Now this is a hard one for me. I have a friend who has been my friend for so long, her husband is also a very close friend, we are like family members. There is this lady who happens to be my church member and told me a shocking story recently.
My friend's husband T had secretely asked this lady out according to her but she refused because of the respect she has for the wife but after a while she gave in to him. She told me how T disturbs her with texts and calls every day until she gave in. She said they both travelled out of town (d date she gave corresponds to when my T claim to have gone for seminar from work). She said that was the first time they were spending time together and they had sex for the night.
Now they guy has only called her once after then and unlike before did not send a single text nor called after that once. I could not believe what this lady told me. . . . . she said she knew T would think that he used her but in the real sense she was the one who used him and that if i care i can let him know so he doesnt start thinking he has used her and dumped her.
She said she was impregnated by her boyfriend (she's single) who wants her to have the baby but she is not ready and needed to abort it and while thinking of how to get rid of it, it occured to her that being only 4 weeks 'hot' sex can bring it down and so she decided to use him for it and he came in handy. According to her the pregnancy came down the next day.
I hear new things everyday and this is one of them, its a crazy world we live in. My problem is should i or not tell him? The only reason i ever considered telling him is to warn him to desist from such because we all respect him and his wife is nice to a fault and should the lady have died while trying to abort with sex he would have been sent to jail while the poor wife will be left in shame for so long. He is a close friend as well as his wife, can i talk to him about it or just let it go and pretend i heard nothing?