how can i make my husband addicted to me?
You should be in shape, slim, with muscle, bosom looking to the moon (even after babes), smelling always good, hair always done, Bleep like calabar girl, dont nag, make delicious food . Be yourself , without be slave. Be self confident and powerful.
From inside to outside
Is not because y re crazy for him he will feel the same for you , no, is not automatic like that
Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars, we come from differents planets, so we feel different.
Have y already read that book ?
I hope u know that by being ADDICTED to you he will be doing the following: -
1. Eat breakfast before gong to work
2. Come in at lunchtime for his meal (even when you are busy with other issues)
3. Do you every other night and day
4. Follow you everywhere (even to the toilet)
5. and counting
Please, think twice before u say that word "ADDICTION" again
The Bible says in Titus 2:3, 4: “The older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things--that they admonish (or teach) the younger women to love their husbands, ” (NKJV).
Hmmm, I wondered, when that verse leapt out at me one day. What are some concrete ways to "get you husband love you"? Thoughts started pouring into my heart, and I grabbed a pen and jotted them down. They became the basis for my message for you entitled "How to command love from your husband." They're all based on scriptures, and I believe the Lord birthed these truths in my heart.
I'd like to share a streamlined version of them, below. May they take root in your heart, and may your husband love and respect you but you have to make some sacrifies below:
1. RESPECT HIM. "And the wife must see to it that she deeply respects her husband--obeying, praising, and honoring him" (Ephesians 5:33, LB). Respect means, “to consider worthy of high regard.”
Don't "talk down" to him or make fun of him, especially in public.[/i]
2. BE HIS CHEERLEADER! "And the Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him" (Genesis 2:18, NIV).
[i]Encourage and compliment him.[/b]
3. SUBMIT TO HIM AS YOUR HEAD. "Wives, fit in with your husbands' plans" (I Peter 3:1, LB). True biblical submission, according to the Greek, means, "to graciously cooperate with the headship of your home."
[b] Learn to be assertive without being threatening.[/i]
4. OVERLOOK HIS FAULTS AND CONCENTRATE ON HIS PLUS POINTS. "Love will cover a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8, NKJV).
[i] Remind yourself of his good points continually and try not to concentrate on his shortcomings.[/b]
5. RESPOND TO HIS SEXUAL NEEDS. "Because of the temptation of immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise, the wife to her own husband. For the wife does not rule over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not rule over his own body, but the wife does. Do not refuse one another, " (I Corinthians 7:2-5, RSV).
Be knowledgeable about sexuality, which God created. Read the two classics, The Act of Marriage by Tim LaHaye and Intended for Pleasure by Dr. Ed Wheat. Above all, ask the Lord to help you in this area.[b]
6. DON'T LOOK TO HIM FOR YOUR HAPPINESS. ", in the presence God There is fullness of joy" your hushand may not be happy at alltime he may also have some challenges in the office or else where them try and be his happiness so that he can get over it intime insteat of conplanind (Psalm 16:11, KJV). Always remember, lasting happiness comes only from the Lord, not a man.
I'm not sure you understand your question.
How do I make my husband addicted to me?
An addiction signifies an unhealthy attachment to something or someone to the gradual erosion of your own free will.
I'd rather have my husband love me thoroughly and without bias of his own free will. If that's what u want, then ask the question.
Hey Oluomok, I like the way you used the scriptures to backup your points.
The most important question is what kind of woman does the husband want? What she is trying to express is that the husband is not into her as she would like. Perhaps the husband married someone he wasn't really into.
Some marriages are for convenience. Perhaps the husband likes someone who's on the same wavelength in a lot of ways.
This has nothing to do with cooking good food or making love 24/7.
Only you will know what has changed since you've been married to him,
I'm sorry but think i see this question in a different perspective, cos to me it seems more like "HOW DO I CONTROL MY HUSBAND", If you're addicted to him, you don't have any reason to come here to ask this question, cos he'll be addicted to you too.
So go get yourself right then come and give your testimonies here instead.
And listen, its not all about sex, because if they tell you to give him sex always, he'll end up getting used to you and would want to taste something different. So i'll advice you to go get addicted to him first then see if you wouldn't change your mind about trying to control him get him addicted to you
I am a married man with children and I know what make me to love my fie and I will tell you to do that same to your husband too. If you God is on your side, he will love you.
Talking about how he can be addicted, I don't know that but I can adverse you on what you might do to make your husband love you.
First of all, know what men love best. They are 1. SEX, 2. FOOD, 3. RESPECT, 4. SUBJECT TO HIM, 5. PRAYER
SEX: Do it with all joy, be romantic and clean at all times. Always clean yourself before going to bed with him.
FOOD: Always cook nice food and always make sure he fine food when ever he come from work. Let your cooking be clean. Serve and eat with him most of the time.
RESPECT: Respect him always and do not abuse him or don't be too violet with him.
SUBJECT: Always try and be subject to him most of the time. Even when you are right and he is wrong, subject to him first and later you then in romantic way let him know that you where right then.
PRAYER: If you are a Christian, always ask your husband to pray before eating, in the morning, and bedtime and sometimes pray when he will not want to pray. Introducing him to prayer will help you build a loving home / family.
Why did you need to do all these thing for your husband? When you are doing them to him, you are also asking him to be doing it to you too and he will have no choice but to start doing the same thing to you and love you!
self-service is common and very normal in my view. i've been an only child all my life until my stepsister (no relation) moved in with us when i was the age of 14. Since then, we've been self-servicing together all day everyday. its like a ritual to us now and we find it to be very soothing. we also engage in MouthAction frequently and we find it to be very normal and exciting. WE SIMPLY ENJOY IT AND FIND NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. Our parents don't know and trust me they will never find out. My sister and i will always wait till our parents go out or something and then we start self-servicing and we do it all over the house. On the chair, in the shower, on the kitchen counter, u name it we've done it. but i wud have to say my favorite thing about my sister is her pleasuring me orally. they way she uses her mouth is mesmerizing and it gets me off instantly. i luv that girl. my all time favorite is putting whip cream on my dick with a little cherry on the top and her sucking and licking the whip cream off. IT'S SO FREAKING AMAZING. my eyes roll back and my body shakes. and guess what i do the same thing in return to her. now i am 16 yrs of age and she's 15 and we plan to never stop. we've also videotaped ourselves and we watch it to make improvements. i love my stepsister and meeting her and her moving in with us was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Addicted? Omo you go tire ooo!.I am sure you do not want him running around you like Chicks run around their mother,so please manage the love he is showing you and if you want more, then do more!. But remember! every one at one time or the other needs to be alone and clear his or her head. You do not also want to have a son that will be dancing around his wife uncontrollable.
pls u don't want 2 do that,do u?relationships where one partner is obsessed with d other never lasts.talking 4rm experience you know!just be flexible all round,look sexy at all times,make good meals,gossip,yes it kinda connects you two cos he'll always want to share a lot with you.i'll get ur email and tell you about a site u can get help.finally,stop complaining and learn 2 TOLERATE
1. cook good food, expecially his favourite
2. dont ask for sex, he might not be in that mood as at that time
3. every time he ask for sex, give him, give him in many channels, u know what i mean ?
4. talk about love with him
5. look strieght into his eyes when he talks
WHATCHOUT FOR PART TWO
My sister addiction to you is not a good thing. One of the definitions is 'The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or or involved in something'.
Imagine if all he thinks about is u, he would have no time for work and to earn money, no time to carry out his duties as a father to your children etc.
I would suggest that instead, you pray for his undivided love, attention and devotion. If u are a christian, I would suggest you study Proverbs 31 and the Story of Delilah. Yes Delilah!! She was quite smart.
perhaps i should refer you to calabar women.
they seem to have a way of making their men addicted to them.
they'll give u better srategy.
but in my opinion i think he'll be addicted if u do the following.
good conversation skills
cheerful disposition always.