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Can You Slap Your Husband?

Can you have the guts

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Do you mean me? or someone else?

this is what i said regarding this:

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@sistawoman

ur point is?

that slapping a man may lead to nothing?

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i dare not think of doing that

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uhmmmm! words of a wife beater! God bless you brother!!!

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Not when she sees how thick, long and fat my palms are,  She must be ready to join michael Jackson in plastic world of fashion club

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Why should i give him an excuse to beat me up, i can never do that. Moreover am not a physical nor agressive person.

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It not acceptable.

Even if u do it and tell people about it, majority will fault you. . . . . even if your husband was d wrong one. Its not just right.

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Lets see what would I believe about Nigerians if i believed everything I saw on TV:

Uneducated

Slutty women

No shoes

Egotistical, chauvinistic men

Women with no critical thinking ability

Hungry/starving children and women (never see starving men)

AIDS infested men and women

Women who are afraid of their shadow

Thank God not all of us believe everything we see on TV. Thank God that I actually did some research on my own and know that most of the above is false.

I dont even watch any soaps here in America. There are other channels you can watch like CNN, MSNBC, A&E, Discovery, etc.

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Is that so? then you have to excuse my shortsighted conclusion, which was based mainly on what I see on your numerous soaps (bold and beatuiful, young and restless, etc), in which a female hits the male (whether boyfriend or husband) and the latter makes no attempt to retaliates but rather gapes idiotically at her. But then again, arn't them soaps supposed be reflective of the society?

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of cos not

never

God forbid

Infact Abomination

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Most ladies are not violent

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You believe incorrectly.

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Hmm, I wont attempt it at all unless I'm ready to walk away from the marriage. Slapping ur husband will only lead to domestic violence assuming the two don't get a divorce. When there's a later arguement in the marriage the man will probably respond with his fists rather than words.

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May God Forbid it in my marriage.

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If he puts his hand on me (hit, or slap) first than best believe that he will be seeing stars. I am nobody's punching bag so if he hits me first than yes i will slap the poo out of him and break his balls while at it.

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Some husbands (and I use this tern loosely) deserve to be slapped. I know someone that her husband has cheated on her over and over and all she does is want to go fight other women that did not force her dog to cheat.

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If I'm ready to meet Jehovah then I'll try it

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You can slap him~~~BUT~~~Do not be upset when he slaps You back!!

"Do unto others as you want them to do unto YOU"

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on d contrary cheating is quite african. . . with multiple wives and concubines. . . very african i say!

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Will you say the same if he is cheating on me?. Cheating is un African too.

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only if i am ready for him to slap me back or leave.

I would never disrespect him no matter the situation because men. . .well thier slaps hurt more.

if it is something that he deserves being slapped for then i will just tell my Dad as he sees my Dad as his own since his has passed on.

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unsure nobody can predict what may happen tomorrow

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please clarify slap playfully or 'slap' as in fit of anger. i do playfully tap my hubby cheeks when we are joking as he is the king of jokes and sarcasm.but would never do that during an argument.

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That is one thing i hate and will never do it no matter how angry i am with hubby, if my husband cannot raise his hands up to slap me so why should i do that to him?? is not right anyway, be it the husband/wife we should try to ve selfcontrol when we are angry period.

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depends i am good in it .

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its not about having d guts . . . slapping ur husband is setting precedence.

if he decides to slap u now, everybody wld be shouting wife beater. . . violence of any form is unacceptable!

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In this part of the world (Africa),etiquette dictates u don't slap your husband irrespective of what he does.verbal assault is understandabl,but slapping your huby is totally unacceptable,unless you are ready for plastic surgery someday

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It depends on what he did and yes I can.

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