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He Thought He Used Her, She Used Him Instead. Can I Tell?

Now this is a hard one for me. I have a friend who has been my friend for so long, her husband is also a very close friend, we are like family members. There is this lady who happens to be my church member and told me a shocking story recently.

My friend's husband T had secretely asked this lady out according to her but she refused because of the respect she has for the wife but after a while she gave in to him. She told me how T disturbs her with texts and calls every day until she gave in. She said they both travelled out of town (d date she gave corresponds to when my T claim to have gone for seminar from work). She said that was the first time they were spending time together and they had sex for the night.

Now they guy has only called her once after then and unlike before did not send a single text nor called after that once. I could not believe what this lady told me. . . . . she said she knew T would think that he used her but in the real sense she was the one who used him and that if i care i can let him know so he doesnt start thinking he has used her and dumped her.

She said she was impregnated by her boyfriend (she's single) who wants her to have the baby but she is not ready and needed to abort it and while thinking of how to get rid of it, it occured to her that being only 4 weeks 'hot' sex can bring it down and so she decided to use him for it and he came in handy. According to her the pregnancy came down the next day.

I hear new things everyday and this is one of them, its a crazy world we live in. My problem is should i or not tell him? The only reason i ever considered telling him is to warn him to desist from such because we all respect him and his wife is nice to a fault and should the lady have died while trying to abort with sex he would have been sent to jail while the poor wife will be left in shame for so long. He is a close friend as well as his wife, can i talk to him about it or just let it go and pretend i heard nothing?

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the lady in question has nothing to tell you that why she crooked up the story.

I believe she thought that you knew and she wanted something for a cover up to you>

They both had a good sex, thats her own way of saying that to you.

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He fcked her. He used her. She needs to leave another woman's husband and move on.

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Even if his peepee is connected to an electrical outlet there is no way it will abort the pregnancy. mumu woman

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Where did you dig up this kind of story?

Hot s3x eh? Did she mean hot as in temperature?

Amazing!

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You can tell him that his gist has likely gone round the church, and will get to his wife's ears sooner or later. The uninvited confidence shows she's not a secretive person. You may wonder whether to tell him, but madam abortion's next audience may only wonder how quickly the rest of the congregation can get this gist.

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You can tell him that his gist has likely gone round the church, and will get to his wife's ears sooner or later. The uninvited confidence shows she's not a secretive person. You may wonder whether to tell him, but madam abortion's next audience may only wonder how quickly the rest of the congregation can get this gist.

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sweetie, i doubt he'll care, the whole story's wack! next!

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Tell them bro.

I am sure the wife of Mr. T will soon come and confess too that she messed up with the usher of the church.

rant nonsense.

I am sure God himself will shake his head up there.

No wonder God says, judgement will start in the church.

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You do not need to tell the Mr. T, but pray 4 them all, becos from yr analysis all of them are damn wrong.

God is definitely not happy wt this, becos sex shd be ultimately between husband and wife only.

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I attend the same church and I can assure you this sickening instance has nothing to do with the pastor. He preaches the word as it should be and it is up to listeners to be doers. How she got the courage to even tell me about it is what I still struggle to understand. The worst is the boyfriend is supposed to be a ‘bro’ too. Either she aborted the preg before or during sex my only worry is if she died trying to do that or if she had used something and she died during the sex my friend would by now have to be a regular visitor to prison to see her husband, its all confusing may be I could talk some sense to him or just overlook it is what im not quite sure of.

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the foolish girl is trying to console herself, he used and dumped her and thats it

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i agree. its either she aborted the baby before the supposedly hot sex or she wasnt pregnant before. you cant just abort a baby with a hot sex.

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Don't mind me o jare! Sometimes they think we're a bunch of kindergartens.

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na wa for you sef . . . . u too even analysing the nonsense with them?

Can you imagine what kinda church these people are going, i wonder the name of their church "Scrwe me i scrwe you gospel church" ?

Total Nonsense, wish i could call their pastor that he is not doing enuf job to keep them clean, they all need deliverance

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A fully established pregnancy cannot be aborted by 'hot' sex as you call it.

A  p e n i s cannot physically enter the (uterus)womb where the embryo is.

The embryo itself is protected and developing withing a bag of amniotic fluid, gestation sac.

Even during intercourse, a man's s p e r m will have to swim all the way from the v a g i n a through the cervix into the womb in order to reach an egg that is coming from the ovary through the fallopian tube.

Your friend's pregnancy was aborted but not through sex. She didn't use him, he used her!

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I think they are all sick and need help

A married man eloped with another woman and told the wife, he was going for conference from work.

A woman in a church was got belle for a man that she is not married to and now, hot sex will bring the belle down, and she think she has used someone.

You seems to have 3 ears, one for the man, one for the wife and one for the other woman.

It is a pathetic situation.

now y'all see why i said, marriages are whacks

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