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Is It Proper To Fight Or Argue In The Present Of The Kids?

Does it really worth it fighting or arguing in the present of the Kids?

What is the message we are really passing across to them?

What is the best way to resolve issues?

Fighting in front of your kids, is nothing short of abuse. Read on before you make the decision to ever do it again.

· Children learn what they live. Stop and think about what you’re teaching them.

· What goes through your mind when you do it? How do you justify doing this? Why do you think you’re entitled to fight in front of your kids? You’ve got to look at this and say, “This ain’t working” Stop it. The kids are picking up the tab.

· You have a choice: either vent your impulse or love your children. Those are mutually exclusive. When you fight in front of your kids, you are putting your need to explode ahead of your kids’ best interest and peace of mind.

· What are you fighting about? What’s your goal when you call each other names? Is it worth trashing your children’s harmony? Can you even remember what was so important last week that you were willing to trample over your children? What “victory” were you looking for? Is it worth it? Do you think your kids think it’s worth it?

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We need a couple for the practicalisation.

I cant do it by myself. So if you would join, It would be a good learning process for the kids

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^^ Lets practicalize it and see if its good or not

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Is it proper to have sex in the presence of the kids?

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It's not right, Children should be brought up in a peaceful environment not in a quarrelsome home. . .

It's just not right but that's my opinion.

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It bad enough that parents will argue in front of the kids but in addition they will invite kids into the arguement forcing the kids to take sides.

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Children learn from us and copy us.

They idolize us.

As their role models, they will do what they see and not what they are told.

Parents control yourselves, don't fight in front of your children as you are already laying a path they will follow.

Worst of all they will think it's okay, after all Mum and Dad do it, don't they?

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Train a child in the way he should go,

and when he is old he will not turn from it,

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Very wrong whatever the circumstance.Wait till u are alone.

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What kind of questions do some people ask on the board? It is NEVER proper to fight in front of your kids. Every adult should know that.

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Depends on what its all about.

This world is not an illusion.argue is not always fighting.It could be about new TV or new fridge or some other useless stuff.

Brothers and sisters fight too not so

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Two adults should never allow issues to degenerate into fighting in the first place. There are better ways of resolving issues than fighting. Discuss it maturely if either one is getting angry, simply quit the argument. Take a walk or something, and come back to discuss when you have calmed down. You are more objective when you are calm.

Having said that, don't ever argue in front of your kids. Adults should be adults. Send the kids away, make sure they are sleeping, or get away from them if you have issues to iron out. Kids learn a lot by observation. The picture of dad and mum fighting sticks, even when you are old.

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it's reali not nice fighting or arguein either in da present of kids, kids learn and they try it within der peer.

most of us ave experience diz ugly act, but i tell uh, whn diz poo happenz our parent do not or rather can not control dem self as in whn da matter is reli hot n,

datz all i gat to say

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if my parents choose to argue in front of me. well that's their biz

anyways, it doesn't matter now since I divorced them

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