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Hubby Doesnt Want To Hunt For A Job , How Do U Cope?

how do you get your hubby to start job hunting, especially when you're not working after having a baby.

if he is not the 'hustling' type.

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The bible says he that does not work does not eat. He will not eat in MY house which is what it becomes when he decides that he is not "the working type". He will have to be lazy somewhere else. Not on my couch. Sorry. It is tough I know especially since you just had a baby. If you are in the states and you have no serious savings it means that you are in hot soup. I will never advocate divorce over trivial issues but this is not a small issue. I don't know what you should do but I cannot stay with someone like that.

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You really need to talk to him. How long has he been out of a job, has he ever worked, and if so, why does he refuse to go job hunting all of a sudden?

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Things are extremely difficult generally, not to speak of the addition

of a new baby, He needs to brace up and start looking for a job,

even if its a low paying job until something better comes along,

Otherwise u all will be on the streets,

I don't know what more could be crucial than that except u both are financially boyant.

Best of Luck.

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Sit him down and talk to him, he needs to support his family especially now you're off work.

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@poster,was he not working b4 the arrival of the baby or did he just stop as you had the baby?

whatever be the case,he just have to go out and hussle jare,you cant be taking care of the baby,yourself and still doing the hussling.

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Honestly am not qualified to answer this type of question since am still single. Hmmmmmmm, Is he Ill or is there some epecial reason why he does not want to go look for a job, Was he working b4 you gave birth?. If he is healthy, simply discuss with him and explain that you need support now that you have put to bed.

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