can someone tell me?
70% of mother in laws don't
How did you arrive at this statistic?
Nope. Some daughters-in-law too don't help matters! i feel one should treat her mother-in-law like you'd treat your mother, if the woman doesn't like you, apply wisdom, be respectful, and keep your distance!
Couldnt have put it better.
I believe that some do as mine loves me to bits and i do so love her so much too. The reality is that we have had our moments that things weren't exactly perfect and during this times i did exactly what i'd do if she were my real mother. By the way she never refers to me as her daughter-in-law but her daughter