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Do You Support Pregnancy B4 Marriage?

Is it really good? Do you agree to a lady being pregnant before marraige? What if your spouse (the lady) tells you she wants to get pregnant b4 u get married or the guy tells you you have to be put in the family way b4 he takes you to the altar. Are you going to succumb to that?. What even do you think is or are the main reasons behind pregnancy b4 marraige?

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As nature, religion, and tradition demands, it is wrong to get pregnant outside wedlock, but in some case if one didn't plan for it and the baby came, it's better to have the child than to abort it. I was one victim, my first baby came befor i got married. I didn't stop begging God for his forgiveness even when i went to dedicate him in the church my mind was judging me that i ve sinned against God, but if i didnt want to sin against God i could have not even slept wit a man befor getting married, it's hard to really keep to this.

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@Topic,Its as bad as Fornication but if it happens,no big deal.Where i kick against it totally is where its a "condition to be met" before marriage.When it becomes a criteria for a girl to get preggie b4 she can be married aside that,no big deal.

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I dey wait for ya o MrCrackle

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Do you have any proof on the highlighted sentence above?!

No be God dey give woman and man pikin? why give them pikin before marriage when it is morally wrong?!

Na question i ask, so if you can explain this to me indepth, i would agree with you

WARNING: don't come back and waffle or blab, only constructive reasons and explanatory answers would be accepted

Thank you

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Morally wrong before God.

This is as bad as having premarital sex.

Being pregnant before marriage is no problem but the action that led to the pregnancy.

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its all based on personal choice really!

personally oh, , why wld i wanty to get pregnant b4 getting married? it means the marrigae will statrt with children wahala b4 we even enjoy the time together and finding our balance. . . i thnk a new couple need at least a yr on their own to make plans and work out logistsics of their union b4 actually producing children

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God will continue to provide but man must put his ways right before God. You don't have to take God for granted. What about those who after many years of marriage don't still have a child? Do we blame God, Isn't he still providing? All we have to do is, do things @ the right time to avoid unbeatable and unpalatable consequences.

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