Taiwo is a childhood friend and we have alot in common, including our love for cars and good women.
He hasn't been himself lately and after serious probing, i was able to get him to tell me his worries.
The following is his story,his experience with his fiancee.
He is scared of going ahead with the wedding,
Well, I looked at her again from her head to the shoes on her feet (been doing alot of that lately).
Her hairdo seemed so artificial; I recall she used Indian hemp for months just to recover her fast balding head at a time.
What she had on surely couldn’t have been real hair, this must be attachment.
My eyes took in every detail carefully resting for a while on her chest, heavy breasted really but sagged when Unclad.
She was probably wearing two padded bras or could she have had an implant so soon?
I wonder if she's thesame lady i fell in love with in school and was crazy about.
At 28 she already lacks the build of a maiden, not that she is one anyway.
At least I wasn’t the first that tasted from the pudding.
News has it that she dated most of the directors to get to the top of the marketing department of her office,i don't really listen to rumors.
I do know she was Professor Akinbogun's favorite student in her days at the University, i know she spent alot of time in his house.
It was understandable, his wife was away in the UK for years and he needed someone to help do the chores for him.
Even then we were yet to really start off as lovers.
It was her affection for the registrar that got me asking questions then and it almost brought our relationship to an end.
To think that she could cheat on me after all we'd been through or sleep with lecturers to earn good grades.
Although we’ve had our ups and downs in years past, I still owe a lot to her.
That I still love her is what I haven’t given much thought.
I have always longed for a working woman for a wife, who would help in meeting the demands of society and cater alongside me for the good things of life.
A woman that would support me like the biblical Eve to Adam, my missing rib.
Or how else would I conveniently make monthly payments for the lease on my Elantra or the mortgage of the posh apartment where I live?
She has really been supportive; life wouldn’t have been this easy without her many financial rewards.
She's a career woman, one who is vested with so much office responsibility?
Has a chauffeur driven official car at her disposal and a fat salary and allowances for effect?
It is sometimes appalling when i have to clear the dining table for her when she’s done having her meal and sometimes washing the dishes too since she has to answer one of her many official calls.
That i have to wait endlessly for her to come home from work since she is the centre of attraction in her office meetings.
At times she may not be so high and mighty in her place of work but the long hours would have had its toll on her you could turn out to a victim of her frustration.
Probably she has some male subordinates under her command and the use of strict tone and authoritative language has become her bane.
Now she accords me less respect than she used to, it’s not her fault really.
Reuben, her office assistant has shown in no small way that men could be very silly at times and me the prey for it.
I've become so confused with her newfound ways and the past is haunting me too.
Would you still want to go ahead with the wedding kif you were in my shoes?
Do you think my hard earned income should be poured down the drain in paying for igniting a time bomb that will soon bring down the foundations of my home?
Shouldn’t i rather settle for a young undergraduate and sponsor her though school rather than this domineering fiancée who doesn’t mean well for me?
Or better still, a secondary school leaver who knows the intricacies of house care, food management and finances.
Do you have any similar experience you want to share?
Whats your opinion, do you think he’ll be a fool to think twice?