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@ poster am sorry for this and i pray God almighty will change your sister. To some, if Jesus should anounce to the whole world that he's coming tomorrow, some people will still not believe until he comes and take away the saint. Then, they will now be blaming their self.

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Forgive my question poster,

Is she really your blood sister or half-sister??

How can a sister be envious and bitter in this manner when she should be happy for you, Jeez can't c myself doing this

Don't stop loving her,whatever happens she is ur sister nad ur blood, but jus keep a distance, someday she will get over her bitterness, fustration and jealousy.

Hope God in His infinte mercy gives her a new heart, but pls keep a distance for now.

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It is simply called "jealousy of others' success' syndrome" there is nothing you can do, and with time, they still wont get over it, just live it to God and be happy.

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[This is not the first time I will hear this kind of story-------My sister hates me because I am married and she is unmarried or Men come to ask after me and she is frustrated because nobody looks at her .

Not that I do not beleive she can be jealous, but I trust that an adult will be able to manage her jealousy well and not make it obvious to all that jealousy is eating her up.

Most ladies I know who find themselves in this situation even become more accepting (even if they are planning to harm you in private) because they do not want people to say they are jealous.

It is God that sees the heat of all men,so leave it to Him, He knows all that happened between the two of you.[/color]

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I don't agree with you.

I know of a Lady who insisted that her father should not allow her younger sister to be married, simply becasue she was the breadwinner of the family, as such, the family put the wedding on hold because the her elder sister was not yet married.

In that family today there is hatred among the sisters and some family member who are in support of the younger sister and also the elder sister.

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baby jinx there you have it. sadly there are thousands in her shoes and like she said are under oaths with various consequences. it is not good to wash family dirty clothes in the public but truth be told many are into this shady and immoral lifestyle. no part of europe is exempt

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I REALLY THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR BROTHERLY AND SISTERLY ADVICES, YOU GUYS VE BEEN WONDERFUL,

UNA DOOOOO RIVER OOOOO.

NAIRALAND IS A GREAT PLACE TO VISIT.

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What kinda reality does a a sister bring her sister into prostitution?

Please who is fooling who here?

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you wish. this is reality 101

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keep asking is the money you make worth the life you live? there is more to life than making money. some of these idiots have made enough to last them 10 life time but dont know where to stop. be very prayerful

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She is hard to please because After i gave her bk her money she still ve reasons to continue to be angry.

SHE HAS said alot of things relating to ur qoute (((JJYOU)).

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i know you can't say it all. she brought you in to be a prostitute for her to make money. you spoilt her business by getting pregnant. thank your God you got off lightly

by the way you wronged her by spoiling her business and cash flow

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I was NOT ok with JENI_KAGY when he or she said (((but don't think its because u pray then he will save u,if that prayer is not from ur heart and soul,its going nowhere except ur lips.

THANKS ANYWAY.

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This is not the first time I will hear this kind of story-------My sister hates me because I am married and she is unmarried or Men come to ask after me and she is frustrated because nobody looks at her .

Not that I do not beleive she can be jealous, but I trust that an adult will be able to manage her jealousy well and not make it obvious to all that jealousy is eating her up.

Most ladies I know who find themselves in this situation even become more accepting (even if they are planning to harm you in private) because they do not want people to say they are jealous.

It is God that sees the heat of all men,so leave it to Him, He knows all that happened between the two of you.

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let her be. she needs some serious space.

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U cant force urself to be friendly.

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pray she doesnt join that secret society(dats if shes not in it already) because u wont be alive to post here again,except u make God be by your side day in and day out,then u and ur entire family will be safe

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she is angry that you got married before her,pray and love her,she is frustrated cos she thinks she is old,prayer is the only solution.

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Je ne suis pour la guerre.

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Sorry for your problems, but yeah you should leave her to herself for a while, but if it still doesnt work out. It's all you can do. Blood maybe thicker than water especially when spilled.

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Leave her for some time, am sure she would eventually come round. Blood they say is thicker than water!

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hun just move on with your life, ur sister will get over it with time, if she doesn't then is her problem, answerable to God, i got married b4 my senior sister n she was pissed off at me, n almost turned my parents against me, i read her diary where she wrote how much she hated me, i told my husband about it n just kept it to myself, n surprisingly after the white wedding she immediately changed n i was amazed, i asked her wat happened n she said "no reason being angry, its ur turn to get married" n she was really helpful during the reception, n this was someone who did not want to paticipate in the wedding, i don't even have a picture of her in my wedding album, thats how bad it was. but now we r cool, we tease each other n she calls me time to time.

so with time ur sister will realize there is no point being mad.

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maybe she knows u too well dat u must have jazzed her or stolen her fortune somehow, moreso u think its not jealosy and dats why u need oda pple's opinion and the only reason why u think its not jealousy is coz u must have forced urself to overthrow herand by 'forced', i mean not in a good way

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use your tongue and count your teeth, you know your sister more than any other person here on nairaland,i beliave she loved you that's why she thought of bringing you to europe think where you have wrong her and go and plead with her, and stop claiming inocent

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. . , she'll get over it when she starts making headway herself

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your sis need yuor help

TAKE HA TO A GOOD PASTOR, SHE CERTAINLY NID DELIVERANCE

I M NOT BLUFFIN

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Just be careful. This kind of sister can kill. It happened with my husband's older brother's sister in law (LOL) For real. Her sister poisoned her by feeding her snake poison (so they say). Just cover yourself, your children and husband with the blood of Jesus and pray that God remove the bitterness and wickedness from your sisters heart. I will not encourage yout o leave your kids around her. She is too bitter at your joy. A sister should see your joy as her own and enjoy it with you. I can't say cut her off. She is your sister but be watchful

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dear post i am sorry it has to come to this but if this is true that is the human nature in action however as u are blood u have to manage the situation.

search ur hear t for any insyance where u may have wronged her and if u cant come up wit anything then let ur conscience be clear.

also let ur mum or someone who stands in that position know ant the issue they may be able to do a reconciliation

then continually pray for her so that ur own can continue n God can continue tp answer ur prayers and u go higher but be spcially careful around her.

watch and pray

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Poster, Jay bee and agba 123, have said it all, dont u know dat human beings r very unpredictable and r wicked,even the bible says the heart of man is desperately wicked and who can see it, so please the only thing you will do is to always put her in prayers, and dont keep worrying yourself about the whole issue, sooner or later she will come to accept it that our destines rnt same, Goodluck!!!!!!

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Don't get your upset because of her outbust. It is allowed.

That is her feeling and it is good she voiced out. Don't take offense in this but just pray that she locate her path in life quickly as jay bee suggested.

And don't listen to any gossip about her from anybody.You can stay away for a while for her to realise her mistake. She still your sister.

Your success is sure.

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she cannot tell you she is jealous when she is jealous. So do not worry.

Those that tell you they are jealous are only admiring you. The really jealous ones do not voice it and could harm you.

Keep away and pray for her.

She will come back to her senses

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Thank u (jay bee) for ur advice, it's true that it's a case of jealousy but she never mentioned that she is jealous, and i see no reason why she should be, But all thesame i will continue to put her in my prayers so that God will touch her mind.

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Just live and let her be. Seems like a case of jealousy and no matter what you try she will probably still remain jealous.

You need to just learn to ignore, stop the contacts but keep praying as prayers does work.

She will change her ways once she realise all the stuffs she is missing

At least you should count yourself lucky to be in a country whereby people will not poke nose into your inability to relate with your sis(if you care about hear say)

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