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No Parternal Family, What Of You?

I am not ashamed to say this and i can say it anywhere that i dont have parternal family. What is in a family that dont care about your existence, they are just too wicked, just because my old man married my mum and change to a christian. I hate them all, i refused attending my grand mum burial, because i dont want to have anything to do with any of them. What do u think?

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if you've noticed these things, dont just assume its your imagination.  And dont assume because they are family, therefore things will somehow work out okay. it doesnt always turn out like that. Its true some family members can hate with a passion, and sometimes its just better to stay away from people bent on pulling you down.

Its really bad that people will carry grudges for decades, simply because they have issues with someone's choice of spouse. it does happen.

You can forgive them so you dont live with malice in your heart, but still be careful. You dont really have to force yourself to be close just because you feel obligated to.

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Thank u all for your concern, i've tried so much to be close to them and accept them the way they are, but the more closer i get along the more harmful they become. I think they are hating us the way they hate my mum.

I dont like pretending, so its better to be far away from them than to be closer and pretend as if everything is ok.

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i agree with everything Siena said.

Hate is a harsh word, but do u really hate them, or are u just angry. It takes a bigger person to forgive, i dont know what ur paternal family did to u, but please find it in ur heart to forgive them, as we are all human, and do make mistakes.

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good for u, if htey dont care for u leave them alone. htey will hurt u before they help u. jus tmake sure that history does not repeat itself, hwen u have ur own family

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They are still your family. You should at least have some kind of relationship with some of them. Yes, they made a mistake. . .have they apologized? It's better to at least keep in touch with like one or two that you can get along with. you can't forget about them all.

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