if u happen 2 know ur man has a mistress,how will u handle her or d situation?
I will dialogue with him, if he didn't change i will keep praying to God to touch him, i will ignore them, and believe one day he will come back.
but i will keep myself busy, always looking attractive, doing things that will make him feel jealous i.e when am on phone with my siblings, i will use sweet words and laugh loud, trust me before you say jack he will ask ''who is the caller''?, trust women.
I won't handle anyone. I'll just simply "dash" him to her and get myself a better life. No cheat is worth the effort, and life's much too interesting to live in misery . And yeah, he'll be needing a good lawyer too.
I hail you my sister. I have conditioned my mind so, i am not gonna fight nobody, just make a life for myself and move on. have so many to achieve beside being married.
i'll act like i'm not aware of wot is going on n treat him real good even if doesnt appreciate it(if i've not caught dem red handed,since there's no evidence 2 prove),however, if i catch them red handed i'll even be more nice,i'll prepare his favourite food,do his laundry n other tins he likes without ever bringing up d issue of infidelity,even if he puts up a fight with me i'll put my temper under control n still be nice n fullfill all my marital responsibilities,but if he brings d lady 2 d house i'll welcome her with open arms n treat dem like important guest,d gal will be scared n uncomfortable 2 death because she'll have obviously thought i'll yell n insult dem both.d guilt of my niceness will not only send her away but bring my husbands senses back
have you ever thought that the guy might have been jazzed? there is this real life situation that happened to a man who never had a feeling for his secretary. but the secretary felt she deserved a piece of the mans wealth, put jazz in the mans tea and the story began.
so will be the fate of such a wife when she finds out?
my answer to this question is dont ever give up on your marriage, we are all human, the bible says the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
no one is beyond mistakes, you dont have to throw away what you have built over the years. Cry unto God and he will surely see you through. even men of God fall for this temptation but your love and faith in God could weather the storm.
before this time, i used to have same opinion as those in the forum but with maturity and a life in Christ you know better.
yes, a married man having an affair is not the best but you dont have to divorce him once this happen, try to find the root to this problem and with God on your side you will win.
why shoot her? did she molest your husband? or did he accidentally slip his willy in her kitten? or maybe she pursued him til he was too weak to run and she had her wicked way with him. Please no man is worth going to jail for and i would never lower myself to the point of getting physical with another woman over his thrifling ways now no way
first of all b4 i get married d guy gon know me very well. all my likes and dislikes wat makes me tick and wat makes me go crazy. I'm gon be giving him wat he wants so he's not gon look elsewhere 4 it.
but lets just say it happened i don't have beef with d gurl cept 4 if she knows he's married and still went out with him anywayz then she gon know wat crazy really looks like. i don't respect women who gon be dating other peeps husband. and d guy better not come home d day i know cuz i'm not gon be responsible 4 wat i do.
after i'm done the so called mistress gon be d one dumping him and if a guy i love would hurt me dat way then we not 4 each other. he better get a good lawyer too.
Chinani!!!!!! True talk Euphoria?mmmmm i keep wondering.Is there a guaranty that the next husband wouldn't do something worse?If u find yrself there pray and be good.God will turn him around.
Just look good and get busy!Make sure you take good care of yourself.With his money though!
As for the mistress,let her be the fool act like she's inconsequential.
well, i guess i'll say she is welcome to him, if i have kids when this happen, i'll just pray and hope that once the novelty wears out he'll do thesame to her, once a cheat always a cheat. I have no time for cheats,i'll leave him. My mother taught me that, she didnt stand for it and now she is in such a loving marriage with another, there is absolutely no need to put myself through crap for any mortal.
I have friends that are going through that now.(the age is right)
If the man is bent on keeping her there is nothing they can do about it.
They stay or they go.
Funny enough its Africans.
The wife will rent and rave the police will come and go. Because no one will say whats going on. Or why they are fighting.
Till they are fed up of fighting.