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How Do I Deal With Disloyal Friends?

i had a friend and we were very close.then later a foreign grl came to school and the three of us became friends.but now, i find that both of them r very close and i feel left out.the foreign girl even invited my friend to come and stay with her 4 a week in summer!as if that was not enough,i read a txt msg in the foreign girls fone.i no i shoulnt have but it made me no stuff i dint no.both of them were sending txt msgs to themselves and gossiped about me in it.they pretend to be my friends in the real world but i just cant trust them anymore. i cant even trust anybody at this point.the most annoying part is that i cant confront them cos i shouldnt have read her msg and also i checked and she had deleted them already!am so confused and sad.pls advice me on wat to do.

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Its natural you feel bad but my dear getting on with your life is the best pain reliever you can get now.Forget the informations you have,ignore them and focus on more important things,mix up with people of like minds and study.

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thanx everyone.i stilol feel really sad tho.its like am keeping the informetion i no to myself and its killing me!!. i c them almost everyweek.the foreign girl stays over at my friends house and wen i invite her over to my house,she makes flimsy excuses.

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chief2b and softee have said it all

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Don't confront them. Now that you have this piece of information, just get on with your own life, ignore them, smile when you see them knowing that there is going to be more opportunities in life to meet new people.

Now who are the clowns?

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In my 45 years on this Earth, I have come to realize two things, your butt(rear, Bottom, bum)will always itch at the most inappropriate times and friends will screw you over quicker than anyone. Sounds like it's time to get some new friends.

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Its normal at that age, we were a group of about of about 5 and some were closer to each other than others and sometimes 2 will move on to do something on their own. I never even visited all five at home just one or too ,

the problem is that your group is small.

My daughter also was in a group of three and she was best friends with one, somehow the other two became best friends and thats because they have more things in common.

Both of them smoke , drink and go to the club. my daughter is more into her schoolwork and has a steady Boyfriend. But i adviced her to take time out with her friends so she goes out with them now and then .

She knows they gossip about her , then when she is with one of them they gossip about the person that is not there.

every one gossips .

there is a saying , if everyone could hear what is said about them, there will be no two friends in this world.

But there is gossip and their is gossip.

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give them an Bottom whoping, or better go look for other friends and more cooler ones

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