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Can you marry a second wife , if prophesied by man-of-God that it will bring fortunes into your life?

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some marriages work while others dont, with or without outsider intervention.

some people marry once in their lifetimes, some marry twice, some marry three times while others can marry up to or more than five separate wo/men either at the same or different periods.

in most instances, the length of the marriage isnt dependent on the number of marriage attempts.

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Yes some people OVER USE the excuse of voodoo/african juju as an excuse for failure or such, BUT i do not totally dismiss its use or impact,

just like I don't dismiss the existence or lack thereof a god, I don't dismiss the impact or use of voodoo, we all have to be careful and prayerful,

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In the example I provided previously, the prophesier did NOT find a wife for the man. He found someone else and they've been happily married and financially sucessful for 15 years now and going,

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You have answered your own question. A Man of god is also NOT god.

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Not scary. and life is too short to make that marriage, Have you ever heard of stories of women who dated men that were close to perfect before they married, then couple of years after marriage, the man starts beating the woman mercilessly, if that was you or your sister ? would you say she stays in such marriage until her death is near ? or would you tell her to leave and find peace ?

One thing I remind myself: No one is perfect, and the heart of man is desperately wicked.

May we all find peace but marriage is NOT and should NOT be hell. If it is, find your way to peace if that involves leaving, and this also includes a man whose wife is practicing voodoo, or so ?!

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A psychologist is not God. Because with God, there's no either/or, there's no changing of mind, there's no going back!!

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Yea, I guess you r right? Why stay with her when there are so many others you can go to. I bet Adam never had that choice, else he would have divorced Eve for eating the forbidden fruit. Unfortunately for him, there was no one else to marry.

Take them for example, did God change his wife for him? No, he punished the both of them for what Eve caused. So you see, that's God, there is no going back with him. Not only that, you are responsible for her actions as well.

Scary right? Thats marriage!!

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the prophet has someone in mind that he wants to palm off on him.

thats all.

African juju/spiritualism has a definite modus operandi. Its not as random as people feel.

Neither is it about the wife's nagging since the second wife can be the same way and most often is.

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Once you leap there IS going back. Life is too short to be hanging out with a lunatic, just because u want to remain married, Life is short and sweet,, lets keep it moving, if it doesn't work out.

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No one is bound to anything? You stood before your family and friends and more importantly, God, and swore to love her for better or worse. and You dont think it binds you? Gee!

People change, that's why its marriage. You learn to adjust to the changes, you learn to cope with the changes, you learn to love her no matter what. That's love and that's marriage.

As for the evil waka thing. Well you do have a point, but I dont think a wife ordained by God to be yours will ever bring you harm. That's why you have to look well before you leap, because once you are in, there's no going back!!

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Trust me, its not just an African/or Nigerian phenomenon, such idea is just described differently.

I know some white couples who got divorced after 24 years of marriage and they both said that they weren't successful because they competed with each rather than support each other, <they were always extremely critical rather than supportive> then they both started dating other people and found supportive partners,

Phenomenons remain the same just explained and described differently.

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There is no problem with people. Everyone has different value and that definitely does not include condoning a wife that practices evil deeds.

No one goes into marriage thinking that they can walk out anytime, there are some things that occur that are beyond your control.  People change.

No one is bound to anything, hahaha! A man should never condone a woman who practices evil deeds because he wants to call her wife, If she changes, fine, and if she CHOOSES not to, let him find his way,

A woman who visits the babalawo instead of worshipping God should not use her evil waka to affect her husband's blessings, unless that man is silly.

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its only an African who will post such a thread linking second wife, prophets and fortunes.

any wonder all of them are vacating the continent as fast as their legs can carry them.

and are the majority moving to fellow African countries that share their philosophy?

No.

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@ OP, who be man of God? no be pesin like u hin be? make una dey deceive unaselves dia.  

so ya first wife don dey bring u a lot of misfortunes that it took a so-called "man of God" to prophesy this nonesense to you ehn?  

u mumu no be small o! why waste ya time (i'm sure money too) with some "man of God" to tell you this when all you have to do is change to the "religion of peace."

with that, you don't need any "man of God" to prophesy jack to u cause by default you can marry as many wives as you want.  

abi, no be wetin you wan take style do be dat? prophesy good fortune ko, wo'li ni! alakori!

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That's the problem with people, you go into marriage thinking you can walk out anytime. The bible only justifies divorce on the ground of Adultery. You should know the character of any woman before you marry her. The fact that you dint pray and found yourself in the marriage is not an excuse to walk out. You are bound by God and by Law to her for life.

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Thats not necessarily true. If the wife will not change her evil ways then you need to find your way. In my example given, the man's life changed  incredibly after he left his first wife,  there are some things that are unexplainable and thats why its good to pray before you marry, 

If you don't pray and get married to a woman who practices evil deeds, then you need to leave if she doesn't refuse to change her evil ways.

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God dosen't come down from Heaven, we hear from him throrugh the so-called Men of God. If someone tells you to marry a second wife in the name of God, then that's the sign you need to know he's not real. They all come in the name of God but 'by their fruits, you shall know them'.

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god has given everyone freewill.

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No the question says: Can you marry a second wife if prophesied by a "man of god", man of god doesn't mean approval from god,

People/Humans choose thier mates, God doesn't come down and choose anyone's mate, you can only ask god for directions,

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Marriage is for better for worse my dear! Thats an oath you take before God and man. That's why you dont rush into it.

Pastors divorce, but that dosent make it right. God gives someone to you as a wife/husband for a reason. It dosen't all have to be a bed of roses.

Remember we are not talking about people who dosent believ in God. The guy claims its 'God' that told him to marry the second wife. Thats why I said God dosent contradict himself!!

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I like that, and i have decided to never judge a book by it cover again.

I do blv in God and agree with you, but i have noticed that most of the time, we do listen to our voice and vision and not of God.

There are 3 voices that speaks to us, God, our voice and that of the devil.

We often misunderstand our own voice with that of God.

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I don't know if you believe in God or not, but thats why its important to pray before you marry someone. I believe that God will reveal certain things to you. I know he does to me sha,

But you should also realize that no one is perfect and always be ready to move on when the time comes, Life is journey and things happen and as things come your way, God will surely see you through if you request for his guidance.

Be well~

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This only works if humans are created perfect and good, But even the bible says "the heart of man <woman> is desperately WICKED"

Love depends on luck, and to those who dont believe in God shouldn't marry ? or don't u hear of pastors who divorce and get married again, abegii jo

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God does not contradic himself. One man, one wife!! Any other thing is not from God.

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U will chase my tail tire.

I know there are some people that fight self, enjoy

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Ummmmmm.

Now i am scared ohhhhhhhhh

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re-read my post.

She did things to make him poor so that he wouldn't leave her.

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i don't do prophecies. all crack and bull

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Na wa oh.

Could be coincidental though.

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[table]@poster

if you knew anything about having ONE woman then you would know that marrying two can never bring any form of fortunes. . . . . . . . . or happiness in your home.[/table]

my broda, one thing i want you to get straight , must naija guys /ladies prefer going to pastor/alfa before engaging , i did not codemn the act but they refuse to pray on their own for better union. inasmuch man-of-God says something even if it is  lie , it will be hard to change their mind.

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man of god ke? abeg tell me better jokes jare.

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I know of someone who did this.

and after he left the first wife for the second, his business booomed seriously, <he got lots of government contrats and did well for himself> then the first wife confessed that she did some things to make him poor so that he wouldn't leave her,

Anyways, its possible. He's cut off all contact from the particular woman but takes care of his kids.

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if you knew anything about having ONE woman then you would know that marrying two can never bring any form of fortunes. . . . . . . . . or happiness in your home.

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How Godly is that ur man of God, Two of u better go and work hard

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