hi everyone. i must say thanks for all your replies though i havent read a lot of them. and sorry that i have not been here for some days now. that is because of a terrible incidence that happened the same day i put up this topic. the guy in question actually told me he was travelling to ibadan on official assignment that day hence i wanted to get ur views on my predicament b4 he returns the next day. but unfortunately he had a fatal accident with his car and died hrs later in the hospital he was rushded to. i was shocked when i heard this news later that day ( tuesday 14th) i didnt know wat to think. someone who just asked me for marriage the week b4! though we were never close, but i feel pity for him. i dont even know wat i feel now. i guess im just dazed. wat if i had loved him and agreed, then i would have been really heart broken. well, i guess the rest is now history.
@seun, im really surprised to see this on the front page