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High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why?

INCREASE IN DIVORCE RATE: WOMEN ARE TO BLAME

the increase in divorce rate in our society is alarming and from the look of things our mothers, sisters and aunts are the cause.

weting unah get to say, abi we don turn EUROPE AND US. infact what is the cause?

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Property would be shared based on contribution.

If the man spent his money building the house while the woman was paying for her 2009 BMW, Then she cant have a part of it.

Sure she would be given time to move out

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Even if the man built the house before they got married, he still cannot send his wife out just like that.

There are prosidure to respect, sure she will ve to leave, but at her very given time, that is if they have kids together.

And in the case they they got married before the house was built, the man has no right to send his wife out.

If divorce occures, this properties are shared equally.

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The cry baby men have entered

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In today's western society, any informed man that see's all that's going on and still decides to get married ought to be taken to some dark alley and battered severely with baseball bats and golf clubs (i mean that).

For more info on why divorce is high? Check out the website below.It has all the info you need :

http://womensinfidelity.com/

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Depends on who built the house.

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What a slave way of treating a Woman,,,, now its thé Wife that send their husband out why they remain in thé home with thé kids. I hâte when some men say My house! Instead of our house.

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Women could take all sorts of , from their men B4 but now their eyes are wide open

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Toyin omotehinwa was married to a promising youngman lanre sarumi but she still had eyes on Kojo Annan. Her husband got to know and the marriage broke in months with her being pregnant. Now she is remarried and looks miserable with 3 kids for 2 men at age 36. Lesson to learn, ignore other men when you step into marriage.

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Another reason may be the fact that in many years back it did not take much to have a daughter, women were not trained.

A son's education was of higher priority than a daughter's except there was surplus fund.

So there was not much relatively investmented in a girl's life, there was not much quality attached to her life so

her husband could turn her to a punching bag, cheat on her and nobody would raise an eyebrow, she was created for that and she should be able to manage the situation.

Nowadays a father invests physically and emotionally in thier children's lives both male and Female, this attaches some deserved quality to a girl's life and gives the girl a sense of worth, so if she is married to someone who does not regard her in that manner, wahala dey.

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not me guv non challant attitude that is ruining the beautiful land of nigeria. it takes 2 to tangle. majority of the men and women drinking pepper soup into relationships have no business being together at all let alone creating children that is barstadizing that land.

my granny used to tell us good people are creating bad children imagine what will happen when bad kids start reproducing after themselves.

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Na ya house all ur children go dey for long time o

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Women always have to take d blame.\

Nobody ever figures that it takes 2 to get a divorce.

wat did we ever do wrong?

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thank god the housewife is dying out. Mothers do not have time to bring up their daughters in the good old "So you will find husband" way.

I forone raise my daughters to be young independent women and take no poo from no man.

A man /boy that dose not know how to talk will never make it to the door step of this house. Even a you "Dam" will not be forgiven.

Women are not at fault for the high rate of the big D. they have only come to know ,it most not be husband at all costs. even a husband has a prise limit.

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If the economic situation in Naija was anything to compare with the USA many of those efulefu men would have either got their act together or the abused women would have happily waved them bye bye and kept walking.

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Wetin concern us with the US? Show the NIgerian statistics and also include the percentage of men who throw their women out of the house, who bring in another woman and who have a mistress.

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Who initiates divorce?

The National Center for Health Statistics reports that from 1975 to 1988 in the US, in families with children present, wives file for divorce in approximately two-thirds of cases. In 1975, 71.4% of the cases were filed by women, and in 1988, 65% were filed by women.[11]

According to a study published in the American Law and Economics Review, women currently file slightly more than two-thirds of divorce cases in the US.[12] There is some variation among states, and the numbers have also varied over time, with about 60% of filings by women in most of the 19th century, and over 70% by women in some states just after no-fault divorce was introduced, according to the paper. Evidence is given that among college-educated couples, the percentages of divorces initiated by women is approximately 90%.

In their study titled "Child Custody Policies and Divorce Rates in the US," Kuhn and Guidubaldi find it reasonable to conclude that women anticipate advantages to being single, rather than remaining married.[13]

When women anticipate a clear gender bias the courts regarding custody, they expect to be the primary residential parent for the children and the resulting financial child support, maintaining the marital residence, receiving half of all marital property, and gaining total freedom to establish new social relationships. In their detailed analysis of divorce rates, Kuhn and Guidubaldi conclude that acceptance of joint physical custody may reduce divorce. States whose family law policies, statutes, or judicial practice encourage joint custody have shown a greater decline in their divorce rates than those that favor sole custody.

--Wikipedia

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where you take reach conclusion say na only women dey cause am?

anyway make all dis oyinbonised women wey dey talk rubbish carry dem wahala comot. many of una sef no fit stay for husband house becos una too sabi. make una no come dey mislead small girls for us biko

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NO comment till i carried out a research.

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@ Poster

What makes you think women are to be blamed? please get your facts right before drawing conclusion.

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And why are women to blame?

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I c nothing wrong in a divorce, when there is infidelity & insincerity between couples or even when you're being turn into a punching bag it calls for divorce. BUT [/b]This hv a main cause which is [b]''NO LOVE when u did not marry d right person u'll find your self in ds mess! This may be as a result of material things,parents self-centredness,poverty,frustration,curiosity,pride etc

In the case of our parents- when u find yourself being forced to marry someone u don't hv any atom of feeling for,may be as tradition demands. you'll find out dt u'll be irritated by the person which will lead to so many things & d marriage won't work out fine,

so my bros & sis if na u watin u 4 do

The only solution which remains ultimate is to marry the person u truly loved & let it hv a strong foundation in Christ-He will guide/lead u through d rough edges because marriage u knw is not a bed of roses

It has to do wt d union of 2 great different spirits

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you remember last year on the "Yoruba women divorce thread" I talked of a cousin of mine whose husband doesn't work,beats her up,Molests her and sees other women and she insists on being married so as to answer Mrs something.

Nonsense!

This can only happen in Nigeria

The stigma of divorce makes a woman risk her own life to live with a beast

what's the joy in answering madam when you have a black eye every other week.

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Thank you o osisi

Dont know why people think anyone that gets a divorce is copying "western world"

At least in "western world", they get alimony. Such doesnt exist in Nigeria so obviously these women arent getting the divorce due to "frivolous" reasons or because it's the cool "oyibo" thing to do. It's usually the last resort.

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The divorce rate increases further with 2nd and 3rd marriages so it's not even advisable to try again.

Anybody blaming divorce on the women folk is nuts.

Most marriages that lasted as long as they did is because the woman endured until she could endure no more.

Those women deserve a medal.

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why are people so noisy

If people get divorced, how is that your business? Do you live with them to know WHY they decide to make such a decision? All busybodies know how to do is criticize people's choice, never care to know why these people make these choices, all so you can whine about something. Get a job.

If they are fine with it, why the hell are you bothered? Just because you're miserable doesnt mean everyone else should be

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i only hope your daughter doesn't get into a nasty marriage.

you realize that alot of the fked up adults in the world are a function of the sort of union of 'dysfunctional couples' that almond was referring to?

where do you think the ted bundy's , jeffery dahmers, etc of the world came from?

unless the couple can resolve to live in a lovelss marriage in which their childern are oblivious to the bad blood between them, let them divorce.

kids who grow up in families where domestic violence, infidelity, alcoholism, etc are the norm grow up t repeat the trend.

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Thank the devil for iya ndagbes ill advising young girls in the society

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Proper care and education for our children remains a cornerstone of civilization.

Children not only shape our future; they determine in many ways our present.

Men and women work harder knowing their children are safe and close at hand.

And never forget that, with children present, parents will defend their home to the death.

Only if parents understood this, Divorce rates will come down faster

than a high temperature in Alaska

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well said mamaput, in the past women were too submissive and took alot of sh*t from their husbands and their families. but nowadays, women are more confidence and men take it for arrogance. too bad.

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women are waking up and are not ready to accept all nonsense from men.

tank god for small mercies

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And how do you figure that women are to blame for all the failed marriages?

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Yes, there is high increase in divorce rate and its going to be increasing in as much our "girls" are not too anxious of getting married tommorrow. See our girls high "chicken brain. You can not imagne what a girl that drop a loving and sincere boyfriend just because he is not committing himself to marrying her for a person she met in just few months for marriage. What do you expect from such home.guess,

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The main causes of Divorce is:

1. The marraige was not found on the right foundation

2. Infidelity

3. Insincerity

No one sex has a full blame. Both men and women are culpable.

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