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My Friend Is Dying,how Do I Deal With It?

Two days ago,my very close family friend was dignose with liver cancer and is giving six months to live.

Since then i've not being myself,most of our friends and family have either called or gone to see

him,i can't bring myself to do either one.

Been isolated,can't stop crying,am mad @ cancer for choosing to take him away from us,the doctors

for giving him a death sentence,and him for being the victim.I am so broken hearted.

Just need to talk to somebody.

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You need to pull urself together and see him.

He needs u now more than ever.

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Sorry to hear. I think you should go see him. You wont forgive yourself for not spending time with him, if he doesn't live beyond the 6 months.

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Deal with it by being a friend. Make him happy till the last daya then you can face your grief, right now its not about you but about your friend

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So sorry for your friend. He shouldn't calmly accept a 6 months to live verdict. There are folks who've been told the same and lived for years. Poor poor guy. Please be a rock for him. This isn't about you.

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With God all things are possible. I suggest you pray for him as there is nothing God cannot do, with faith you can move mountains.

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No he can't,it already spread beyond his liver.

Thank you guys so very much for your support.

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he cant get a liver transplant?

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Outstrip said it all. Quit being so selfish and go see your friend. How you think hes dealing? He wants to see you.

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Nairalanders won't do anything for you.

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You need to go see your friend ASAP. If you are having a hard time dealing with it then he should be feeling even worse. Forget about how you feel for now and go see your friend

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if you need to talk to somebody, talk to your husband

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I can't even Begin to imagine what you are feeling. I am so sorry. It's not the easiest thing in the world to deal with.

Hard i have lost a best friend too, I know what you are feeling but such is life we all must die

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