My boyfriend (serious relationship) has a child from his former wife (5 years old). We are thinking about going to nigeria, and his family has not met me yet. I was very happy about this suggestion since i wish nothing more than to meet his family.
But there is one point that is worrying me. He wants us to go with his child. I dont know if this is silly but i was just wondering if that might affect the way his family would think about me. Me going there to meet his parents with his child from the ex wife.
What do you say to that. Would you as "his brother, sister or father" think this to be a strange situation (of course if you already know each other it is different) but seeing your future daughter in law or sister in law with the child of your son's / brother's ex wife?