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Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage?

Male always justify that they are right to have more than one wife, mistress or concubine as the name suggest. As for the female counterpart when seen with multiple of men is crucified and condemned. A woman once said “our marriage is built on complete trust for each other” but later find out when the husband dies that it was great love and trust. Is every male faithful in marriage? Recount a story to support your assertions.

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Males are polygamous, nature dictates, just like a rooster waking in the morning and sampling 4 hens to aid procreation. That natural urge, somehow has not subjected itself to the changes of civilization. Dont blame the men!

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I have been away from my husband for over one and a half years now, and I have never even thought of another man at all, when i call my husband anytime day or night he picks my call sometimes i call him 5 times a day, im always talking to his friends and family and his mum loves me, i know my husband is the faithful type, i believe its because of his ubringing by hismother and father as to why he is so faithful, they taught him a love of GOD ,family, and self. We need to love ourself before we can love another!!!My husband and i hope to bring up our daughter in his parents footsteps.

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Yes,It's that simple ooooo

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it has to do with self, ones decision that i s all.

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wait till u marry, dude.

Na condition sometimes dey make crayfish bend oh

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i will b the most faithful to my wifey

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How can u compare Indecency and murder? there is no comparison at all.

so answer the question, if the man and th wife watch Indecency together, who has committed the sin of unfaithfulness?

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Just like asking if everybody was a saint

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that is the most ridiculous reason for a man to wanna be unfaithful.

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a wise man once said that "old age and fear of death makes for a change of heart in a man".now it is the fear of "ECHIETEKA", AIDS that makes for that change. truely many men would like to taste egusi after some time of tasting ewedu,bt the thing about these diseases makes many men to apply ABS.sme pple wants to be unfaithful just for the fun of it or just to seek new areas in life,bt like one poster said earlier,it is a matter of choice.

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i would say you sold that to me already

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it is very rare to findfathfullness out side of religious circles. even in the religious circles it takes only the sold out to abide by the rules. to some they can, whereas to others its totally absurd. well its a function of the person's convictions and how that person sees marriage.

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And i guess every woman is faithful?

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certainly not every male is faithful, dats why its not easy to find true love

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How is Indecency as same as being unfaithful?

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About 95% are unfaithful some chase new skirts after a while either directly or indirectly while the rest of engage in Indecency which is the same thing as infidelity. The remaining 5 % have disciplined their minds and flesh and so do stay on track.

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There are always more in the bad side than the good ones, and if we can know why the goods are good, then, the bads can be trained or bribed, if needs be

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She has uncover the chair again oh.

Wonderful question.

Please, will like to know the answer too

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This topic is so annoying, i hate men who cheat on the wives and girl-friends until i was cheated on. I was a very faithful guy and remained so until my gf not only slept with my neighbour, she slept with guys in school with different silly and selfish reasons of being forced, lonely e.t.c. Come to think of it, this is the same girl i was waiting for to graduate before i take her to the alter. Women are cheats but not all shaa.

As for me, i still remain faithful but ended the relationship. I don't want to TRUST any girl and have decided to stay away from girls for a while. Still praying shaa for a life partner.

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This is a sensitive topic. The question should be"Why are some male unfaithful in marriage". The reality is that not all males are faithful in marriage. Reasons abound. Can it be justified? That is entirely another topic. Man has a tendency to sin and adultery/fornication is one of them like "simple" lying. I also agree that there are men who will not cheat on their spouse no matter what, but in world where there is scarcity of good, responsible and dedicated men, issues like this will arise. I think we need to ask the fundamental question of "WHY"? Then can we have possible answers. finito

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How did this question made it to the front-page. Not less than 99.9% of men are unfaithful in there marriage it may be regular cruise or fling. Women too plenty now.

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Hello Nairalanders. I would just like to make a contribution to this topic. Well from what i understand about marriage, is that once you make a vow to be committed to your partner. Then it is only fair that you stick to your words. The man actually proposed to the woman and promised to remain faithful to her for better or worse till death do them part. Now, it is ridiculous that a man would start jumping from one female to the next after having promised his partner that he would be faithful to her and never see any other woman as being more beautiful or even more sexier that she is. I honestly feel for all those ladies out there who have to go through all sorts in the name of love.

At some time, but really we guys have to grow up and fight away those urges we get when we feel like being with another lady. I am not presently married, but i hope to be as faithful to my partner no matter what. Well i have had my share of heart breaks and yes i know some people may criticize me, but i have been in relationships and maybe had a one night stand a couple of times. I just looked at it as a phase i was going through (being a young man) and now i have met some one i know i can spend the rest of my life being committed to. Then why would i want to hurt her by sleeping around. Have you ever considered if the tables were turned nad you had to be the one at home with the kids and generally taking care of the home and then you know or probably realize that you have a cheating husband. What really would go through you head then?

Never under estimate a woman, my mum once advised me on that. I have never done so and hope i never have to.

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There are very normal men who can never cheat on their wives, even though they may not be more than 3%. Most men are unfaithful to their wives and a greater number of them dont really enjoy it but cant stop doing it. They believe is normal.

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Dating three different married men. you no sabi talk to your friend? where is the joy in fokasing ppl's marital lives.

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Just a hand full of them.I have a friend dating three defferent married men and they love(claim to),adore and obey her.So who is talking of faithfulness here now.I bow for the babe.

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Error of generalisation. Can every bird fly? Can every girl dance? Can every woman conceive?

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i think its bullshit when men come up with reasons like "my wife gave me a reason to cheat" its total bullshit, did she take ur d*ck and stick it in another woman or did she make u think like an , only idiots cheat on their women and then blame it on their women. such a man is a piece of poo and a low life.

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And do all bears crap in the woods? I just can't figure how Seun allows some of these topics on the homepage.

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I'm sad you made the front page, this post is really not a classic. But anyway, Not every male is faithful and not every female is faithful in marriage. There are married sugar mummies and married sugar daddies. End of discussion.

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like 70% of men are not faithful in their marriage but among the remaining 30% that are faithful will be my man(by faith)

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Not all men are faithful in their marriage !no matter how beautiful their wves are,many men choose to have mistresses!

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So long as my woman doesn't give me reason to cheat, why should i?Although there are more than many men who have the most loyal and loving and still cheat becoz "they can".I don't envy that.

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Always speak/vow for yourself don't say he/she cannot do this or that so that you will not say had I known

Trust God and monitor people

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A Man has Got to be a Man. Where a woman got 1 a man is entitle to several. Like in Bible:- did u ever read wher a woman has 2 husband? No and never!! Men ar polygamus in Nature

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cheating or no cheating, is all choice, i cheat most of the time not because i enjoy doing it, there are lot of reason behind it. lot of men are faithful, even more than the unfaithful ones, i have more than 7friends out of 15 that will never cheat on there wife, let me ask, do you have a friend, uncle, brother, cousin etc that can never cheat, with that you can be able to figure out the percentage of men enjoy cheating.

@There are many “normal” men out there who remain faithful to their wives till they die. what did you mean by NORMAL MEN? did you mean that any man that marry more than one wife or cheat is not normal, please take it ease. we are all normal we just cheat for reasons

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Well,it is not all men that are unfaithful,there're still some that are faithful irrespective of the believe in Africa that men hav the right to marry as many wives as they want.Men's unfaithful is all about mindset and addiction.U know, when one build-up a mindset of justification on infidelity and start acting on it 4rm his youth,he will be addicted 2 it n it will definitely become hard 2 exit even after marriage.Mindset/addiction is also the reason why a real born again christian guy will neva chit on his wife b/cos his mind keeps telling him that it is against God. Right 4rm his youth he will continue 2 live in that way thereby getting addicted 2 it as a way of life.So whateva one hears often, gets rooted in his/her mind n certainly b/comes his/her character.There4 guys,start training ur selves frm ur youth n u will see de simplicity& posibility of faithfulness in marriage.U will also become smart and know that all crab holes are the same.Thanks

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My Dad was faithful in His marriage.

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Faithfulness depend on individual, but some time one of the spouse make the other to b unfaithful by what they do, eg one not able to satisfy or being troublesome to the other. But truely women are more faithful than men no matter what

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For once i agree with you

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Remove the word every, maybe your post may seem realistic.

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The faithful males are nonetheless, far lesser than the unfaithful ones.

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