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How Do You Choose Your Friends?

I for one tend to choose friends who are more like me and i cant stand unintelligent or clingy friends.

how do yall choose or should i say what do you look for in a friend

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i dont choose friends, they choose me

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I hate friends who r very envious and evil.d ones who always put u down or crush ur spirit becos they r intimidated by ur beauty,intelligence and creativity.d ones who always like to be in control of ur life and offer no encouragement when u intend to do sumthin benefitin to urself.

I like friends who wanna be friends wiv me cos they like mi 4 who i rilly am and not wat i have.I like pple who r intelligent and get excited about d same things as i do.friendship shud advance ur life not diminish it.

But it is also gud to hve friends dat r totally opposite from u cos if every1 around u is like u,it can be extremely boring.u nid friends dat r refreshing and fun to add excitement to ur life.

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I make friends that relate the same way i do

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basically, i am always very careful when choosing my friends. infact, i don't have a particular friend that i am close with. i don't want to be attached to any friend.

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it doesn't take me 5 minutes to know

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most of my friends almost have anything in common and that brings a lot of understanding which is very important.

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i will be here when u come back.

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@bluenubian

Infact, l miss nairaland. My school is chasing me away from nairaland. too much assignments but l would be back soon.

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hmmm ur actually right sha. But i call my friends at skool my associates not friends but i'm talkin abt them female ones. Me and the guys we kool

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@bluenubian; who are moochers?

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hey disney

how come we dont see u around more often?

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I dont choose friends. If I can hold a steady conversation with you and we can hang out n stuff dts coo, i guess we could be friends.

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dont know

any good friend that comes my way,i'll be ya buudy

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@ Blunubian i know right

Hmmm i cant say i choose my friends sha really i wud say who eva comes around is a friend to me. yeah i guess

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i'm actually introvert.so i don't make a lot of contact with people that i can then choose friends 4rm,but when i do get the courage to talk to some1 and we flow,after spending time together i guess i'll be able to call the person my friend

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i don't choose friends bicos i like talking and i like meeting new pple

i wouldn't say everyone i have talked to are my best friends.

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dat was meant to be sarcastic not that they will actually pay for anyfin.

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I  choose my friends

by getting close to someone who will really leave me alone,

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You've got a point. But what kind of friend wld u be if u measure the worth of a friend on how many of ur drinks they pay for?!

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at least i know doz dat can afford to pay and doz dat cant.

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What if your friend doesn't have the money to pay for you but is really your true friend?

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when i ask who will go shopping wid me, doz dat stand up will be my friends then when i ask who will pay for me, doz dat remain standing are my true friends.

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I dont choose friends, but the ones that make my life a lot happier, stnd by me, nd tease me are d ones that i call my friends.

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See also: What Are Friends For?

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i don't choose friends. That's ridiculous. I make friends with everyone!

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I don't make friends easily but when I did, it's for life.

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very simple.

i make friends with ppl i am going to learn one thing from. if i wont learn nothing from you, you aint ma friend. there must be something i see in you dat qualifies u to be my friend.

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i make a lot of friends most of the time. the only friends i don't like are the ones that irritate me. apart from that am cool with anyone. i may not really hang out with those friends that don't really contribute positively to my life, but they still going to be my friends regardless.

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I don't choose. I get to know everyone I meet but if I find you to be silly, annoying and ignorant, I'll cut off contacts with you. I hate gossipers and people who are scared to voice their opinions.

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