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is it right? my bf of one year want me to go to his house and kind of show myself to his parents, i feel its not just ok.he is in usa now, but before he travel we've not gone to their house before. so now he said his parent are disturbing him to bring his gf home,is it not whenever he comes back that we go together

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Show me love with cash.

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Ladies sha with their attitude, if u are not comfortable with that u need to let her so that it wouldn't become constant. Ati kekere lati n pe ka iroko, to ba dagba tan apa oni le ka a mo.

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Stop d spending.Draw a scale of preference, map out d necessities and rule out d opportunity cost.After dat RESUME BOY!!

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i guess you need to talk to her about how you feel uncomfortable about her constantly asking you for money. I mean the food stuff is no big deal because i'm sure you ate some of the food but when it comes to thing of her doing her hair and junk she would have to take care of that herself. i mean if you both were not dating or if she wasn't dating anyone how would she have paid for all that stuff?

nip this in the bud before it gets out of control

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whts not good does not have another name!

Its not normal atall.

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okayyy, i do think its not that normal, the way you worded the topic made it a bit confusin for me so I'll just say this:

if he's going to introduce you to the family then hell, you shouldn't be so 'shy' lots of girls are waiting for that opportunity

if you're introducing yourself its kinda weird and personally I wouldn't go by myself

BUT

if you've already met them, like even a little glance at the relatives then I think you should go and meet them of your own accord

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Bottom line : It is not normal.

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Being in a relationship for one year, you must have gone to his house once or is parents house. and to me it all boils down to love if you know you can spend the rest of your life with him that is you are very sure of the trust you have for him then you can go and introduce your self to his parents else my sister let him come him self and do it the right way.

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spike cylinder and temi I agree with you

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Sweetmum, protocols does not count in some many cases. Put it behind you and do what ur guy wants u to do hence he is not in town and you know you love him.

All he needs to do is to introduce you to the parents before you go there. Also he needs to give you his mum's phone no. and yours to the mum so that she can invite you and you chat with her before going.

Sefeni

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I dont get it, how in Gods name will she walk into a house and start introducing herself, as who nw?

for me its abnormal,if he really wants u to meet his parent its 2 way here,

If he cant come over and take u to them,then the parents will have to come see u,

Yes come see u,because right now u are not only important to the son but the family,

The perseption u create in them at this stage rilly matters,if u go there is like u desperate abt the whole thing even though they knw,they have been presurising thier son abt it

Am an only sister of 5boys,and abt 6 brother in-laws,so i have an idea of whts like bringing a woman home.

He has to take u home!

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It'll be quite uncomfortable for her to go and meet up with his parents without his physical presence there. Families range. . . . .

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He wants his parents to check you out to see if you measure up or maybe he really loves you. It is all up to you. Do what you feel comfortable with. I personally do not like the idea but I can't tell you to do anything else. Who knows he might be your one true love

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Everything starts in a day, ur guy might have told his parents about u, if he is asking u to visit them then tell him to call when u will be with his parents for the first time so that he can formally introduce u on phone, this could reduce ur shyness or whatever it maybe.

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Hey, if u know u love that boy and he is asking u to visit his parents, don't wast time, do u know how many girls have lose their friend all in the name of distance?? the guy want his parent to seeu, he will have more confident if u will frequent and be friendly to his parents. There is no abnormality in this, grab ur opportunity my dear.

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