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If You're A Man, Would You Consider Living In Your In-laws House?

God Forbid you became broke and your wedding was just few months old, and you were told to leave your apartment due to unpaid house rent. Would you consider moving in with your In-laws in their mansion until you could sort yourself out financially?

However, you still have your parents house on one side but seriously contemplating about it, as you've left there for years and wouldn't go back there. Your friends are of no good as well. Your in-laws are the only one willing to harbour you until you're ready to move on, what would you do in this situation?

A friend of mine has gone through this before, but the in-laws weren't the problem on this occasion. It was my friend's wife! She became so arrogant and pompous of the situation. She was happy her husband was now under her. God has blessed my friend with his own apartment now.

Let me know your thought!

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If the reasons are justifiable, it may be just right, since it will be an interim measure

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i agree with jay bee. if a man wants to move to in laws then its a "A sweet recipe for disaster",

well said, look i m trying to save my self from that disaster which is already going on, pray for me and also suggest me,

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Most certainly NOT.

CAN'T WON'T consider such.

Haba. . . . where is d pride? don't wanna feel less of a man. If u aren't man enuff to marry then stay single.

A sweet recipe for disaster

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i dont agree with sophiee, i think she or her husband did not see that problem, i think there is difference between cuture of two state, i m talking about pakistani culture or this thing can be seen in indian culture. but it law of nature,, there are some princple which looks odd but at the end it is the fact, i cannot disclose all thing but in short i just want to say rthat mother in law will become permananat part of ur life which will ruin husband;s life

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dont you know the expiry date of your house rent before? see the mess you ve got yourself into, however you want to do it, either your parents ooo or your in-laws, you re a failure and the disgrace is already there. your wife can take it up on you anytime and insult the hell out of you.

key things in life

shelter, food and clothing

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Don't move into ur inlaws house it is not good the best solution is to ask ur wife and the kids to move to her parient house and den u can hang out with friends pending on when tings get beta and if it is one room u can rent u can do dat there is noting like ur independency,

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Brother,,,,,,now listen carefully i m going through this problem. never think about to move in laws,  ur wife will become more arrogant, ur mother in law will keep on advising her daughter and one day she will stop listening to u, so dont think about,  i am also trying to find a solution for my self but still i m not been able to find any solution, help me if anyone of u have any solution for me.

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its actually an option, maybe not the most appropriate in the circumstance given. imagine a scene in which the only available abode ready to accomodate them is that of the wife they need to sleep there even if its for afew nights.

but its better they move to his parents house if its within reach.

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Tufia ! God forbidd bad thing ! You are definately selling your birth right !

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Most times in-laws are just unbelievable and unpredictable. I wouldn't go there but rather go back to my parents house.

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Since i'm not an alien i will go to my family and the worst is to let her go to her family.

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Hell no,that's not an option.

If they want to help out,let them loan me some money to get an apartment.

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His parents house is still better. Infact, in some culture, u stay in your parents' house for a short while with your new bride before moving to your own location. So I don't see any negative stigma here. However, u are expected to live in your father's house again immediately after marriage in some other culture. This is where u may be stigmatized. Where u do not have the option of puting up with your parents (if u are living in another town), u can stay in your inlaw's place or your trusted friend's apartment but make sure u don't overstay.

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