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Does Marrying A Much Older Man Makes You Look Older Than Your Age?

Does marrying or sleeping with a much older man like say 20 years older make you look older than your age or mates ?

My friend married  a 20 years older man and she has two kids now, heard some friends saying she looks old because her blood is mixing with an old blood. i have not taken time to look closely at her, granted she looks older than i do, but i usually put it to the fact that she has  carried and delivered two kids.

Please can it be medically proved? i really want to know lest i make same mistake because i don't want to look like a granny before my agemates. 

Thanks.

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It's all a matter of mind-setting. Whatever imagination you create into

your heart will definitely materialized in your real self world. Most ppl

are what they are because they allow their emotional feelings to take

control of their actual self person.

Your friend has a life to her self likely you do. Have a positive mind and try

to smile always you will remain younger.

What will be your reaction if i tell you that, you'll feel more secure and childish

with an old pal.

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Always try to be happy in the relationship you will

grow older than your age.

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No,  but it all depends on the individual, if she decides to act old becos her husband is older then she is old,  take Bianca and Ojukwu's case, even Rasaq Okoya and Shade, their wives rnt old but they make the men feel young instead,

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Girl friend relax you can't look older than what you are by marriage.

Looking older than your present age is a function of you in dressing, thinking and how you pay attention to taking care of yourself especially your skin

So take good care of yourself and look good always.

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No, but it makes you act older than your age!

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smtimes if d man is very old,it makes her look older than her age,wen they keep coming together and having sex,a yound blood is coming together wt an older one,hence d blending,making her look a little old and d man keeps looking good

like i said smtimes

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If she begins to mix with his friends yes she will look older but it has nothing to do with 'blood mixing'. Instead, It has everything to do with her new 'friends'. A 19 yr old girl with a child in an ante natal ward filled with women in their 30s wouldnt look 19. But if she goes into a club with her friends, she will look 19.

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@ poster, i have heard that too and i refuse to belive it even tho i know this girl that has been dating an older Guy like 20-25 yrs difference and the Girl is really looking older than her friends including the one that already has three kids.

I cant generalise cos of this one instance but then,

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Haba, how cld you too blv such a falacy?

Nothing cld make u look older than your age if you dont wanna look older, however, most ladies in Nigeria seems to let go of their fashion senses once they have kids, so tell her to get some good hair do, change her "old woman" wardrobe and some nice shoes to go with it, and dont pain her face like masqurades, and i am sure you will be back here telling us, she is looking young and small boys are chasing her.

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I really think this depends on the individual.My hubby is actually way older than i am (not 20 yrs farrrrrrrrrr less than that) but i dont think it makes me look older.For one my hubby looks really younger than his age and also dresses as such.We also do not have a age defined relationship so sometimes i dont even remember that he is older than i am.Its the other way round in my case with people telling you really have to keep up with that your husband oo before people start thinking you are his aunty.So i think it boils down to the individual.

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It all depends. Marrying an older man may make you look older if you are obliged to dress or behave like the man. Take as example a young girl marrying an old chief.

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ROFLMAO, no marrying an old man does not make a woman " look older "

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