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Can You Borrow Your Womb To Your Big Sister?

I have sister who has being married for close to 10yrs now but she has not being able to conceive.Recently i was thinking if i could help her carry the baby in my womb via IVF but i am confused,i dont know how to say this to her becos this life is so delicate.i just wish i could help her. I just wanna know if ladies can do that for their blood sister and if they cant ,i wanna know why.Guys can you donate sperm for your blood brother,if his is too low to father a baby?

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Wow. Wonderful ya!

I can't do it o. Nothing do me, but if I fit find persin wey go carry my own sef I go happy,talkless of surrogacy for somebody else. You're really great.

Do you know why they can't have kids? Exactly? You should find that out first. If it's something irrevocable, then please go ahead and give your sister the most wonderful gift she will ever receive. It's her egg and her husband's sperm in a dish,which you then bring to term. So it'll be 1000% their kid. But don't rush. Do it only when you're physically,psychologically and emotionally prepared.

Wow.I can't get over how amazing a gesture this is.

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@Poster via IVF with the eggs and sperm from both parents, I will do it in a heartbeat. I know its alot carrying a child, (as I have 2 children of my own) but I would do it for my sister no doubt. I love all 4 of my sisters too much that If that woudl bring them joy in their home or life, I will sacrifice that for them.

So if it is something u can do, call her, sit down with her and talk to her about what u are willing to do for her, she may have thought about asking u but may not know how to ask. Don't tell her as though u are doign her a favor but tell her as though u are willing to sacrifice for her and how much u love her.

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she's ur sister

why not?

suggest it to her

all you'll be offering to her is the use of your womb as a surrogate mother

whats the big deal.

if she's tried IVF then why not try this

its just one year of your life thats all

think of the years she's wanted to have a baby

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@Ifyalways

Like i said i am still thinking and wat u just mentioned is part of my thots but the truth is ,in as much as the child is gonna be with my blood sister,i should'nt have any problem returning to clam the baby becos biological the baby is not mine and even if it is mine,i will still give it up.

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It's really thoughtful of you and that made me teary. The thing is it might not be her womb, there are many factors that causes infertility, MF(male factor) being one of it, unexplained, or could be the woman.

No1 where is your sis based? If UK or US get her to read this book which may shed a lot of light into the reason the cycle was negative. Alan E. Beer,Julia Kantecki,Jane Reed Is Your Body Baby-Friendly?: Unexplained Infertility, Miscarriage and IVF Failure, Explained, or still can order the book from Amazon.

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so she never tried it again since then?

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@KarmaMod, i tik she knows wat is wrong cos she's done the IVF once and after 2weeks ,it came down again.So i guess the problem is the womb .

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That's a nice thing you;re thinking of

Does she know what's wrong?

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I am only nursing the feeling but weneva i make up my mind about it,i will let her know and i guess i have to travel down to 9ja .

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Hmmmmmmmm, the truth is have thot of it ova and ova again and uptil now i cant seem to make up my mind.My main problem is i so much love my body,especially my bosoms and again my boyfriend might dump me thinking i took in for anoda man cos i wouldnt want him to know.For those that think i want my brother inlaw,i dont ooo cos the whole process is thru IVF nt IN-VIGINAL-FUCKIN !! .Well i dont know but i really wish i could do it without it having any effect on my future .She is somebody that has given up a lot to make me comfortable today.@ everybody thx so much for ur comments.

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I wouldn't think 2ce about it as long as my sister and her husband are totally fine with it. But if u've not had one before, I must warn u it's very exhausting and uncomfortable being pregnant but the child(ren) is definitely worth the discomfort. And what is 9 months in a whole lifetime anyway?

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Can you borrow a manliness to your brother?!

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Why not wait till I possess one?

Only then I can say 'cos It's easier said than done.

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spikedcylinder

babe are u ok?ur body temperature seems very hot

need some meds i see

mean no harm oh, . . . . i beg, just an observation as i touched ****

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You can help her but you'll need to talk to your sister, as she will be best person to decide.

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@poster

i really suspect you no be small

tell me the truth u must have been eyeing ur brother-in-love

flee now or else i call *********

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funny!y would i donate sperm 4 my bro.What's actually wrong with ur sister?

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Ever watched Desperate House-Wives? Exactly what Gabrielle Solis and Husband did is adviceable in such situation.I t has nothing to do with your womb let them get someone they dont know.And dont make them see your kindness as lust

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@poster: Jst pray for her, with God all things are possible.

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I am sorry but HELL NO!!

Let her go to an adaption agency!

There are plenty of kids that need a home!!

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