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Is It Possible Today, That A Married Man Would Not Cheat On His Wife?

i've talked to a lot of men, single and married and i discovered that those who are not already cheating on their wives, aspire to do so as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

i've been searching for that man who would not cheat on his wife, i haven't found one. have you?

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I really hope it is possible as i am married and really hope & believe that my husband would never cheat. Nice to see some reassurance from some of the men on here though!

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yes, it's very possible . . i'm married to one . . .

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We saying same thing . . . .read what i say well.

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A LovePeddler a LovePeddler and it does not matter if he is married or not. Some men will not cheat and even if it happens it is not something that they are proud off or see as the norm

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Yes it is possible, there are not just a few out there but A LOT, they rarely blow their own trumpet.

The temptations out there are the same as in years gone by, just with different clothing.

Some of you seem to hold men to low standards, which is sad.  What standards are you setting for your sons/nephews if this is how low you think of your gender?? 

How about YOU being the difference rather than looking at what other men are/aren't doing?

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It is hard to find a man that will not cheat, but i will make sure that i dont cheat on my woman, cos when the women finds out it is devastating to them, and ti is a commitment to the woman and God, also, i think that is why it is better for teh woman to have tried all toys be4 getting married, so that after marriage, no toy will thrill you, and make sure you marry the woman with most facinating toy to you, I will love my wife too much to hurt her

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Hi house,

I believe its possible to find men dat does nt cheat on their wife arn but its very hard. D ? is wat is d definition of cheating? Women too cheat on their husby like a yoruba adage says 'it is who d dawn meet dats a thief.

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if your man is perfectly happy at home, he wont cheat on you

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Ive seen a man that has never cheated on his wife and vice versa.

@poster, my answer to ur question is yes and it is done by the grace of God, love, respect (for ur spouse) and will power.

Coming to the issue of women doing anything in their power to satisfy their men so as not to cheat; its baloney. Some people cheat on the most loving and caring spouse so is not all about satisfying the cheater.

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well it's notpossible

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@ His_grace

I have never being MARRIED, but from what I hear, read most married men can't help cheating on their wives. My man once said the smart ones don't get caught.

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@ Danniyi

Yes you are so right, it's possible by the grace of God.

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It's very possible for a MARRIED MAN to be TOTALLY FAITHFUL to his wife, I've been married 14 YEARS this august and I've been faithful all the time. Trust me I played the field in my younger days, but by the grace of GOD I was changed. I have about 3 other friends who are faithful to their wives and we go on boys outting together, watching out for each other. The fact is that there are temptations every now and then, but the consequences of the fling/affair whatever you want to call it might cost you more than you bargain for. I'm not claiming to be so strong in my own strength to remain faithful, but with the HELP of the HOLY SPIRIT, there has been times when I'm away on a business trip and one has been chased by the opposite sex. Brothers, you need to know that infidelity will costs you more than you're willing to pay, I have a very close friend who had a brief fling(did it twice) and there's no a baby and a broken marriage! Women should also do their utmost best to satisfy their husbands sexually, PLEASE SISTERS, stop using SEX as a WEAPON and pray continuously for your husbands that they will not fall prey to SHARKS! Enough said, will continue another time.

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it is possible, but only by the grace of God. Some ladies are out there just to sleep around with married men, but men with a serious conviction and dtermination not to sleep around. I STRONGLY BELIEVE IT IS POSSIBLE

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Most guys, NOT all guys. I can tell you that you can find a clean guy.

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Yes it is possible . . . but is it common to find one that don't cheat? I am not sure, cos most men seems to enjoy the extra activity

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@N-joy

That is not the way it is - maybe with you, but dont generalise.

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@ Simply me

Please don't be sorry, that's just the way it is. He can't cheat if it's just the two of them living in a Island.

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@N-joy

you're saying there is absolutely no man that doesnt cheat? married or not married. I am sorry if u think just dat way.

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Yes o, if it's just the two of them living in an Island.

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was possible , is possible and will forever be possible

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Everything is possible

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i feel is the way a particular child is brought up, so i would say men that cheat on their wives are either trained with that kind of lifestyle or are influenced into it or they can not control their emotions

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i feel is the way a particular child is brought up, so i would say men that cheat on their wives are either trained with that kinbd of lifestyle or are influenced into it or they can not control their emotions

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would you like to post that on a new thread?

basic ruth - if u treat your woman right she wouldn't leave you for anything

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Is it possible that a woman would not leave her man for a richer guy?

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well, because today values are lower, temptations higher and a lot of men do not seem to want to fight the temptations. they are simply thrilled by them. sometimes, they even go out of their ways to seek them out - and what you seek, thou shall definitely find.

another reason is that men want to eat their cake and have it by enjoying the best of two worlds!

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why would you presume that it's not possible for a man not to cheat on his wife?

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@SEUN

you took from me a post, i shall requite it from you now.

i cannot seem to find my game plan for today again. please, help me beg Seun to give me my agenda for this night. e joooooo.

if he does not return it, i shall come back with a reviewed list and i am sure it will be heavier than the former one. i

i just want to commit only one sin, Seun no make am plenti.

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'naughty knotty'! you and i know that an old flame would not solve the problem. you both should sort things out, afterall you had enough love to say'i do' and the old flame who was not good enough for the alter should not be an alternative to the best woman you married!

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Cheat? No never should one do such to His/her partner,it's not nice ooo

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All,

It's not only possible, it is also achievable! There are countless men who have not cheated on their wives and are not planning to. With all humility, I am one of them! And just last month we marked 6 years of marriage.

The key is not in the situations around you nor what your wife is (not) doing, but your commitment to the marriage vows you made to her before many witnesses. Integrity is what will keep you there!

Blessings.

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Omoge, Taken from my personal perspective, Yes. But when view from larger corrupted society I will say the blame is evenly distributed. We must understand that first and foremost, for reason best known to the society, they collectively made man polygamous. As such they had given him licence to cheat. When the time come for him to test his wife conviction about polygamy, man would never tell the poor woman. Unless the man is as careless as his JT,he wont tell the wife until he had found a partner. Even then, responsible men would rather do it with diplomacy. This must never be interpreted as cheating. It is an art created by the system. The way the man handle the drama would give him away.

Why I said the wife may be the cause is for the following reasons among otherr:

1, if the woman take her domestic role for granted and become negligent at home, she is giving her man licence to seek peace outside.

2, a woman must never discountenance polygamous nature of men regardless of their religion. Christains seen to flirt more than muslim for obvious reasons. The woman must not show any anxiety at all if your man is faithful during courtship as someone put it. She must rather spend her energy on cristallizing the love they had created. It must be mutually inclusive.

Yet, I know something about 'players' they may never stop playing unless they suffer injury.

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Pessimism will lead you no where. That some men sleep around does not mean all men would sleep around after marriage. The fact is a good man can be bad if the weigh of marriage turn out to give him sleepless nights. Men are not brute as you thought, they are driven by logic. A man that sleep around must have a reason. In most cases, the wife is the cause.

So the answer, YES, IT IS POSSIBLE TO HAVE A HUSBAND THAT WON'T SLEEP AROUND AFTER MARRIAGE.

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I believe there are faithful men out there no matter how philandrous they were as single men. Personally, I wouldn't cheat on my wife. That is one promise I've made to myself, rather kill mtself than do it. I believe men who cheat on their wives lack dignity and self-respect. How would I face my kids after screwing some other girl out there? What's my wife gonna think of me? Anyway, a man who cheats on his wife doesn't value his marriage and the lives of his kids. Period!

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If a man did not sleep around before getting married, he might be faithful after marriage. Otherwise, watch him!

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last night she denied me and abused me on top.

this night i am going back to an old flame.

i am only faithful to myself.

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Very possible,i know penth would do no such thing

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