,i surely will be bored and unhappy,no matter how much u give me.I'll feel USELESS.

REM.no one knows tomorrow.Work with thine own hands no matter how little u earn.U must not depend on ur hubby 100% 4 everything.U should be able to contribute to somethings without asking him for money to do so.

(btw wont you give your parents money?Will u wait 4 him to give u b4 u can give them?)

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pple would always quote the people out of context to support their own opinions. Bia @ Lady, the virtous woman u quoted makes linen and sells it. She supplies the merchants with sashes (Prov 31:24). This suggest she works either as a business woman. She is not idle (planning children parties). She supplements her husband's income. So whether she is a business woman who works from her house or a corporate woman, the basic thing is she works

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I can never be a full house wife even if my man is rich,what if he changes tomorrow.

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Sure, I don't mind. If he insists, then so be it. I can find something else to do. I can volunteer, i can plan birthday parties for my kids and their friends. I can organise a housewife organisation, we can do things for the society.

People think being a housewife means you being at home 24/7 or being a doormat. It doesn't. It just means that you take care of the home.

Go and read of the Virtuous woman in Proverbs 31. She was a housewife and not an accountant or lawyer or whatever.

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Hell to da no. Home wife, home business bla bla. no!! I love learnin and usin what I learned. Am goin to school to get a job. . .to help take care of my family. i cant sit home to do any business. My skin is even crawlin frm thnkn about it.

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Not at all will i sell my hard time learnining certifficate to my dear loving husband. I can always crate chance and ways of taking care of my child, not untill i stop working.

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No, i can't be a full time house wife because is bourring really, also as u said its all, an idoll mind is an evill workshop beside, there are lots disadvantages to its. What of if my husband hands are week in due cost as we all kn in these life, no condition is permanent. We can never predict tomorrow, some thing might happened along the line, should incase anything happened we'll all surffer at the same time: this are my reasons never to be a permanent house wife, not good 4 my health at all.

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no i cant be a full house wife,its going to be boring doing nothing from day to day,if he doesnt want me to work no problem but i wouldnt mind going inot any kinda business,atleast to keep me busy,an idle mind is d devils workshop

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Cleaning and cooking ke? LOL i feel you sha

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even if oga paid me,I will not be home full time.

There's only so much cooking and cleaning one can do lol

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never,its more like being a liability

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I think I'm too hyper to stay at home.

I might break things lol

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(Oops, that's just an assumption.)

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If thats what he decides who am l to refuse him. If he is capable of taking care of the family

both ours,his and my family ok acceptable.No noise making about it.

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A woman must have a means of earning a living even if part time.

Besides the fact that she needs some adult conversation and interaction with others other than her husband,life is unpredictable,there is divorce,ill health or even death.

Full time housewife will not look good on a resume/CV.

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This job would be sooo damn boring

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O bu so House Wife. All this not sleeping at night to finish up and assignment or study for an exam, den at the end, become a house wife, nevaaaaaaaaa, even if he is a zillionaire, i shall be working oooo

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as long as the hubby is very rich . . yes i can.

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@fadenike

Well in that case then there is need for wisdom to be applied because a husband is the head and in authority. All men are not the same. (So what applies for wife A will not apply for wife B). Some you can discuss the issue about how being a Full House Wife will make you unhappy. But in doing this do not attack him but make him see reason. It is a gradual process but with prayers it works.

However unmarried ladies should watch out for these signs in their boyfriends before marriage.

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A full time house wife i think is a sign up for life degeneration (physically, emotionally and intellectually).

1. To start with being a full time house wife doesnt guarantee that a child would be perfect.

2. It leaves a lot of room for idleness which results in a woman being a gossip, a nosey-parker, quarreller etc

3. There is nothing challenging except chores and even more house chores BUT TO WHAT END.

I think a woman should get busy no matter how small. Not necessarily corporate work. It could be home grown business. But pls BEING A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE IS DAMAGING TO ANY WOMAN'S LIFE. GET BUSY.

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1) Before you sell yourself into slavery marriage, make sure your man is not the domineering type.

2) I believe that children need the attention of both the father and the mother, in equal measure.

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um am not sure of that. Men of these days are not so reliable, so I have to make a living but as for my kids (when they arrive) nothing is going to. Come before them.

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Sure why not, I woudn't mind doing that. It would have to be because I choose to not cause my husband insist on me being a housewife.

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