My husband is a flirt and known for it by my family and his. He impregnated a girl and had a baby outside. I have tried to talk it out with him but he has refused to change. Recently I met a guy and one thing led to the other and we fell in love. My knowing him made me to worry less about my flirting husband cos now, I care less wherever or whenever he goes and comes, i have even found making love uninteresting with my husband. This new guy kisses and romances me but we have not the main thing anyway. But I am afraid cos my husband's tradition is against this, what should i do? Is this adultery already?