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Males, whats up with u and ur mothers

Yeah i know ya mama brought you up and all, but do u guys have to bring her into the picture everytime.

Most guys i've met are always like "my mother said i shdnt do this", my mama expects it like this, "mama will tell me when to buy a car" " i'll talk tomy mum abt it ............ its quite discouraging.

Personally, am a real daddy's girl but i consciously try not to bring it into my r/ship or marriage.

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this is serious! the only time i remember bonding with my mum was when i was a kid, now adays wefight and argue over everything, we are not really even close friends, i respecther though.

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Well its perfectly normal for a guy to bond with his mom and a girl her dad.Infact i think the reason most men abuse females is because of a lack of bonding with their mothers.Because every woman out there will represent your mom in one way or another.Of course there is always an exception to the rule.

Still i guess it takes understanding , maturity and discipline to know where to draw the line.

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I know a girl who divorced her husband. He took her money and usually gave to his mother. She was the breadwinner or worked for most of the income.

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Leave and cleave.

A man shall leave mother and father and cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh.

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Wotevaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....hahahahah thanx for the laugh...

Whats up with yah?...holla.....

wouldnt be bad to pick u up eh...lol just kidding

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trust me when it comes to that, ur on point....My mum is one hell of a arrogant lady....she's got the dough and she's pretty.........she's not fussy about class at all but u gotta be on point....pretty, well-taken care of and educated. Did I forget u gotta be tall?....lol cos she's like 5'10 pretty tall for a lady huh?.....btw am 6'4/6'5....so!!

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LOL LOL LOL....are u trying to mess with a brotha?....Wants the best for me really?...yeah right.

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Nothing you could say can tear me away from my Mama,

Nothing u could do, cos I'm stuck like glue to my Mama....

I am sticking to my mama like a stamp to a letter......

Certified Mummy's boi, spoiled brat here!!!

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.......Or u mean a mad man?

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You ladies just wait till you have a son and then we'll see, because i'm sure you'll do the same thing you're complaining about here

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I don't think traditional (Yoruba) Nigerian daddies care about bonding with their children. They just want to flog them when they make mistakes, and hear "yes daddy" whenever they bark out their orders.

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I guess my daddy has broken the rules ohh MR. ADMIN!

He's the sweetest man ever, Im not saying this cos 'he's my dad'/

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Well... i don't really know. I guess it's just like how we girls bonds with our daddies. But one thing is that, we don't talk abt it as those boys do.

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No i disagree. In reality , its the other way round.

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I don't think that is true. Sure, in movies that seems to be the case, but I think in real life, the vast majority of wives get along with their mothers-in-law.

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If thats a criteria for marriage, alot of guys won't be married today because most wives to be and mother-in-laws do not get along.

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I don't see why a guy can't set as a criterion for the woman he marries that she gets along with his mom.

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Tell her o.

But seriously, i don't think a guy should always drag his mum's opinion in every decision he makes. Especially if he is married. I have a friend who said no matter how much he loves a girl, if she didnt get along with his mother, he wasnt going to marry her.

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I dislike those kind of mummies boy...ther ae also called girly-boiz....i as a matter of fact dont put my mum in my personal affairs cos it shows dependence..

Infact some married men are so close to their mum dat ,the old woman knows how her son makes love to his wife...and all those kind of balderdash...poo!!! i detest guys like dat

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Abi o,i just dey wonder

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