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Did She Act silly?

She is my friend one of the most decent women i have ever known. Her husby lives abroad and she lives with the kids in Nigeria. She works full time and well dedicated to her kids, job and family. A friend of mine met her in my house sometimes ago, likes her company and asked her to visit her family sometimes. She visited my friend and her husband and they like her so much, they related like they have known for many years but its just the 2nd time they are seeing while she is meeting the husband for the first time. Sometimes again we both visited this wonderful family again making it d 2nd time d husband will meet her.

Her birthday was 2 weeks ago and this my friend and her husband promised to pay her a visit though she was not celebrating it, it was on Friday but they later did not make it, the next day the husband called her and asked if she would be in, she was under the impression both of them were coming as promised only to be met with the guy, she asked about the wife and the guy said he decided to come alone for a reason. He said he was giving her a treat for her bday which was meant to be a suprise, she thought we all planned it and got dressed and followed him as he said. He took her to Golden Gate n spent money on her like he just won lotto and she could not understand. When it was dawn on her that there was no suprise she was annoyed but hid it. Then he opened up to the point of kneeling down asking to go out with her as she is the best woman she has ever met. After much pressure she decided to play along so he could let her go and she could 'delete' them from her life. He dropped her very happy believing she has agreed and promised to call the next day so they could fix a time to go out n spend time together again.

She could not believe it as we all trust this guy 'die' inc myself, she confided in me but begged me not to ever tell anyone, she said she had to play along when d begging wes becoming embarrasing and the pressure was unbearable and she had to promise him of uttermost secrecy so he know she is not going to tell the wife and because she could not just stand abusing him, this guy is no nice n decent it wl be hard for anyone to believe her even if she says it. She said she planned not to ever pick his call or reply his text never. Now its 2 weeks and the guy neither call nor sent text she is fine with that but now wondering if there was a motive behind it all because he left her that day promising heaven n earth n swearing he cant afford not to have her. Me think the guy repented sha but do u think there is more to dis?

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The woman in question is vulnerable. From your story, it seems the man may have succeeded if he had persisted.If not why would a married woman not plainly tell the man off without any 'playing along' .She is not just mere silly but may have other lovers. I may be wrong but that is exactly the impression she created.

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correct question. me too i wanted to know but i did not want to come off too forward

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yeah, she acted silly

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Me ke? Never . . . i am happily taken

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That fire is about to burn her soon

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LOL her body was on fire, lol she needed sum loving!!so pardon her

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the story no complete. but i dey feel say the guy enter the place that day. sorry to say, she is so silly

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o ! yes she acted stupidly./, she should just know dats d end dat friendship and who even knows how far the story can go and how twisted the story can become.

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Well said, however, there has always been testing and temptation from the start and will forever be

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I no understand myself o!

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Yes indeed she acted stupidly but why on earth will people be testing/tempting people, dont think its fair because we are all human.

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Yes she acted silly, for all she knows, the husband cld have been the one that set the trap, the wife of the man cld have been the one that put her thru the test, and she failed, cos no amount of pressure shd make u lose your ground.

Secondly, when the man showed up alone to take her out, shd shd have called the wife and asked why wont she come and that she aint going nowhere till the woman is there, cos you never can tell who will see them.

She acted silly, and i think she did cos she missed the company of a man.

Hope wont backfire

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Sorry i typed in haste ive modified d last paragraph and no he didnt sleep with her just a goodbye kiss according to her

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poster, I didnt understand the last paragraph

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i no get your yarn,did she sleep with him or not.

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