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Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?

Sometimes I believe some wives deserve a slap or two because they could drive their husbands to the limit. What do you think guys.

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any that beat's or slap the wife is an animal,so if u do beat your repent because u are evil

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No

even if you're incompatible, there are non-violent ways of resolving issues

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there should be zero tolerance of any kind of violence within relationship, whether M on F or vice versa.

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IT takes a real Man not to beat a woman,and it takes real woman to let go all that we do too. How many slap will you take to correct a woman. They are to be tutored till eternity.

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That statement alone makes my stomach turn

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it is only a coward that will raise his hand to slap his wife, there are other ways you can put a woman under check

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I think it is time to lock this thread.

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omg, i cant believe this topic is still on. .shieee

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they most certainly do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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abi oo, the dude is such a freak,

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Poster you deserve a slap for posting this thread, see your big head, international mumu

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A woman doesnt deserve to be slapped or beaten no matter what the circumstances are!!

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very funny!!! okay, here is my contribution. Ladies! please, whatever you do, don't annoy your man so that you will not deserve a slap from him.

And men, please, for God sake!! this creature that he gave us is for us to love and not to turn them to be a bunching bag or to exercise our hand to see how we can wave it in front of them. Please!!!

Yes! they could be very annoying, pain in the neck sometimes but they is always a way to go around them without hurting them physically.

Thank you.

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women deserves some slaps at times.

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radiant thanks for asking that question

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any man that slaps his wife is no better than a lizard

one of the best ways to handle a troublesome/nagging/hot headed woman is

to walk out on her if she refuses to see reason and ignore her till she comes back to beg for mercy

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2007430941,00.html

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slaps woulnt be necessary unless u're ready 4 a huge makeup sex.i prefer blows and slugs

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omoge, u don spoil finish oh, what if the man slap you too hard while the good thing happening in bed.

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Only a very weak person has to resort to violence. Who could respect a person like that? If you use violence, then the other person will lose all respect for you.

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some people are still living in the village!

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i beg make una no spoil me ohhhh

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Hmmm,

This thread is so funny and engrossing that I went through all that had been written from the beginning to the end.

Well to be frank,it is a serious issue but I think a lot of poeple has shown their immaturity and lack of depth in this post.When somebody calls anybody that has a different view names as far as insulting their personality,it shows that such people need to be trained in the act/art of communication and that person is not better than the man who slaps/beat his wife as the case may be.

All these arguement will be unnneccessary if people stay in their G od given roles as stated in the word of God instead of following some modern thinking that in clearly against the word of God.

'Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it.Wives submit to your husbands'It says further that women should be children of Sarsh who submited unto Abraham and call him Lord'

If everybody stay in these roles we will see less of all these.

As a married man I had found out that my wife respects and obey me better when I show her love and treat her like a 'baby' and a special person.She has also found that I treat her better when she submits to me and treat me like the King of the house.

Some women believe that they should be able to say anything to their husbands and get away with it.Well,it is better to stay on thje house top that to stay in the same house with a contentious woman.It is also said that 'he that doed not offend in words,the same is a perfect person',SO WOMEN SHOULD BRIDDLE THEIR TONGUES.Some women are even so bad that when a man wants to run away they will block him,lock the door and hold on to the man's cloths shouting for him to beat them !

Men also have to have great control over their emotions "SUURU LA FI NSOKO OBINRIN".ABO ORO LANSO FUN OMOLAUBI TO BA DE INU E ADI ODINDI.MARRIAGE IS FOR MEN AND WOMEN NOT BOYS AND GIRLS.THE DEEP CALLETH UNTO THE DEEP,YOU ATTRACT YOUR TYPE TO YOURSELF.PERIOD

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[center]SURE jare.[/center]

A slap on -the Bottom is always good during pre-intimacy and sex -LOL.

Other than that - NO - a man should never hit a woman.

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i think so, real soooo. just pray you jam real lady! you will learn the hard way never to touch a woman!

and when a man err, what should we do? chop off his prick head/blockoss? eh amaikama?

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does a man deserve a bite on his dick for a caution? if the answer is NO, then the woman aint your kid, she is a woman.

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a shameless man beats his woman.

if na me you go marry eh amaikama, hospital won't contain both of us. by the time surgeons get done with you at the hospital, cops will be waiting to ship you off.

no man will slap me and get away with it NEVER!!

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IF you ever slap a sister of mine, that hands will never be used for nothing again, cos i will cut it off, when you marry her, you knew her shortcomings, and even, if you never knew, she aint your child, nor slave, u dare notlay your filthy hands on any woman that i know, else, you will be gone for a long time

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To set her straight now if she not in right position but no be for face ooo N dont slap her with much force u wouldnt want stretch mark on her as(s).

If in heated arguement N u find her insultive 'a slap or two to caution her' totally uneccessary but if u find urself too provoked quickly find ur way to a Gym N pure all out on the metals(advice 4 d bad/hot tempard).

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there is too much argument about whether you shd beat a woman or not . and this argument is because you generalise and also depend so much on cultural and environmental factors.

but i would tell you the truth today. all women are not the same. i love women a lot, tall, short, dark, fair, slim, plump different versions and i would tell you they fall into different groups. you need to understand and put a value on a woman and that is what determines where u place her. some girls are so sweet and delicate that u cant even shout at them not to talk of slapping, while some are complete animals. we all have heard stories of girls that you give a ride and when you want to drop them they tie your clothes and demand payment for the "action" which you did not even do. those ones would enjoy a good slap

so in my opinion some useless girl out there deserve a slap once a while and they actually enjoy it. but others you just treat them like a queen and even give them chocolates , roses, nice dates and even a head once a while just to remind them that they are special

finally if you see a woman that you cant treat as special, you should not marry her, just let her go after a few times

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It is a unfair to brand men the way you do. That some men choose to be wrong doesn't mean the whole generation of men are wrong.

If a woman marry a man that slap her regularly, it is her choice. There are men out there who would not lift a finger at you. Some of you women brand them as weak. Every woman want a strong man. So, if he turn you to his punching bag, you have the choice of leaving.

I think men who hit women delebrately are cowards. There are million ways you can correct wrong doing without beating her. However, if the woman started the fight by hitting the husband, I think she deserve whatever she get.

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deserve slap? she aint ur slave, she is ur wife dam it!!!!1

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men are just scared because women are not meek and docile anymore. so they want to resort back to their primitive ways of holding a woman down. una time don pass o my brothers. this is the new age. women shouldnt have been taking crap from day one, but then again, one day for the thief, one day for the master, right?

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i think you deserve a nice swift kick up ur Bottom and a fist upside ur head.let any man decide he wants to give me a "slap or two" , shitt that will be the day,

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if any woman slaps her husband she should expect equal treatment, since we are in a time of gender equality.

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nobody can slap his wife in this millenium unless the wife doesnt know her rights

@first poster you may come from a rural background but please dont try that in the modern world[especially with our nairaland babes] your wife is very independent,has all the rights and is more likely to win in court

i believe that all women should have an education and a source of income as that is all that can save them from these

types of people still around

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Yes indeed, TOH. disgusting indeed.

If your mouth in real life is as sharp as it is on Nairaland, I advise you to stay where it is civilised and never set foot back here, even if you'll be living a sheltered life in daddy's mansion. On day you will talk back to one of your 'uncles' and he will blast you one from the blindest spot of your vision. Prepare for the shock of your loving caring parents apparently not giving a hoot, or taking his side.You may enjoy your intellectual superiority over the likes of saddam over there, but in Nigeria, they WILL do you physical violence, and the stupider they are the HARDER they hit,  and the more you try to set the situation right the more frustrated you will be.

Just imagine the humiliation of being beaten mercilessly by the likes of Saddam. With NO help from friends and family and/or onlookers and bystanders. Don't insult or look down on women in this country that have become subservient and submissive, they don't have a choice. A husband can physically disfigure his wife to ensure her 'fidelity' and no-one will touch him.

Anyone who claims we have better morals than the westerners is living in a dream

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Some women deserve it, but don't oh,

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Slapping or beating your wife I believe are traditions of the old. IT is not learned today in many marriages. All I know is that If I am talking nonsense, my husband should not feel he can slap sense to me. Instead he should tell me to go and sit down and think of What I said. If I believe I am being nonsensical, then Iw ill apologize. The same goes for him. I will not live a domestic relationship, nor will I allow for my own children to live it

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except in self-defence!

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thats foolishness,you are not allowed to raise your hand against your wife if you love her.

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I agree with that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ABOMINATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Its really bad to think of doing such a thing,can't you just ignor her when she's doing annoying stuff,ladies you better run away from guyz like this.

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peeps, i think we need to also come up with a new topic "Do Husbys Deserve a slap or Three to Caution Them"? how about that? cowards!

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Radiant, beware

That's all Im gonna say.

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It's uncivilised to slap a woman. If you can't reason with your mind you have no right to be in a relationship.

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LadyT, thanks for replying my senseless post.

You simply reiterated my earlier opinion, the suggestions u made fall within my 'fit-for-purpose' disciplinary measure. And as regards men getting a slap also, that is definitely offtopic because the thread clearly reads ''Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?'' I will sure give my opinion on that when such thread comes up but until then let's keep to the topic

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Sometimes i laugh at some cyber hypocrisy exhibited by many people. Guys who are afraid of being branded retards or bullies, try fruitlessly to wear a good public face without proper analysis of the subject matter. I don't support wife beating but to be honest sometimes u just have to restrain urself

So do wives deserve a slap or two to caution them? Yes, now before u throw ur angry jibes at me, just read on

Should u do it or is it worth it? No, but u can devise a fit-for-purpose disciplinary measure

The truth is that some women can be so annoying sometimes, that is why only guys with high sense of maturity and inexhaustible patience should contemplate marriage.

The best option is to enter into a pre-marital contract with the woman - No direct or remote nagging/disrespect by any means verbal or body language, then no disciplinary action in any form from the man. The terms and conditions must be kept by all parties at all times, with grave punishment awaiting repeat offenders

Seriously, why do majority of women nag and seem to generate strife? Why can't they politely and calmly talk over issues with their spouses. I need honest answers from ladies please, no name calling here, u can disagree with my views politely without starting another chain of verbal abuse plsssss.

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