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Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her?

i met a lady yesterday whom i have known for a long while, and asked about her marital status. She told me she is still single and searching. when i asked why, she said the guys always wanted to have sex and confirmed that she is ok by, first getting pregnant.

i was shocked because i have never heard about such thing before, that a lady must be pregnant before marriage. Is this right; is it morally justified; can it be said that there is real love in such relationship?

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because i don't see the point in it. it's the quickest way to end up as a single mom

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in some cultures, it is definitely required dat u impregnate the woman b4 marriage so as to remove any shame from their name by marrying a barren woman.

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It is good to say the truth - always. but if you say it in a silly manner, you receive a corresponding response.

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get really annoy but I can't help it

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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Newbie, watch your mouth!

if you dont have manners shut up or log-off

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@Sweetpie,

who are you directing that comment of yours to?

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It is to oppress the women. it should be stopped.

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Yes they were. How about you learn to respect a nigga OK!!!

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It doesn't matter if she gets pregnant before or after marrage, the most important thing is that she is your woman, the mother of your child. it's rather too late to grow, you should have been long before now.

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It is wrong. Besides the guy may decide not to go through with the wedding.

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All these american's wanna-be.

Was all that kinda words really necessary?

try and be civil and learn how to use proper words to talk.

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Yea nigga. Is your brain on pause nigga. Bitches like that poo. For real!!!

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typical of the yorubas e.g. its the okoya's tradition

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It is a preference of people.

there is nothing good or bad about it.

Just not nice to put pressure on a lady with such demand.

Ladies shd be careful too, cos the man that asked for it, cld run away later

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I think most men that do that are highly insecure.

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Whats the rush? If you're in a rush, get married!

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Personally, I dont think that it is right but then again, to each his own. Everyones situation is diffrent. But dont think that should be a pre requisite for marriage, just seems odd to me.

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@topic,

It is not the best but pple do it and the fact that pple are doing it doesn't make it wright right.

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i believe we should not fold our hands over this issue, let us rise to condemn and discourage it, please

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i know it happens

as someone said someone said

everyone to his own

mine , find love everyother thing will fall into place

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It is not right.

But given the kinds of things women are doing in Nigeria nowadays men are simply scared.

Some girls have had more than 3 abortions.

A friends friend has had 8 abortions for one boyfriend. I dont know if its possible really, but thats the common gist I heard.

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Back home, dem still have men who think that way. Yep, the brothaz want to make sure dat wife-2-B can “breed” b4 marrying her. Strange but true

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It happens only in some part of Naija

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Each man to his own,its not right,its not wrong.It cant be forced down enyones throat !The man might be scared cos :

hes impotent/thinks hes impotent.

the lady have had lots of abortions for him in the past.

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It's not right for a guy to asked that, except the guy thinks he could hock her down with that. The normal thing is get married befor pregnancy but in some case it can happen that u get pregnant without marriage, i don't buy a guy asking a lady this kind of thing.

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the lady should ask the guy in question if it is right for his daughter to get pregnant before marriage?

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