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Can You Change A Man: Boyfriend Or Husband?

Can you really change your man? I stumbled across this article in times online, about how two women who were able to change their husbands by applying their business/boardroom skills in their relationship to fix their husbands and in return their marriage. They first kicked out the husbands, then when the husbands begged to come home, they applied these rules/skills aimed at making the men help out at home, getting jobs to help with finances planning kids holidays/homework etc, One of the male responders to the book called it another man-hating book!! Is this another ploy for women to control men? ;is this the" marriage is a partnership" issue; equality of women? How to DEAL with bad/irresponsible husbands? I don't know. However, I think the role of the modern man with regards to his involvement in the home is changing. But this applying rules/kicking out etc, to change the man sha, e get as e be?

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,17909-2208916,00.html

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no finish d food oo or else i go vex 4 u

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Nothing special, I'll just go down to Dallas and send it with cousins, my folks are in Nigeria. I cont'd go with them because I had no money for the ticket.

What about you sis?

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you can lead a horse to the water but you cant force the horse to drink from it. same with changing people

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you cant change a person's personality or upbringing. However, I do believe that you can change their thought process. worked for me. but it takes patience and persistance.

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No u cannot change a man,he is wat he is,if there is or are things that u definately cannot live without while dating better run,it wont change after marriage, it will only get worse,i hear people say oh pray 4 him he'll change,   no he wont,habits n behaviours die hard.Either learn to live with it or u dont.

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No. But I can make a positive change in his life.

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Its difficult or almost Impossible to change a grown-up adult UNLess he/she wants to change.

You can only tolerate and accept each others fault.Sometimes,ur tolerance,acceptance and love 'might' prompt ur partner to change.

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u can change ur partner, they say behind the success and falure of a man theres always a woman behind, i think i can change my man o

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the only person u can change is urself.

people only change if they want to.

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No one can change the other.

BTW, when you change a man, he is no more the man you fell in love with.

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Obviously the women are the bosses here while the men are the expendable pawns.

i would like to know the result where the men are top level executives.

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