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Is It Wrong To Marry A Single Daddy?

I think nothing is wrong with [marrying a single daddy]. What do you guys think?

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it might work out fine in living with the kid but its always hard to treat the kid like ur own kid

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go ahead gurl, there is nothing wrong wit that

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Nothing wrong with it, provided he's single.

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i can marry a single daddy as long as his ex-wife is dead,if dey r divorced no way cos i dont know d circumstance dat caused d divorce n i wount want a situation were d ex-wife would come n be payin un announced visits 2 see her kids n suspect me wen it comes 2 her kids.i wouldnt also want sibling rivalry btw my kids n anoda womans child wen dey grow up

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I honestly do not get the gist here- are sigle parents supposed to remain single for the rest of their lives? It's really up to you though- if you can handle it, why not? I am a single dad of a womderful three year old bundle of energy, and I am the one repelling the single ladies, so what's your point? ALL my friends gt to meet my boi LONG before the 'relationship' stage!

Yeah, I have a chick call it off 'cos of my status, but MEN I know send am! If she was meant to be mine, I for don marry!

Q.E.D

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SEUN, you are a suspect in this thread

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To advice u better u have to let us know why he is a single daddy and from how many gyls he had his babies if more than one.

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theres nothing wrong with marring a single dad, just be sure his child/children are ok with it, if not u might ve a hard time

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There is nothing wrong with marrying a single daddy with kids if it is love compatibility and matchable characters to raise kids as your own.

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I dont think you should, especially if you dont have one yourself

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nothing wrong, but i won't marry a guy with more than one child

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Still on my point-der is nattin wrng with IT.

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Why can't we just keep our own mentality?

Why must we think that the way we think and do things are always wrong? That's the kind of attitude that keeps us in bondage still.

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The greatest challenge is if the kid's mother is still intrested or wish to frustrate you.

If that is out of it, no big deal as far as one is ready to love the kid.

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Cut the story, what's wrong bout it?

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@ laeti wats up gal am from congo too but i don't speak d language

am sorry about wats happend jus keep ur head up high and keep walkin.

If u want my msn its soldierruth@hotmail.co.uk or my yahoo im is black_beauty_gal@yahoo.com stay cool yh

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what's happening in here?

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Nuttin wrong with it! If his kids accepts u no probs---

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@ radiant am gud thanx and u

Yeah my prayers av bn heard, its workin out good

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ah ah Radiant and Rubbermaid aint u guys gonna stop arguin

U mite aswell ignore each other

do u guys no that u av somtin in common ur names starts with "R"

So get over it and make up!!!

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I've dealt with a lot of your kind on NL. It don' cost me no sweat to recognize your type and put you where you belong.

Now, go get busy!

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Yeah. Whatever. I guess it's real cute to be an Bottom these days *bored yawning*

I know it's hard for dogs to do but please try not to follow me. I'm done with you - burp.

- and now, I'm off to other things. Thank you very much.

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@rubbermaid, I've already made my point. Don't twist it!!!

About the dog, it's gon be on my profile for people like you to drool over its Bottom.

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its not wrong, if u re in love wit d man, wat u gt to do is love d child like ur own

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To me it isn't wrong to marry a single daddy if there is compatibility and u know u can love and care for the number on kids he has.

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@Rubbermaid

that was funny.

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just be sure what ur getting into

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A very close friend of mine was involved in NYSC love tango and her gf became pregnant.

They had an easy way out which most people would have taken - ABORTION!

He cried for days without end at the Corpers Lodge, But we are christians , never to abort a child we can not create and add sin to sin , and he had the child from an unexpected source. He tried all that is possible to marry the girl, the millionaire parents refused calling him all sorts of names including gold diggers and so he became a single daddy, the boy is now 15 years old on scholarship in Oxford University UK. One of the best talented wonder kids I ve ever seen. He is a single daddy, the lady he wanted to marry turned him down because of the boy,,,,,,,,,,,,and she lost out . Now he is a speaker in one of the state house of assemblies and all women wants to marry him, including the mother of the child whos been through divorce.

Circumstances force a guy or girl to become single parent, it should not reduce their humanity and capacity to love nd be loved.

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do u think ucan luv his children as yours??/////////////////////////////////////////////

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Beauty, no worries.

Sup with ya?

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If u really love him then go ahead.

But get ready to go through challenges

Good luck

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Hmmmmmmmmmmmm,

It feels funny when people analyse single parents. I'm a single parent with a boy and a girl. My wife passed away, so i became a single parent through circumstances completely beyond my control.

My advice to the poster of this topic would be to look at her decision from to viewpoints.

1. Can you take care of his kids as if they were yours?

2. Do you really love this person.

In all honesty, the 1st point is more important than the 2nd one. The most important thing to that guy right now and for a very long time to come, will be the welfare of his kid/s. It is only when he is at peace with their welfare, then he can allow himself to get involved emotionally. We all know how kids get treated by some evil step mothers and no man wants to put his children through that. The way to his heart would be his children. If you can love his children, he will do ANYTHING for you. And trust me, he'll treat you lot better than a fresh bachelor will. He already knows what to do. Nothing wrong as far as i'm concerned. I hope this helps.

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What if the first wife return?

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i don't know why we always talk and pick offences about the men folk.

i think topics like this should be uni sex, i.e. IS IT WRONG TO MARRY A SINGLE PARENT?

NOW BACK TO THE QUESTION,

I am a lady and wont be biased in this, i see nothing wrong in marrying a single daddy, in as much that i am aware of this before dating him.

all that matters is understanding, trust, mutual love and respect.

in as much as the guy is truthful i c nothing wrong in it. it is just because we are selfish , always wanting our children to be the heir apparent.

what if i have a child in my teen age, wont i see a guy to marry me, or because i have a child is it a crime or a pre-requsite for not marrying.

i think we should be more civil and accept/ embrace other people like ours.

a single parent , may be a divorcee, a widow/ widower, or youthful exhurbetance.

using the recent plane crash/ accidents as an example, wont their spouse start over their lives again, or how do u tell a young widow/widower of 30 years of age to remain single till Christ comes.

all that matters is LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, TRUST IN ISSUES LIKE THIS.

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I dont think anything is wrong in marryinf a single dad, so far u two love each other and ur ready to take care of his kid, go ahead

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wat d heck is wrong with getting married 2 a guy with a kid or kid.if u ppl flow there is nuthin absolutely wrong

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A single father or mother may be a widow, a divorcee, or a victim of sexual assault or teenage stupidity. Those are not crimes that deserve a lifetime of punishment. Even if the parent deserves such punishment, the child does not.

I'm not a single father, neither am I a single mother, but I just don't see the wisdom in avoiding a good partner just because he/she has a child. Don't marry them because of "love" but because of compatibility.

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i don't c anythin wrong wit marryin or datin a single daddy if u luv him enuff and can handle his child then wat d hell go ahead

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babe, i dont think its wrong, because single daddy is better than those play boy. but be assure its not sugar daddy. and provided u can love his children like urs. not that wen u have ur own, u will now start discrminating. And be ready to face any challenges anytime. But if u can make persevarance, truth, love and oneness ur friend, be assure victory is urs and u will surely laugh.

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it is very wrong to marry a single daddy. there is no way u will treat is child like yours.

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Single Daddy, What about his Wife?, How many Kids?(Not Really An Issue), DO You Love Him to face anything in future? Pls answer this question sincerly then i believe the answer to yourquestion is in it.

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mine has one kid, dont really love the idea, but i love the guy so i ve got to love and accept his kid, the kid by the way is the cutest evr!

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if you guys are compatible and love each other then go ahead and marry him.

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hell no its not wrong . . .

if you love him enuff to date him do so . .

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we naija need to adjust our mentality, for real. quit all that widows and single father poo. Now, wat tha hell wrong with single daddy?

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Single daddy with how many kids?

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If the single daddy is loving, mature, intelligent, and wealthy, then he's better than most men without children.

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