I think nothing is wrong with [marrying a single daddy]. What do you guys think?
i can marry a single daddy as long as his ex-wife is dead,if dey r divorced no way cos i dont know d circumstance dat caused d divorce n i wount want a situation were d ex-wife would come n be payin un announced visits 2 see her kids n suspect me wen it comes 2 her kids.i wouldnt also want sibling rivalry btw my kids n anoda womans child wen dey grow up
I honestly do not get the gist here- are sigle parents supposed to remain single for the rest of their lives? It's really up to you though- if you can handle it, why not? I am a single dad of a womderful three year old bundle of energy, and I am the one repelling the single ladies, so what's your point? ALL my friends gt to meet my boi LONG before the 'relationship' stage!
Yeah, I have a chick call it off 'cos of my status, but MEN I know send am! If she was meant to be mine, I for don marry!
A very close friend of mine was involved in NYSC love tango and her gf became pregnant.
They had an easy way out which most people would have taken - ABORTION!
He cried for days without end at the Corpers Lodge, But we are christians , never to abort a child we can not create and add sin to sin , and he had the child from an unexpected source. He tried all that is possible to marry the girl, the millionaire parents refused calling him all sorts of names including gold diggers and so he became a single daddy, the boy is now 15 years old on scholarship in Oxford University UK. One of the best talented wonder kids I ve ever seen. He is a single daddy, the lady he wanted to marry turned him down because of the boy,,,,,,,,,,,,and she lost out . Now he is a speaker in one of the state house of assemblies and all women wants to marry him, including the mother of the child whos been through divorce.
Circumstances force a guy or girl to become single parent, it should not reduce their humanity and capacity to love nd be loved.
It feels funny when people analyse single parents. I'm a single parent with a boy and a girl. My wife passed away, so i became a single parent through circumstances completely beyond my control.
My advice to the poster of this topic would be to look at her decision from to viewpoints.
1. Can you take care of his kids as if they were yours?
2. Do you really love this person.
In all honesty, the 1st point is more important than the 2nd one. The most important thing to that guy right now and for a very long time to come, will be the welfare of his kid/s. It is only when he is at peace with their welfare, then he can allow himself to get involved emotionally. We all know how kids get treated by some evil step mothers and no man wants to put his children through that. The way to his heart would be his children. If you can love his children, he will do ANYTHING for you. And trust me, he'll treat you lot better than a fresh bachelor will. He already knows what to do. Nothing wrong as far as i'm concerned. I hope this helps.
i don't know why we always talk and pick offences about the men folk.
i think topics like this should be uni sex, i.e. IS IT WRONG TO MARRY A SINGLE PARENT?
NOW BACK TO THE QUESTION,
I am a lady and wont be biased in this, i see nothing wrong in marrying a single daddy, in as much that i am aware of this before dating him.
all that matters is understanding, trust, mutual love and respect.
in as much as the guy is truthful i c nothing wrong in it. it is just because we are selfish , always wanting our children to be the heir apparent.
what if i have a child in my teen age, wont i see a guy to marry me, or because i have a child is it a crime or a pre-requsite for not marrying.
i think we should be more civil and accept/ embrace other people like ours.
a single parent , may be a divorcee, a widow/ widower, or youthful exhurbetance.
using the recent plane crash/ accidents as an example, wont their spouse start over their lives again, or how do u tell a young widow/widower of 30 years of age to remain single till Christ comes.
all that matters is LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, TRUST IN ISSUES LIKE THIS.
A single father or mother may be a widow, a divorcee, or a victim of sexual assault or teenage stupidity. Those are not crimes that deserve a lifetime of punishment. Even if the parent deserves such punishment, the child does not.
I'm not a single father, neither am I a single mother, but I just don't see the wisdom in avoiding a good partner just because he/she has a child. Don't marry them because of "love" but because of compatibility.
babe, i dont think its wrong, because single daddy is better than those play boy. but be assure its not sugar daddy. and provided u can love his children like urs. not that wen u have ur own, u will now start discrminating. And be ready to face any challenges anytime. But if u can make persevarance, truth, love and oneness ur friend, be assure victory is urs and u will surely laugh.