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Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?

In the cause of searching for greener pastures, men/women leave their spouses behind and live in different cities of the world.

I know a woman whose husband left in Nigeria for eight years before she could join him in London.

She never had an affair with any other man until she eventually joined her husband.

Do you think this is real?

Can you do it?

This is for the married only pls.

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Honestly no, I can't.

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Yes if i actually love him, n can trust him not to cheat on me, it will be hard but it can be done.

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"How can you be so sure about that. You only see what people want you to see"

You are kinda right. I may not be so sure about this woman. But I can be sure of myself doing it. I can do it.

When I asked 'Can u do it', I meant, can u stay without being with him/her for 8 years, and not having an affair?

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why can't i stay,what of if he was jail for 8yrs,does that mean i will leave him.HELL NO

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How can you be so sure about that. You only see what people want you to see.

Now what exactly is your question: Can you do what? Leave ones spouse behind for a long time to live in a foreign land? or remain faithful to ones spouse after so many years apart?

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~NoOooooooo I CANNOT and WILL NOT for that period of time!! End of!!

~I cudnt possibly be that understanding!! bsides me lek body tooOOo much to be seperated that long!!

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8 weeks is stretching it. Its not about cheating or not, its about companionship.

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