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Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?

Can You Marry A Repented Prostitute?

Can you walk down the aisle with a self confessed and repented aristo? Men! I'm seeing this poo rearing its ugly head before me. Even if I forrgive her for Love's sake, will my parents and entire extended family forgive her?

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You can but its not going to be easy. A prostitute goes though a lot of abuse which just keeps building up. Feelings of shame, and there will always be a hatred of men deep down which will reappear at certain times towards her husband. I would say there is a every good chance a ex prostitute is also a ex drug user. I do not agree that the lady. once out of prostitution would go back to it. I think going back to the drugs more likely. If you know your partner is a ex call girl or prostitute of street walker, get her some professional help. Yes a marriage can work but she will have many hangups. Who would not going though that. The husband builds up resentment towards her past, and does not want to talk about it, Maybe in the beginning it did not matter to him but as time goes on without professional help himself her past life will have some effect on him. It will take alot of team work for this marriage to make it but i have seen it happen and i have seen it fail. No one else has to know the past just you two. Only discuss it between your self's when a professional is present. Leave that life behind and the friends that went with it. If possible find a new town. That's all i got, and good luck.

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No sir!

There's a difference between a girl selling her body for money and a girl having sex with the guy she believes she loves.

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Hahahaha some guys ar quite funny. Not all prostitute standby on street. Any girl that dated over SIX guys is nothin less than a prostitute. Now u sayin u can't marry such of which u're 1of those who slept wit her. Hear this:- ANYONE MARRYING AFTER 2010 will be marryin a girl that ve sexuall record of nothin less than 100 times!! Is that not a LovePeddler?

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This one be as e get o.

I no fit marry ex prostitute sha. Say who die?

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[quote author=zarazara link=topic=35871.msg2703903#msg2703903 date=1219659132]

@ topic, if she has a new life and the old life of prostitution has passed away, I see no reason why you shouldn't marry her. I wouldn't worry too much about what your family will think. It is your life and you have a right to be happy with her, if she makes you happy.

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Whenever I hear people making uterances like above,,one thing comes to my mind,,,they can't see beyond their nose!If you re claiming its your life,,what about when the person in question as a little boy the parents refused to give him adequate support,training and development,would he attract the repented prostitute?The prostitute can only marry the man cos he can take care of her.Its a most silly and senseless thing to say that ur family or parents don't have a contribution to make in ur choice of marriage.

I don't have a problem with a repented prostitute,,cos one way or the other we all would sinned,,,but I would suggest the guy in question MUST do everything possible to convince his parents and family members.People who go ahead and get married without considering their family inputs gets to regret big time,,,,go and ask anybody you know who did it.

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I was at that night club behind you last summer, a lot of funs!

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no wonder aids is rampant

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men here are just saying they would becuase they know she would be amazing in bed! sure there are lots of naija men here in ireland, sleeping with ugandan prostitutes. its disguisting.

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@poster

either male or female, why not? if now born again and tested HIV negative (because that may reqiure a higher faith)

Please, how do you measure a prostitute? it is based on the frequency or on commercialism.

Because these two parameters are readily available in the lives of many who neither live in a motel nor stands on allen avenue yet .  .  . . In most cases are latter discovered to be "super silencer" in the act! God have mercy!

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@ topic, if she has a new life and the old life of prostitution has passed away, I see no reason why you shouldn't marry her. I wouldn't worry too much about what your family will think. It is your life and you have a right to be happy with her, if she makes you happy.

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no mind the ex-poms jare. that's why she wants to go to Nigeria to try and find a man to marry. she is a nutcase.

No Nigerian will have her as soon as they find out what she is

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you will die in your misery and depression.

You mindset is very obvious to all and sundry. You think that your fatherless children's earnings concern anybody. No naija will marry you anyway. Naija men are too smart to be taken in by any nonsense from an ex-poms. If your children are richer than my state and my country, please tell them to buy you peace and joy for your miserable life. bloody depressed and psychotic loser

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dudu-bobo

u wish.

u have such a low and a little mentality.

thank God that am not even looking coz i would rather die before marrying a naija.

my kids can feed u and ur family

and my hubby can feed ur entire state and give u a better paying job.

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dont mind him naijacutee just open up ur heart, ds is d kind guy dt spend all his heard earn money on prostitute, and now he is speaking rubbish, who knows whether d so called his girlfrnd Bleep a dog and still claim he has a girl to marry.

some prostitute ar better dn d girls at home ds days.

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@ post.

If I wanted to marry such a person, I would do it, I'm not sure why her past would be know to your family unless they were told.

If even if they were told, it is none of their concern, its your life and only you will reap the benefits or suffer the consequences of your actions.

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Yongeze, help me remind dem jare.

@kryptic misfit

your plan to go to naija to find a man wont work. naija guys are not as daft as you think. you already destroyed your life, so live with it

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There is no such thing as a FORMER PROSTITUTE, once a prostitute always a prostitute. Remember the phrase ASHEWO NO BE WORK, NA LIFESTYLE

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The first thing for you to do is to gather the men for whom you had your children and collect your regular child support for your feeding. Seeing as you are having time on here now, it would appear that you are collecting more from the fathers to your children than they should be giving you. Ewu

I could never marry a prostitute; that's why my type will never marry your type.

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if u are gay,suit urself.

but am straight, and i go for the opposite gender.

deep inside of u, i wish you married a prostitute.

i thought u were the Mr preacher around here trying to tell us what is in the Bible.

see how much of a fool u turned out to be.

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kenny,

that does not answer my question.

what would JESUS do?

i gave my take of the topic and you 2 dumb fools (kenny and dudu-bobo) thought that in ur wildest imagination, you could attack me personally.

how silly of you.

i thought dudu-bobo ( the holy man that never think about sex,but self-service often) was your mouth piece and you were the clown that just agree to whatever sh^^t that comes out of his small brain, small mouth and small everything else.

learn to think for urself kenny.

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Kryptix wrote:

It's like Kryptix wan take this tin on im head patapata. In dey vex o.

See, if you deliberately wan marry prostitute, GO AHEAD!

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bring it on you fools.

i might have a weird mind-set but atleast am honest about it.

i would rather marry a prostitute than someone that hides under the umbrella of being a born-again and is worst than a prostitute.

i ask you 2 fools (kenny& dUbo), what would Jesus do? none of you could give me an answer,

well, if you have never slept with a woman, cast the first stone on a prostitute.

what difference does it make, sleeping with men or women for money or sleeping with many partners for the fun of it.

you with ur holier -than -thou attitude,

mary magdalene was a prostitute,someone's sister, wife,friend,daughter, AND was JESUS's friend

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whether with a prostitute or with random women they meet there is no difference, many men who have slept around still get married.

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dudu-bobo

Softly, . . .   softly on Krypix, you know we have some rules here.

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If I am a man and she genueily repented and stop her evil ways I will marry her alot of circumstances leads to prostitution although none is justified. It is almost the same thing asking a woman whether she will marry an arm robber man who has killed and robbed people

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A who patronises a prostitute may decide to marry a prostitute. However, I have not come across many men admitting to patronising prostitutes. If a man admits to patronising prostitutes, do you think girls will be very happy to marry such a man?

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I have seen your posts and your mindset is obvious. Warped imagination and reasoning.

Everyone does not have to be as mentally demented as you. Your background is very obviously a rotten one so you imagine everyone has to be same.

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"And clients of prostitutes, don't they go on to get married, sometimes to virgins? These guys feel it's great to debase and degrade women, but when they were paying for their services, were they any better than the escorts? "

Nicely said, a guy who has patronized prostitutes will still find himself a wife (God knows from where), so why can't a former prostitute find a husband? I can't condone such a lifestyle but "let he who has not sinned cast the first stone". And if she was forced into it she is even more deserving of love.

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dubo,

you know that you are dying to meet a prostitute.dont worry, keep self-servicing cos it does work sometimes.

i would rather marry a prostitute than a born-again.

at least i know what to expect.

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kenny

what has Bible got to do with this.

isnt a prostitute a human being too. what if that prostitute was your sibling, how would you advise then?

what do you think Jesus would do to a former/current prostitute.

would Jesus advise someone to marry them or ostracize them?

i would definitely marry a prostitute.

trust me she would have some tricks up her sleeves. tricks you small-minded hypocrites don't know about.

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@fellow

oh man a lot of women have dated more than 10guys and had sex during the relationship before they got married so about the girl that 6 men had slept with her on her wedding day,thats kinda normal others might just have been lucky to have all d men they dated before marriage on their wedding day

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How old are you? where are you from?

You call people hypocrites for not wanting to marry prostitutes? Your love for prostitute does not have to mean every other person loves prostitutes!

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Kryptix should understand that human beings are very different even though we all have heads, legs, hands, etc.  We are never EXACTLY the same.  Everything is not the same thing today as it was in the Bible days.  Whether you call it fomer prostitute, or current prostitute.  We should understand that fire is fire, whether small fire, or big fire.  Fire can burn!!

And it's so simple.  I can't marry a former prostitute.

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If the person has changed and the love is there then, why not if not?

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yes.yes yes

for those saying no,, you people are liars.

you know u want it, damn hypocrites.

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The answer to marry a former prostitute is too simple. No, I can't!

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ok ok. i think i ve about had it. the truth of the matter is that most of these prostitutes r victims of circumstance. Many of them have been sexually abused as kids and get psychologically imbalanced then, there is no going back for them. especially with those who have financial needs and disfunctional families. i guess it is due to the fact that people wldnt accept them in the more "responsible world" that they have decided to stay in the business becos they feel they just wont fit in. The thing here is if a guy falls in love with an ex prostitute who is ready to trprnt her sins, go for HIV and AIDS tests, pass the test, goes for heavy deliverance and actually is repented, then i dont think there is anything stopping the guy.i guess the guy must have played a little himself anyway. All these girls need is love not to be jugded and condenmed

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Marriage is a life long thing. It takes a lot of efforts to sustain it and a lot of understanding. Not to compound the problem, I wont marry a prostitute for anything. Any slight tension in the home can make it snap. many have lost their homes due to their past catching up with them.

But if anyone must marry a prostitute, let it be because he did not know and let the prostitute change location. If she did it in the south west for instance, she should relocate to the north or the east when she repents. She should go where she's not known and start a really new and clean life.

It is a bad thing to think of, that one's wife was once a prosttitute.

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@Siena

What you said is pretty strong. Strong in the sense that it is difficult. You may not know the life of a prostitute but it isn't what normal people call life. Marrying them means you are marrying the other men that they have submitted to. It's a point of no return (if you want to categorically put it in logical understanding). Without them telling you anything, they are hated. Their presence bring hatred. People don't like them for any reason and they are usually full of themselves.

She will never be committed to you because she is a fragmented person. She has nothing left for you. She has seen everybody, what makes you different. You are talking about a marriage designed in hell. There will be no trust. She is use to people not regarding her as worth, so you treating her as a person would be so not comfortable.

I can better explain in on spiritual terms since it's hard for me to relay it in English. This is a general thread so nothing beyond nature. Except you are perversed, or you are one yourself, it can't be successful on the marriage plane.

Men that patronise prostitutes have themselves to blame. Besides other factors that may cause it, a huge blame falls on the upbringings. Like begets like as well as birds of a feather flocking together.

She'll eventually return to prostitution except the yoke is broken by the power of God. I got to learn that in Europe unlike America, an ex-prostitute cannot get a decent job.

Except you are willing to go through these and plenty more, the answer would be no or left undecided. Prostitution is a perversion against feminity.

What is the reality today? Many men have married prostitutes indirectly.

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Yes, I would marry an ex prostitute. I wouldn't actively go searching for an ex-callgirl, but if I fell in love with a woman, and later found out she was previously a callgirl, it wouldn't change the way I felt about her.

She'll still be the woman I fell in love with. Her past is her past, we've all done things we're not too proud of, some worse than prostitution.

And clients of prostitutes, don't they go on to get married, sometimes to virgins? These guys feel it's great to debase and degrade women, but when they were paying for their services, were they any better than the escorts?

I think guys need to look deeper within themselves.

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Re: Can You Marry A Repented Prostitute?

« #15 on: January 17, 2007, 08:53 AM »

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well a repented prostitute!!!!!!!! Wonders shall never end with all this so called grammar. For me its no. I was at a place one day and a guy walked in so sad. He was like guys you need to witness what happened at the wedding i went to today.

He was like at the wedding, when it was the turn of the hubby and the wifey to kiss each other, one of the guys he was sitting beside told the second one

"you know i have slept with that girl 4 or 5 times", of which the second one replied him saying "oh i thought i was the only one that did that".

And before you could say JACK ROBINSON 6 different guys confessed to have slept with the girl and this was been talked about on her wedding day.Imagine been a laughing stock of the society

HAI

I would not want that to happen to me so i say no to "AS YOU GUYS SAID IT" a repented prostitute

The same nonsense happened in Chicago. This time, the bridegroom men (12 in number) had all slept with woman to be married. It was at the alter the truth was exposed.

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Thank God for every repented prostitute but me I no ever fit consider ex prostitute for marriage.

Better girls don finish for town?

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmn true talk

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Repented or not repented wouldn't allow my brother to marry a prostitute.

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"Former" as in "past", "previous", "eariler".

She is a new creation. Why not? If she has come to terms with her past, changed her lifestyle and God has forgiven her, who are we not to?

My answer is "yes"

Agape!

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@ laudate the difference lies in the commercial reason for one liaison, and the romantic/relationship reason for the other.

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